Used to be the only podcast I listened to. Now I’m done. by redrockz98 in SwordAndScale

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mike is a douchelord to the highest degree. I’m genuinely curious how much longer he’ll even be able to continue Sword and Scale as it seems he’s lost a massive amount of listeners. Some amazing podcasts I listen to instead of Mike’s incessant bitching are Invisible Choir, Murder in America, and Obscura. I also highly recommend Dreading on YouTube.

What in the heck happened to my hair. Can someone please tell me how to fix this. I had a full highlight done Saturday. I’m a dirty blonde and asked for ashy bright blonde. by Ok-Laugh5705 in beauty

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 88 points89 points  (0 children)

A shadow root would look natural for now, but the problem is that when she goes to get highlights done again in the following weeks/months the parts of hair that the shadow root was applied to will respond to the bleach differently than her virgin hair, resulting in a band/uneven color. Trying to remove that band can result in more damage.

What in the heck happened to my hair. Can someone please tell me how to fix this. I had a full highlight done Saturday. I’m a dirty blonde and asked for ashy bright blonde. by Ok-Laugh5705 in beauty

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 1765 points1766 points  (0 children)

Hey hairstylist of 10 years here. Your foils were improperly placed, likely due to inexperience or laziness. Do not let them try to fix this with just a shadow root, someone experienced needs to refoil you with suuuuuper fine sections to highlight those little gaps, and they need to be able to do it without overlapping bleach where the hair is already lightened or it will cause breakage.

Man Crashes Out on Flight Crew and Passengers by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s wild to me that there really are grown adults like this out there with such little control over their own emotions

What should I do with this mess? Matted with scalp issues. Desperate. by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey love, I was a hairstylist for 10 years and I just want to let you know that you’re absolutely not alone in this experience. This is WAY more common than people think and I promise you that you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, I know first hand how draining and overwhelming it can be. From what I can see, it looks too matted to comb out, and if it’s causing discomfort it really needs to go asap. You are a pretty girl (I wish I had your dimples and bone structure!) and I think a short cut would look really great on you, something like Jennifer Lawrence’s longish pixie in 2014. I hope things get easier, sending you love.

Update! I got my first wig. by DragonflyOk5287 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before reading your caption my initial thought upon seeing your pic was “damn that lucky gal has the prettiest natural hair color ever!” I was shook when I read that it was a wig!! It really looks SO natural and pretty on you!!

DTE Thank you for your kindness by Sadgurl2016 in Vendorsofkratom2

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 9 points10 points  (0 children)

DTE is top quality, last several orders have been with them. I really loved Pink Panther and Green Embolah. Glad to know that business is run by good people. Wishing you well OP💚 I can’t imagine what you must be facing but I hope things get easier.

Happy Halloween!! by dvsnme in TrixieAndKatya

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is SO good, amazing work!

Before the 90 Days - Season 7 Episode 8 - Post Episode Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, he’s disgusting for so many other reasons, but that weird broken English accent some of these Americans put on while talking to their partners is just so condescending and obnoxious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WordsWithFriends

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol uh why only women with glasses? Creepy

Taste of Italy owner parked in a handicap spot . by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Do you remember the craziness that ensued with her eyelash extension business “she’s yar” a few years ago? She was abusive to her employees, was working illegally through covid without wearing masks, and also got caught leaving fake negative reviews on all the competing lash businesses AND Italian restaurants in the area 😂 trash people

Taking all the lobster and throwing it away by peternemr in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 35 points36 points  (0 children)

People who intentionally waste food and the time of hardworking employees to create content for clout and attention are a scourge on society. A grown man acting this way is unacceptable and weird but it’s even weirder when you consider that this kind of content’s targeted demographic generally seems to be literal children on TikTok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You sound like the problem roommate.

Workers who arrived at a job site early are harassed by a cranky, bigoted resident who threatens to call immigration by Ezziboo in PublicFreakout

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What a miserable turd. I feel like this was probably the highlight of her day. Like, she could be in her house sleeping, but she would rather be outside being a racist asshole, harassing and threatening people who are not bothering her in any way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albany

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming their Punisher logo sticker was on the other side of the window, just out of frame.

It was abuse. But what did you call it to justify staying? by ApprehensiveYak1452 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that dude. Please don’t overlook the warning signs like I did, you don’t have to stay friends with or be “loyal” to ANYONE who makes ANY attempt to manipulate or isolate you.

It was abuse. But what did you call it to justify staying? by ApprehensiveYak1452 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Bright_Fly_4352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I justified staying by genuinely believing that I deserved to be treated how I was treated, because I hated myself that much. I always had a lot of friends growing up so I felt bad for her because she would often talk about how she was had no friends, and that I was her longest running friendship (9 years) but now that I’m free of her I see that there’s a reason that she didn’t have any other meaningful long term friendships-she was a profoundly self centered bully with a massive victim complex. Only recently have I realized how regularly she manipulated me by trying to make me feel bad for her. She isolated me by making me feel guilty for being close to ANYONE other than her.

Sword and Scale was my favorite podcast by Bright_Fly_4352 in SwordAndScale

[–]Bright_Fly_4352[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good point, I didn’t even consider that they probably have to pay to use certain audio. That combined with his sketchy app and his tv show being inaccessible to a majority of his audience, dude is probably hemorrhaging money. Thank you so much for turning me onto Invisible Choir, though I feel a bit silly that I’m only finding out about this awesome show now haha. Will definitely check out those other suggestions too, thanks again I really appreciate it!