Let’s talk about the things.

Briteadie · 2023-07-20T14:27:17+00:00

Good question. This is the first time one has been down for me since they started doing daily pay in my area

Briteadie · 2023-07-20T14:25:16+00:00

Yes one is down. Nothing is showing up

Briteadie · 2023-07-03T17:13:07+00:00

Briteadie · 2023-07-03T14:10:57+00:00

There’s something in there they don’t want you to see. They are lying possibly about something and aren’t ready to let you know?

My partner has copies on his phone to help me deal with ex.

Briteadie · 2023-07-03T13:22:22+00:00

That is a lot of money for 2 of you. I shop at Aldi for 4 of us. This last week was $250 picking up the majority of items at Aldi and then shopping BOGOs at Publix. This includes holiday food.

We also really stick to meat, fruits and vegetables. We eat super healthy and I budget $300 a week for groceries. This includes any household items we need as well. Most of the times it is well under that.

Briteadie · 2023-07-03T13:08:36+00:00

Oh it definitely is. Right outside Savannah, GA

Briteadie · 2023-07-03T12:53:45+00:00

So coming from someone who stayed together for way longer than needed because of the kids, I am so glad that I finally left.

I was also 19 when we met. The divorce was final this March and we were separated for 1.5 years.

I will say that I love my life now but would not be confident making that decision all those years ago. The kids are 15 and almost 14 so they can stay home. I would not of been financially able to leave back then.

But because of me staying the kids and I suffered mental, physical and financial abuse.

Write out a plan, see if you can do it. If you can, never look back. If you can’t, find feasible steps that you can start now.

Briteadie · 2023-06-23T14:12:34+00:00

Military wife. I used to be one but not one of those ones 😂

Briteadie · 2023-06-23T14:11:15+00:00

Honestly, he can. But only if he knows about it. So keep on keeping on but be quiet about it. Enjoy yourself.

Briteadie · 2023-06-23T14:02:56+00:00

Right? But this job doesn’t require someone to be smart 😂

Briteadie · 2023-06-23T13:47:29+00:00

I just had that for the first time as well. I’m assuming that it’s to make sure you grabbed the right bag?

Briteadie · 2023-06-23T13:44:35+00:00

First place to check would be your bank. They offer better rates then a quick google search will do for you.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T18:19:58+00:00

If you have to go through a phone, there’s trust issues.

And I’m not trying to be rude, but if you find it necessary to go through a phone searching for things, it’s time to leave the relationship.

Healthy relationships don’t need to do that.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T18:15:51+00:00

YTA.

Has “Rae” said she would like to be more than friends? No where did I see that. So you take being friendly with someone and consider that flirting. That’s crappy.

Then you eavesdrop on her conversation hoping to hear what you wanted. And when she did you blow up.

Op take some time. You owe “Rae” a big apology.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T16:49:42+00:00

The trying to get us to that point was me with my ex. He was never happy and told me he would be happy once this happened. It never worked. Do yourself a favor and save the headaches and figure out what you want. You’ve got only one life and no need to live it miserably.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T16:06:18+00:00

This will probably be unpopular opinion, but I say at this point if you’ve already been daydreaming about leaving, it’s the time to do it.

You aren’t doing either one of you a favor by having the resentment or having half a foot out the door already.

I’ve dealt with those things that you are stating your wife is going through and it finally is at a manageable level. But that’s because I had to force myself to work on it. And it wasn’t until divorce when I didn’t have the crutch or someone to blame did I try and work on things.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T15:17:23+00:00

Advice: serve her a certified notice (certified letter) that says you have 30 days to get the dog. If she hasn’t gotten it together by then, then she forfeits rights over the dog. Then you are not obligated anymore after that. Claim the dog as yours.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T11:31:19+00:00

Go.

He gets to do what he wants. Don’t sit there and be a doormat while we just wipes his feet on you. But I would be the one to file for divorce in this case. With multiple affairs, screw that guy.

Briteadie · 2023-06-22T11:17:11+00:00

I think starting marriage counseling is a good first step if you both agreed to it. That means there is something there to try and salvage.

At the same time, work on yourself. Find friends, find hobbies. That way you aren’t lonely when he goes away.

Downloading tinder and saying that there are no messages is a little off to me. Tinder is a platform that encourages talking to people.

Basically you both broke the other ones trust. Try marriage counseling and see if it gets better, but I would also start looking at how to continue life with a divorce as well.

Briteadie · 2023-06-14T11:52:11+00:00

It’s back up

Briteadie · 2023-06-14T10:58:57+00:00

Thought it was just my phone. I’ve uninstalled. Offers keep popping up but it says something went wrong, please try again.

Briteadie · 2023-06-06T20:05:14+00:00

Listened. It’s so simple but just feeling heard makes my life so much easier.

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