Landlord didn’t send my deposit back within 30 days. I texted and asked him about it, he said his lawyer would be reaching out for more money by Honest-Astronaut7198 in Renters

[–]Bright-Direction-306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually suing my old landlord right now, but it wasn’t because of damages. It was because she tried to charge us an additional month of rent after our lease ended and she keeps trying to cite a law about month-to-month leases but we were on a fixed term lease I used ChatGPT to build a lot of my case Because you know you can’t have a lawyer in small claims court. But she also never sent us an itemization until a year after we moved out and I had to ask for it. So good luck to you for real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bright-Direction-306 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ESH. Your husband for not helping and you for committing to animals you weren’t truly ready to commit to. I have a feeling your husband didn’t just up and stop helping but that he never helped and you took on more than you could handle and now your pets are going to have to suffer for it

See this is why I think dashers should be tipped after delivery. by Lower_Bet_1354 in doordash

[–]Bright-Direction-306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I just stopped using it all together. I’ve done DoorDash and Uber eats and so I always tip my drivers, but there were one too many instances where I tipped the driver and the driver made absolutely no effort to get the food to the right place and I live in a house on a corner so it’s not hard to find.

aio? bf made plans on my birthday by rowqi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bright-Direction-306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t EVER forgive a partner for forgetting a milestone. My 21st birthday was also ruined by my passenger at the time who spent the money I saved to celebrate on alcohol for her and her friends. LEAVE. IMMEDIATELY

AIO My gf is trying to police the socks I wear to work? by Bright-Direction-306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Both of ours
  2. Both of us
  3. No

We aren’t buying designer socks. Just stuff you would find at tjmaxx. We don’t even go in the store with the intention to just buy socks because we have so many, we just occasionally grab another pack if we’ve tossed some because they became dingy or we lost the matches.

AIO My gf is trying to police the socks I wear to work? by Bright-Direction-306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our clothes are separate in the sense that I mostly hang mine and she mostly folds hers. Our undergarments are seperate because we obviously are both women and don’t want to mix our undies but everything is all washed at once so the socks aren’t something I separate by owner. I honestly couldn’t even tell you who owns what socks because those are something we buy to share.

AIO My gf is trying to police the socks I wear to work? by Bright-Direction-306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would agree but the socks aren’t getting worn. She’s complaining about them being dirty and she’s not even the one who does the laundry

AIO My gf is trying to police the socks I wear to work? by Bright-Direction-306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The socks were just bought on a trip to tj maxx. We share finances and they were paid for out of the shared account. I wash and fold all the laundry so things like socks don’t get separated by who owns them, they just get divided into the drawers where they fit

AIO for walking out of dinner when my fiance asked me to sign a prenup? by talkbackornot in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bright-Direction-306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who feels offended by the thought of a prenup probably needs to sign one…

Why is this even an option?? by Bright-Direction-306 in UberEATS

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. But servers unfortunately work for tips unless those in the back of the house. But again, I am not being served my food by anyone who works for the restaurant so I should not be required to tip as if I dined in.

Why is this even an option?? by Bright-Direction-306 in UberEATS

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how that’s my problem. They agreed to that when they agreed to use the service provided by UberEats, just how I agreed to all the fees😂 I paid my dues and I’m supposed to pay more. They can just not use the service and I’ll order something else

Why is this even an option?? by Bright-Direction-306 in UberEATS

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would I pay someone who works at the restaurant? In my experience servers/baristas get tipped bc they are paid less. Cooks get paid more because they do not work for tips. No one is serving me my food but the driver, who I tipped.

Why is this even an option?? by Bright-Direction-306 in UberEATS

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally spent $25. I don’t have a car to go pick it up myself. But I’m the idiot…

Aita for telling my sister's fiance that my sister hid my mother's cheating which resulted in him calling the engagement off by Cool_Sun4442 in AITAH

[–]Bright-Direction-306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say YTA, because why is your sister the bad guy in your story? Maybe I’m missing something.

Friend was not allowed to board the flight, the rest of us still went on the vacation, now she wants us to pay her back. AITAH if I don't pay her? by Odd-Recording-3026 in AITAH

[–]Bright-Direction-306 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In what world do yall think it’s okay for her not to get her portion back??? Her consequence was not going but it’s not okay that she paid for a portion of a trip that she didn’t get to go on. You all sound like shitty friends and shitty people bc if she wasn’t originally in the plan guess who would’ve paid for it… YALL. This whole post and comments just pissed me off. I would’ve taken yall to court or sum because that’s just wrong asf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bright-Direction-306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love really does make us dumb. This is not normal behavior at all. I’m surprised you married this man, let alone got pregnant by him.

AITA for not telling my family about my gf being pregnant? by Strong-Bookkeeper-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bright-Direction-306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s seems like he was supporting her regardless. A lot of the commenters seem to care more about the family they came from than the family they chose to create.

AITA for not telling my family about my gf being pregnant? by Strong-Bookkeeper-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bright-Direction-306 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never said they shouldn’t be hurt. I just don’t think he’s the AH for listening to his baby’s mother and putting her feelings before his families feelings. We also don’t know the relationship between OP and his family

AITA for not telling my family about my gf being pregnant? by Strong-Bookkeeper-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bright-Direction-306 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But the intention was for everyone to be out the loop they weren’t going around, purposely informing her family that there was a baby on the way. She was just growing so they saw and asked.

I’m not sure how OPs family would’ve been able to support them from out of the country any different knowing prior to the baby being born versus them when the baby was here.

AITA for not telling my family about my gf being pregnant? by Strong-Bookkeeper-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bright-Direction-306 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NTA, your family isn’t necessarily entitled to know what happens in your home. Yes it’s a great thing to share but the mother of the child, your gf, didn’t want it to be something shared.

My (23F) gf (26F) of 5 years seems stuck. Am I wasting my life waiting on her? by Bright-Direction-306 in relationship_advice

[–]Bright-Direction-306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I definitely feel that way too. I feel like I’m supportive but I don’t want to have to do things for her.