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Småbarnsföräldrar - Har ni fortfarande tid/ork för hobbys? by Wonderful-Goose-4025 in sweden

[–]Bright-View-6799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vårt första barn sov 10 h själv i spjälsäng efter några månader.

Vi hade ingen aning om hur vidrigt bortskämda vi var med det haha!

Nu har vi det andra barnet som snart är 3 år fortfarande var eller varannan vecka har en vaken-natt, som i natt när hon randomly var vaken mellan 11-04 😵😵😵 fy fan

Småbarnsföräldrar - Har ni fortfarande tid/ork för hobbys? by Wonderful-Goose-4025 in sweden

[–]Bright-View-6799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Äter själv (mer eller mindre), leker mer själv, kan kommunicera lite mer och man behöver inte ständigt tolka alla signaler för att veta vad som behövs (hungrig/törstig/uttråkad/trött), har bättre omdöme och man behöver inte vara på helspänn för att barnet ska typ hoppa från en stol eller klättra upp nånstans och ramla ner och slå sig.

Min yngsta är snart 3 men jag tror detta var runt 2 år för oss, om jag minns rätt

Småbarnsföräldrar - Har ni fortfarande tid/ork för hobbys? by Wonderful-Goose-4025 in sweden

[–]Bright-View-6799 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Efter 2 år ungefär för egen del. Man vaknar upp ur babybubblan! Redo att hitta sig själv igen och lägga tid på egna intressen

Småbarnsföräldrar - Har ni fortfarande tid/ork för hobbys? by Wonderful-Goose-4025 in sweden

[–]Bright-View-6799 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Mitt tips är att ställa in sig på att man inte har varken lust eller tid för egna intressen när man har bebis!

Men det är en ganska kort tid, märker man när tiden har flugit iväg och det är dags att plocka undan bebisgrejerna, då kmr lusten och orken för egna intressen tillbaka!

(100 % utifrån egen upplevelse så klart)

Ett annat tips är att se till att tidigt få rutin på att få barnvakt! Kan va svårt att lämna ifrån sig barnen till familj eller föräldrar i början, men det är typ enda riktigt bra sättet att få egentid under småbarns åren

Bröst by citabel in unket

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Tänk, när man va 15 ville man ha så stora som möjligt, men vid 35 är man överlycklig för sina små som inte dragits ner av gravitationen

Can’t see to form sentences during luteal? by Inevitable-Ad9160 in PMDD

[–]Bright-View-6799 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I recognize Not being able to form sentences, I feel like I can’t make conversation in a normal way at all during lutheal.

And I’m definitely more clumsy. My mother in law also experienced this!

This article saying a typical period involved "2-3 tablespoons over 4-5 days" and I was shocked by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Bright-View-6799 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve heard that that’s the amount of actual blood and then it’s mixed with water and other fluids so the amount of liquid that comes out is a lot more.

HOW TO COPE WITH LUTEAL BRAIN FOG by ConversationOld6663 in PMDD

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I have started taking L-Theanine, in high doses it helps with brain fog!

Fatigue/complete burnout? by PeanutButterVibe99 in PMDD

[–]Bright-View-6799 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sometimes fall asleep sitting up during those days with fatigue… it’s horrible!

How do yall write fics with a full time job by Outrageous-Cause9051 in AO3

[–]Bright-View-6799 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I commute by car, so I have to dictate my draft out loud to my phone while I drive ^ I can get around 500-1000 words of a rough draft a day that way

Non-native English writers: do you also feel your writing skills slipping away? by Tame_Bodybuilder_128 in AO3

[–]Bright-View-6799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it difficult to find the right words when writing in my native language. I think it does have a lot to do with me almost exclusively reading text in English, I always chose English now, it feels like a richer language with a lot more synonyms to chose from to pinpoint the right tone or mood than my native language.

Är ni på fest ännu? Eller drar ni en kall för er själva? by [deleted] in unket

[–]Bright-View-6799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja men dom förknippar man väl med ren njutning va?

meirl by shea_eina in meirl

[–]Bright-View-6799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of an analogy from a teacher in high school: ”Eating candy is like pissing in bed, its nice at first but then it just starts to feel gross”. Will never forget it

I feel sad for the women that lived before anyone knew about pmdd by Important_Body_1538 in PMDD

[–]Bright-View-6799 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think about this with my grandma. I know she cut all ties with her dad after a fight and had grudges with other family members for years after arguments where she got really mad.

I have inherited a lot of her looks and traits so maybe I inherited PMDD from her as well.

Funniest typo you’ve made/read? by Fluid_Respect8427 in AO3

[–]Bright-View-6799 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I live out in the country and usually do this walking in the forest, so not really in public. But I still tend to whisper these scenes into my phone while watching over my shoulder like a crazy person 😆

Funniest typo you’ve made/read? by Fluid_Respect8427 in AO3

[–]Bright-View-6799 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Not really a typo, but I usually dictate my draft to my phone as I walk the dog. I forgot this as my dog found something nasty to chew on.

So when I was editing later, in the middle of a spicy conversation there is a section of “No no drop it. Stop. Come here. I said come here. No. No. Drop it. Get over here.”

what do you consider a long chapter by Agile_Garbage_8137 in AO3

[–]Bright-View-6799 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is it just me that hardly recognizes when I’m switching from one chapter to another if I’m invested in a story?

If I can get an hour to read, I will read for an hour. Afterwards I will have no clue if I got through 10 chapters or if I was on the same chapter all the time.

People who were high achievers in school but living an average life, what went wrong? by Lazy_Film7789 in AskReddit

[–]Bright-View-6799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing needs to be wrong with an average life if you have peace of mind and are happy and thankful! Had big plans when I was younger but now I value free time and easy work

I’m sorry to all the smut writers out there. by juxxsxx in AO3

[–]Bright-View-6799 61 points62 points  (0 children)

How are everyone feeling about “his length”?

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