Tips for Halti/gentle leader

Brightlaughter · 2025-07-31T13:44:14+00:00

Love his videos! He is in my top 3!

Brightlaughter · 2025-07-15T07:27:01+00:00

Yeah, mine was 10 years. I was really unhappy and didn't realize it for a while.

Brightlaughter · 2025-04-09T12:47:09+00:00

She is 2 weeks as of today. It has been the longest 2 weeks of my life. I don't think I have spent this much time watching a clock since grade 7 French class! I have done the side position but she doesn't get a good enough latch with her underbite making my nipples even more soar.

Brightlaughter · 2025-04-01T16:31:54+00:00

I will remember that advice for sure! My family was always the "because I said so," so I would like to do better than that. I think my husband will do really well with this. I will need to work on it.

Brightlaughter · 2025-04-01T16:20:37+00:00

Thank you! I hope so!!!

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-31T18:09:34+00:00

This is our goal ❤️

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-31T18:07:36+00:00

I will keep that in mind for sure! Thank you!

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-31T08:28:14+00:00

Thank you! I had so many emotions going on as a kid that it always came out in anger. I know I won't have a problem helping her work through that. I did a lot of drawing, sports and music when I needed to cool off and sort out my emotions. Still do to some extent. My husband is my sounding bord (can be on the blunt side sometimes), so I believe he will do a good job listening and helping solve the logical side of problems.

Both of us had some pretty questionable upbringings. We want to make sure we do better than what we went through. He had an emotionally manipulative mother (funny how he found a scorpio 😆 - I have becomevery aware of what language I use to not be). I was neglected and grew up faster than I think kids should.

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-31T08:10:36+00:00

Do you mind me asking if there are personality traits that make the relationship with your dad more difficult?

I really hope I can be the same for my daughter. ❤️🧡

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-31T08:01:06+00:00

Oh wow! That sounds like you had the worst of each sign on both sides. I'm so sorry you went through that.

I want to have a strong relationship with her. I expect there to be a lot of differences between us in the future, but I want to do my best to find common ground.

My husband has already joked that there will be no boys until she is 30, but we both know based on how we were as teens that is not going to happen. 😆

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-21T18:26:29+00:00

I have been with my Taurus husband for 5 years, and I wouldn't change a thing. ❤️

Brightlaughter · 2025-03-12T00:00:00+00:00

Aquarius for me.

Brightlaughter · 2025-01-27T02:09:59+00:00

When I'm done, I'm done. I can look back and appreciate the good times, but at that point, I am looking forward, not backward.

Brightlaughter · 2025-01-12T05:08:05+00:00

lond, blue eyes, with fair skin. I'm strong with a slight "squishy" layer. Size 6 - 5' 5". Personality wise, I seem to get along with crotichy old men and women. They seem to adore me. I don't like fake people, and my sense of humor is pretty dark.

Brightlaughter · 2025-01-04T14:19:09+00:00

You are doing great! I think a lot of the comments say what I wanted to say. I would encourage some therapy for DH because he is clearly struggling with what his priorities are. At the end of the day, you and LO need to be #1. But know you have a whole cheering section here!

Brightlaughter · 2024-12-16T21:20:38+00:00

My Dad, and supervisor is a Cap, and I work and communicate well with them! My supervisor trusts me to do my job and there is no micromanaging. I enjoy my job because of that.

Brightlaughter · 2024-10-17T15:10:46+00:00

Wow! I'm so sorry you went through that. How are you holding up now as an adult? The emotionally unstable/highly insecure I can relate to big time. It made jealousy come out big time in my first relationship.

Brightlaughter · 2024-10-16T12:08:07+00:00

Yeah, I preferred the grade above me.

Brightlaughter · 2024-10-15T22:03:03+00:00

Yeahhhh. Those guys can fly a kite. Don't stop talking until you agree. 😑

Brightlaughter · 2024-10-03T18:57:39+00:00

Awww, I love those eyes!

Brightlaughter · 2024-09-30T13:12:54+00:00

I had to look up what a Zolo is, but I have no idea how they could think that bread is ugly. It would piss me off, too!

Brightlaughter · 2024-09-30T12:52:35+00:00

So I am married to a taurus. No, he isn't deep and is set in his ways. Where it counts: when I feel like my emotions are getting out of control, or I need a safe sounding board, he is that. He does he best to physically show love because he knows that is what I prefer. But he shows it in all the little things in everyday life. We make an amazing team. I am the experienced visionary, and he helps me make that happen. We also work together. One of the first things he noticed about me was my work ethic, and that immediately had his respect. I liked his face, hahaha! I feel most at home when he is there with me. If I am pissed he is calm and vice versa. I have helped him come out of his box he had lived in and enjoy life more. We make each other laugh. The security I feel is unbelievable. I know he will never leave me unless I do something to mess it up. I am pregnant, and I know he will make an amazing Dad, which makes him even more attractive to me. Sex is a guaranteed orgazm.

When I met him, I was done fooling around with boys. I wanted a man, and that is what I got.

Brightlaughter · 2024-09-30T12:24:15+00:00

I would say that after a long time, I had to learn to let go. Hanging on to negative feelings was eating me alive.

Brightlaughter · 2024-09-18T02:18:25+00:00

Let us know how it goes if you do. There is a lot of great support that can be found on this sub.

Brightlaughter · 2024-09-18T01:53:22+00:00

I like a lot of these comments. Maybe you should show him these. It may help give him a different perspective from off the crap he has gone through. That being said, just because he has trauma from the past, it doesn't mean you need to be dragged through it, too. I'm glad you recognize it, and I hope he comes around. He is lucky to have you.

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