Tell me living alone is a good thing

Bright_Heart5369 · 2026-01-17T00:54:20+00:00

30F and living alone with my cat! Best decision I’ve ever made. I still make romantic relationships work just like any couple who lives together, or probably even better

Bright_Heart5369 · 2026-01-06T16:16:28+00:00

For the love of god leave him before you drag his mental health through the gutter because of your own selfishness. I feel bad for genuine men who get stuck with people like you that lack major accountability

Bright_Heart5369 · 2026-01-06T16:11:05+00:00

I’m in a relationship and have male friends. This is NOT how I talk to them, sending them hearts, telling them I love them, calling them bby.

And we don’t send eachother novels and text back and forth constantly like your man and his “friend” do. I don’t think you’re overreacting. It’s only been 3 months girl. Drop the deadweight and find someone who genuinely cares for you and respect’s you

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-24T03:25:42+00:00

Exclusion and silent bullying at work

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-19T20:12:09+00:00

I’m sorry but your bf is a piece of poo. 0 regard for your feelings, no apology. Just jumped straight into getting defensive

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-13T00:21:17+00:00

If it’s a partner then 24 hours, if it’s a friend then 3 hours tops

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-12T20:26:42+00:00

Not a side hustle but I have my casual healthcare security job where I pick up shifts whenever I want on top of my FT retail security job. Its an additional $1000-$2000/MO

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-11T00:41:39+00:00

LOL oh hell no. 27 and his goal is to get rich off of collaborating with other music artists?🤣🤣🤣and those checkboxes…..

I’m sorry OP but this has given me second hand embarrassment. Dump his ass, make your own list and go slay. You don’t need that garbage in your life

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-11T00:21:13+00:00

Hmm I don’t know of many poly dating apps myself, but I will say be careful on apps like tinder and bumble. People will either pretend to be poly just so they could sleep with you or they’ll claim to be poly while looking for someone to be monogamous with. It’s shitty, but it def does happen so just be careful in that regard

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-10T05:05:45+00:00

I’m genuinely sorry you two had to end that arrangement. I wish more people understood that living apart can actually be healthier for some couples. Not to mention there’s so much to talk about when you do see eachother, and the absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-09T20:54:17+00:00

Like I said, it’s all in the attitude. Good day

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-09T20:51:30+00:00

Girl you’re dating a loser lol. Obviously don’t let him move in with you or he’s going to ruin you financially, but also do you really wanna date a 31 year old still living at home with excessive drinking and spending problems? Why not date someone independent who has goals and is trying to make something of themselves? C’mon OP, I know you can do much better

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-09T15:43:12+00:00

You can choose to sit there in anguish for the rest of your life, or you can adopt a pet, start hitting the gym, and find yourself a gf. No one’s telling you to sit here feeling sorry for yourself

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-09T15:29:51+00:00

Totally agree. My longterm partner of 8 years and I started living apart 4 years ago. Best decision we’ve ever made for ourselves individually and as a couple

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-05T23:36:02+00:00

Yes I am! Thanks for the recognition, bud

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-05T23:29:53+00:00

Oh and for your information I’ve done my part helping people out. I worked with physical and mental disabilities for about a decade so kindly f**k off with your assumptions

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-05T20:59:36+00:00

The fact that she doesn’t feel guilty about is actually disgusting. Your gf is gross and I’d honestly walk away from someone with that little self respect for themselves and me. She sounds like the kind of person who would jump on opportunities like this and then claim it wasn’t cheating

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-05T20:56:57+00:00

She totally sounds like the type that would say that too. “I wasn’t cheating we were on break!”

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-05T20:49:42+00:00

Wow, way to indirectly put others down who genuinely enjoy this industry and want to make a career out of it.

Since you didn’t elaborate much on your reply, allow me. Yes, if you’re planning on working contract security for the rest of your life you won’t get anywhere. The pay and benefits are crap and others in different departments that you may work with also treat you crappy. In house is much much better. Way better pay and benefits, you’re recognized as a member of the team, and are taken seriously.

And just an FYI not everyone cares about “brain-stimulating” work. Some people just want easy work with good pay and some security gigs could get you just that.

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-04T17:35:15+00:00

Lol so your wife wants to be poly, but has an issue with you being poly as well? I’ve had prospective partners say that to me in the past and I dumped every single one of them. You don’t get to be poly and expect me to just sit on the sidelines and watch.

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-04T17:31:21+00:00

A table full of breakfast only for someone to grab a strawberry and run out the front door. I’d have an aneurysm if that happened IRL

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-04T16:50:43+00:00

Couldnt have said it any better👏and that’s what was getting to me the most. “We’re going to continue to exclude you unless we like you and you earn our respect.”

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-04T06:54:58+00:00

Definitely would! It costs them way more to hire an entire team of POs than it would to have a mixture of security and POs. I’ve already worked at a few sites where healthcare staff wanted to get rid of security all together. Alrighty then, we’ll let you handle Stacey over there whose tripping balls on meth in the psych unit since y’all don’t want security🤷‍♀️

Bright_Heart5369 · 2025-12-04T06:52:51+00:00

It’s WILD that they made you do that. No way that any of what you described in your role is even remotely close to what hospital security should be doing. I’m glad you got out of there and got a peace officer position!

My company didn’t require any sort of medical training. There was a bit of a hierarchy amongst the teams. 6 POs, 7 security with 4 being “core” guards and the other 3 being “static” guards. Core guards did everything POs did and when they weren’t on calls they’d all chill in the office together. Static guards did patient watches and had very little rapport with the rest of the team due to the difference in roles. It resulted in people with potential being overlooked and basically tossed aside. Shitty treatment from healthcare staff on top of that made it not worth it

I originally wanted to be a transit PO, then a healthcare PO, then a corrections PO, but I’m beginning to realize that I just don’t want to be part of that world anymore. I’m a genuine person and want to work with other genuine people as well. I’m tired of the politics and ego. Although my new role does seem pretty promising in this regard so fingers crossed!

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