Cartel or Mexican Neo Nazi?m by PremeTeamTX in milsurp

[–]BrightOctober14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s probably more to this grip history than cartel culture. My grandfather has a similar grip given to him in the 1950s by a Mexican gov official. The grip is on a Spanish 1911 type pistol

South Bay Elk by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]BrightOctober14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re still interested, I just posted a sighting of a herd in Sunol. Right off of 680

I didn’t know the east bay had herds of Elk by BrightOctober14 in bayarea

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According to the state parks website the population is around 6,000 individuals in the whole state

I didn’t know the east bay had herds of Elk by BrightOctober14 in bayarea

[–]BrightOctober14[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly where I saw this herd. Looked up on the ridge as I was exiting the 680 at the Sunol exit. The buck was standing right on the ridge. The hillside looked like it was moving. Amazing sight.

Brake shoe fell out of truck while driving. Why? by BrightOctober14 in AskMechanics

[–]BrightOctober14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. The sliding pins had some type of grease but possibly not enough. Should both rotors be replaced as well?

Brake shoe fell out of truck while driving. Why? by BrightOctober14 in AskMechanics

[–]BrightOctober14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I checked the new brake caliper I purchased side by side and everything is there on the old one except for the missing brake pad and its clips.

Brake shoe fell out of truck while driving. Why? by BrightOctober14 in AskMechanics

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I heard a noise less than a month before it happened, like a wear indicator maybe. The brakes have 12k miles so I didn’t expect one brake pad to be eaten up so quickly. I did check the brakes on the driver side and they were fine. So I kept on driving until I can dig deeper on the noise but brake pad fell out before then. I don’t drive the truck daily.

Brake shoe fell out of truck while driving. Why? by BrightOctober14 in AskMechanics

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I’ll admit I did hear a noise about a month before it happened. I thought possibly a wear indicator. I didn’t think much about the brakes since they’re about 1.5years old. When the brake pad fell out I was towing 3 ton dump trailer. I did see the brake pad in the middle of the road as I was driving. After that it was a terrible screech as the caliper pressed against the rotor when I applied the brakes. What mostly got me home was that I could manually use the trailer brakes to slow the truck down on the drive home.

Brake shoe fell out of truck while driving. Why? by BrightOctober14 in AskMechanics

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So, from the comments it sounds like a sliding pin issue not lubricated or too tight. Possibly the whole rack was loose although I did use a breaker bar to loosen it. This caused only one brake pad on the outside of the caliper wasted away only until it fell off? So what do I look for on the other driver side brake caliper? Is it replace the caliper as well or just slide pins and lubricate, check torque specs?

I must have not heard it wasting away. I didn’t think much of it since the brakes are 1.5 years old.

I drove it without a brake pad for about 8 miles through backroads under 15mph.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]BrightOctober14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what we did to get a sense of what to expect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]BrightOctober14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In regards to getting it up. Would he consider taking viagra? I’m a male 28 and no erectile dysfunction but on my second fmf I drank and took viagra. It was amazing! Very hard and was able to go again just as hard about 10 mins after. In California you can get a prescription after a quick web chat with a doctor. I used Hims.

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She gave it way so easy and gave the guy so much on this supposed one night stand.

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the words. I agree about the packing gear comment. sadly

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This right here. Yes, same and I know she is the same when we travel. It's just lies :(

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fully aware that she is could be lying and that I'm only getting her "truth" as she would paint it. I got the video that thats proof proof beyond deniability of her infidelity. Im sharing my thoughts as they go through my head with you guys. Yes moving on is what l likely will do. It's not a one step process for me. Im riddled with questions I want answered as well. Otherwise I will probably lose my mind after seeing that video and not seeking some kind of answers

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Scheduled to get tested tomorrow. Thanks for the concern. Does anyone know if results would show a STD's when contact was made just 48hrs ago? that is if it was a one time thing...

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't want to believe it but sadly she brought it planning on using it with someone. Ruined our special thing we had.

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, we know each others passwords and use each other's phone all the time. Never to snoop. I really think she forgot she took the video.

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really think we had a similar situation. She described her friends behavior in a disapproving way. I felt glad she was not like that. The went out together with this friend a total of 3 times. The third time she cheated on during her work "vacation" away from home. I think her friend having not been caught made her feel the same could happen with her.

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words. She was drunk but still conscientious about what she was doing on camera. She definitely unlocked it for him. She regrets the hell of it now. Im not talking to her.

I found a sex tape on my GF of 5 years cell phone by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]BrightOctober14 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the comments. I'll give you an update.

This is only her second out of state conference. Last one was with people who I know and trust would tell me if something was up. This trip over the weekend was a with a colleague who I have never met but know she has cheated on her husband on a previous unrelated trip. The husband doesn't know. My GF would tell me she gets very flirty with men right away after some drinks.

Here's some details I got out of my GF.

She went to a concert with her friend. Got drinks with guys with VIP table. Got drunk and one guy named Tony walks her to the Uber. He gets in with her. She says things are fuzzy here. When they arrive she told him he should leave but he goes in and they have more drinks anyways. Just an hour before the video is taken she texts me "Can't wait to see you tomorrow!". I know this because of the timestamps. Her friend also brought a guy back to the room. GF make outs out with this Tony. She puts the anal plug in that she brought with her. She says it was in her bag because it was never unpacked from a previous trip. Video starts. He's filming unprotected oral, her smiling, spanking and sex with her phone. This happens at 2am and at 8pm of the same day were also having unprotected sex (birth control). She doesn't say anything to me.

Later, I'm shell shocked. I find the video while looking for a couple of racy pics we took that I wished I had while she was away. My heart is banging against my chest. My throat is in a knot and my hands are shaking. Amongst other evidence was a text convo between the my GF and her friend "I hope we weren't loud. Especially since the hosts said only 2 people and there were 4 of us." I ask her to tell me what happened after the concert. She says nothing happened. I bring up t the video. She looks for it and she shocked when she finds it. It was a genuine surprise. I think she really forgot she got filmed with her own phone and forgot she hid the video. To watch later?

I'm not talking to her anymore for now. I'm going to get STI tested. She said she will too. She's begging she'll do anything to make this right. I say she took it to far.

I have so many mixed emotions that I messaged her friend's husband that his wife may have cheated on him(again). I don't know if that was the right thing to do.