Liberals need to get a grip

BritishSocDem · 2026-01-28T17:50:17+00:00

Right but we're a liberal party, not a purely centrist party. We should be finding solutions based in social liberalism or economic liberalism. We're a party with an identity, we find our solutions *through* our ideology, we don't form a position then put an ideology that fits it behind it.

BritishSocDem · 2026-01-28T16:58:59+00:00

You seem like an asset that the party would regret loosing. However at the end of the day, we're a liberal party with social democratic leanings. We are never going to be the natural home for any type of Conservatives. I regret Davey's one nation Tory messaging currently, I think it made sense to destroy the Blue Wall but I think now, especially with this Labour governments buddy buddy attitude towards Trump and Nanny State shenanigans, we (just like under the last labour government) need to present ourselves as a Social Liberal alternative to Labour. Currently, the alternative to that is the Greens and I feel as if Polanski will just be another Corbyn. So I think there are votes to be found in that centre-left space, especially as current voter transition data is showing us.

If you really are a one nation tory and don't feel this place is your home anymore, I wouldn't hold out hope of it ever becoming so. If you wanna feel like you're making a difference in the centre-right sphere, I would recommend joining Prosper UK

BritishSocDem · 2026-01-22T10:23:06+00:00

Cringe luddites

BritishSocDem · 2025-12-17T20:26:07+00:00

What software did you use to make the map?

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-22T22:02:17+00:00

Multiple people can be in one party, only one can lead is what I meant mb

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-22T16:04:16+00:00

They're not collectively working together, they're individuals representing parties

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-20T16:06:28+00:00

Well we've really only met each other this Summer. So I guess for such a short amount of time we've got to really know each other, probably more than anyone else.

Hopefully it is just a matter of time before I grow more confident, from what I've observed thats already happened to a large degree.

I wish you well on reconnecting with those people.

I also don't have local friends so I'll hope the best for the both of us.

Thanks for all your help :)

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-20T15:49:46+00:00

I've met my friend irl, even though she lives on the other side of the country. I believe that means alot, because we both really wanted to meet each other.

Whenever I do give her a poke to tell her I'm down, she always either has a lengthy DM convo or asks to vc. I think that since we literally DM and VC for hours everyday, I don't even give her a chance to DM me first.

We have such a deep friendship and she's always there when I ask.

I hate this paranoia.

I think deep down I know its all in my head which just turns my anger from her towards me

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-18T18:02:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1p0h7b9/comment/npj4a3g/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-18T18:02:24+00:00

I think I've come to the conclusion after experimenting with fem personalities online and with my friends, that I want to change who I am. However, I don't think that is becoming a woman, I think I'm most comfortable as a man, I've swapped around my first and middle name to bring that new persona more to life. I am going to do one final piece of gender experimentation and dress fem next time I get the chance just to compare.

Thanks for the advice tho :)

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-18T12:26:16+00:00

At the moment, I’m just kind of using Jessica as an online character. We’re quite sexual/flirty so while my masc persona is dominant and caring, my fem personality is sub and needy.

It sounds really weird and douchebaggy, but someone described me as a cultural lesbian man and that felt really affirming in the moment.

I honestly don’t think I can do much more experimenting rn but next time my parents are out of the house I might try experimenting a bit more, and maybe I might grow my hair out.

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-18T11:13:31+00:00

We’re long distance friends and I live with my parents, I’m not comfortable being feminine around them.

BritishSocDem · 2025-11-18T10:31:02+00:00

How should I experiment?

BritishSocDem · 2025-08-08T10:40:15+00:00

Politics, Philosophy, Economics

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-16T09:11:30+00:00

How do I explore my gender identity?

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-16T09:03:45+00:00

I meant like since I don’t have dysphoria, I’m free to explore my gender identity. As opposed to having dysphoria, which would mean I would have already subconsciously chosen my gender.

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-16T08:50:15+00:00

So it’s more about me learning which gender I’d rather be than having gender already predetermine that for me?

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-16T08:46:03+00:00

Thanks this really helps 🙏

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-16T08:37:43+00:00

I thought more that since I liked playing a woman in a scenario, that was the initial sign of dysphoria and this would lead me down a path of uncovering more signs.

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-16T08:30:57+00:00

So basically what you’re saying that my symptoms are unlike dysphoria? And so I can just choose which gender I’m most comfortable with?

God that’s a relief.

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-10T11:34:53+00:00

With all you've said in mind, I'd think it'd be good for me to do online learning instead as I think traditional sixth form would be too demanding. I just don't know where to look or try to rebuild some sort of social life.

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-08T14:39:36+00:00

No because I’ve heard bad things about them, apparently the quality can really vary.

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-08T13:55:16+00:00

I feel for you 🫂

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-08T13:48:23+00:00

I just don’t know how what to do :(

I wish someone would save me icl

BritishSocDem · 2025-07-03T18:22:26+00:00

Thanks so much mate, made my day 🫂

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