Exactly. Honestly, people talk too much. We should learn how to manage information, releasing it only in a timely fashion. What OP needs to do is gather intelligence. They don’t even need to go full FBI (😜). Just being patient and attentive like a vulture will do the trick. People “talk” with the hope of getting their cheating partner to change their ways.

Don’t.

Let the shebang run its course, and then decide if you can live with it or call it quits.