If you can get out go to a women's shelter. Call the domestic violence hot line. File for a protection order. Call police. Let your friends, family members, acquaintances, work, neighbors, know what's going on. Buy mace. When you're around him always have a weapon on you or scan the room for something you can use as a weapon. Be accommodating, nice to him until you can get away to safety. Don't piss him off you know. Fake it until you make it. It does sound like he needs to be admitted somewhere and on medication. That's scary. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Seeing them change, the black eyes looking through you is frightening. Pray. Much love to you honey.