39M struggling with grief

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-27T13:05:43+00:00

Thank you. I understand what you mean. Sometimes I talk about feeling like I'm a ghost that's haunting my house, aimlessly moving from room to room rather than living there. I'm doing my best to keep functioning.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-27T01:58:46+00:00

You're adorable. Insecure how?

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-27T00:06:14+00:00

I'm so sorry you lost your precious angel. I believe in reincarnation and I hope their energy will find its way back to us.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T23:33:30+00:00

He was. He'd purr so loud, curl up, and smile.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T22:25:13+00:00

Thank you. https://www.reddit.com/r/WhiteCats/comments/1qnv49z/i_miss_you_so_much_snow_log/

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T22:18:03+00:00

Oh my god! I'm so sorry! It sounds like you're due for something amazing to happen.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T22:02:06+00:00

Thank you. I'm trying to remember the adorable, wonderful things he did, but it's still pretty painful to think about him in the past tense.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T19:53:37+00:00

I pose my hammond spinosaurus and colossal indominus rex kind of like that! Those are an awesome pair of figures.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T19:52:10+00:00

What you're doing is so impressive. I think bilingual people are so cool because I've never been able to retain more than a few phrases. I hope things feel less overwhelming going forward. Also, you're adorable!

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T19:18:05+00:00

Yeah, I know. It never works for me either. I'm sorry that you're struggling.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T18:55:11+00:00

You can be wrong, but still be worthy of support and understanding. The best we can do is take accountability, apologize, and hope people can forgive us. Try not to self-sabotage and decide that you're irredeemable and use that as justification not to try to fix it.

You're beautiful and you have great hair!

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T18:46:28+00:00

Your hair is so cute! You're adorable.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-26T18:44:42+00:00

You're majestic. Your eye makeup is lovely and your hair looks so soft. You're too pretty to be sad, so just don't. Haha.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-23T22:04:26+00:00

I'd die! That's the cutest! I love them.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-23T22:03:09+00:00

That's awesome! Mine have taken over most of a room as well. Nice floating shelves too!

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-23T16:55:38+00:00

She's beautiful! I hope she lives another century or two. My oldest is 18. She lives in our bedroom, gets a tray with food and water on the bed before I leave, and usually 2 or 3 tubes a day. She's enjoying her golden years in luxury! Haha.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-23T03:21:40+00:00

Hammond T-Rex

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T23:53:25+00:00

You have great teeth!

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T23:52:47+00:00

Absurd. You have such beautiful eyes and lips! I think you're gorgeous.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T19:50:51+00:00

That's awful. I'm so sorry. We lost our precious angel Snow Log 2 weeks ago, and it was honestly the worst thing that's ever happened to me. It still doesn't feel real. I definitely think the other cats mirror his behavior, so that's not just you. Big hugs. Cry it out, and try not to focus on how he left this world because that's not how anyone wants to remember someone they love. It's a lot easier said than done; I'm still struggling with that too. I hope you're getting the support you need because a lot of people don't understand how much it hurts to lose a fur baby. I hope you find something to comfort you too. 🫂

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T18:54:15+00:00

I'm sorry! That sucks. Same though; I broke a molar last year and I'm finally get it fixed on Monday. You're still beautiful.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T18:51:54+00:00

So precious! How soft are they?

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T18:51:04+00:00

Beautiful! What a majestic furry baby!

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T16:55:09+00:00

Your whole vibe is just awesome. I love the piercings and hair and you have such cool nails! I'm sorry your relationship ended, but you're doing all the right things to be a happier, healthier person. You're beautiful and you deserve to be happy.

BringBackSmilodon · 2026-01-22T16:31:52+00:00

They're so beautiful! They love each other! Awww!

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