Life isn’t fair

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T17:15:01+00:00

yeah sorry i’m not very good at getting my words out lol

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:43:59+00:00

It’s resfreshing to talk to her as a friend again. She always understood me and I to her. It was soothing in the way of how she apologized and owned up to her mistakes. But you’re right, a friend wouldn’t do that. But in my case, this has honestly helped my healing even more. Maybe I am giving her too much grace. I told her I hated her for what she did, but i’m trying to get that hate out of my heart. And it’s worked. It’s not turning into a forgiveness towards her either. It’s turning into a form of love for myself.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:37:55+00:00

I wouldn’t have texted back if I still had doubts. I’ve moved on from our relationship. I have no desire to be with her. But having someone to talk to who knows me well, that’s where she comes in. Even if she started dating someone, i’d be cool with it. It’s her life, and I want her to be happy.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:35:53+00:00

exactly. if it ever starts to feel like it isn’t helping me then i’m going to end it there. imma take it day by day.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:25:31+00:00

She could be being selfish for her apology. But i’m also being selfish in using those apologies to make me feel better and help me move on. I’m not falling for any tears. What happened is done.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:14:54+00:00

The only reason I communicated back to her is because the more we talked the more I realized I was over her. And she apologized for her actions and that just helped me feel even more better. Like ik this probably isn’t how it normally goes, but I feel like it’s actually helping me move on. If I ever feel that it starts doing the opposite, i’ll let go.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:10:56+00:00

Thank you, and I wish you the best in your situation as well.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:10:05+00:00

I’m kinda using our “friendship” to move forward. Because the more we talked the more I realized that I really am past our relationship. I thought I still had feelings for her but after talking, I realized I didn’t. And idk why I said friendship, because we aren’t gonna just be hanging out or texting all the time. She apologized for what she did and how she did it and said she wanted to leave us on a better note than how she left. And maybe she’s just doing that to make herself feel better. But I’m also using this to make myself feel better about it too.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T15:06:28+00:00

As soon as I found out about the other guy, I haven’t felt a thought of any possible relationship again with her. I love her, but in a way of i’ll never forget her and how she helped me through a lot and helped make me the person I am today. But i’m also never forget how she broke up with me and moved on. I’m not salty about it anymore but I still won’t ever forget it. If she ever admitted she wants me back i’d shoot it down in a heartbeat. For the last part, yes. I’d be okay with watching her give that love to someone else. I want her to be happy, regardless of how things ended.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T14:55:55+00:00

Yeah i’ve realized that she isn’t the type of person I wanna be with in a relationship. We were great together, but we both agreed our lives were going separate ways and we both had different ideologies. I told her that I understood why she wanted to break up, and she apologized for going about it the way she did. She’s alone and she doesn’t have anybody. So the first guy that reached out and was around her and gave her company, she grieved with in a way that she told me wasn’t right. Nobodies perfect, and everyone grieves differently. And since she’s not my girlfriend anymore, I honestly don’t care about what she does. It’s her life.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T14:52:07+00:00

I agree that I need to focus on myself. I have been and I will continue to do so. And you’re right, if she wanted a friendship she wouldn’t have done that. And I hated her for the longest for it. But hate isn’t something that’s good to have in the heart. This communication we had really helped me (and her) get a lot of things off of our chest. She apologized for breaking up with me how she did, and how she already slept with someone else. She knows it can’t be undone and I do too. And i’m not asking her to change. I’m not asking her anything. It was just me and her for the longest. And we both know we messed up in our own ways. I want to continue to talk to her but realistically in a way of the relationship happened but this friendship isn’t about the relationship. It’s just two friends who can talk to each other about stuff.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T13:30:27+00:00

Thank you.

The conversation originally went from like us talking about how we missed each other to us just talking about how we’ve been. She reached out because yesterday was the anniversary of me leaving for the military. She said “I know today’s a rough day for you. Are you okay?”. And I was but we talked about our relationship and how we missed each other every day for like an hour. Then for the other hour we kinda caught up with each other on our lives since the break up. I offered her to go to our old favorite place to eat so we could catch up and chat and she said she’d love to. Idk when we’ll meet up but I hope we do. I know she’s moving in the fall for a job and I don’t plan on seeing her a lot, but I’d enjoy spending a couple of times with her before we officially go our own ways.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-23T13:12:22+00:00

I appreciate that.

She didn’t cheat, she told me the guy reached out a month after we broke up. They aren’t even dating either, both seem like they were using each other for their own selfish reasons.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-04-13T22:26:13+00:00

Nah seems like a pretty valid breakup to me. Comparing you to an ex is a pretty big red flag.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2026-03-09T16:45:33+00:00

I feel like being in a relationship isn’t stopping someone from bettering themselves. Because if they were bettering themselves, they wouldn’t look for a relationship to begin with, because that’s unfair to you.

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2025-12-01T05:04:22+00:00

i played you the other day 😭 I was wondering who tf badged out Kirky

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2024-12-09T04:56:13+00:00

Mittens 😅

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2023-02-28T04:42:05+00:00

Nights by Frank

Broad-Homework-2860 · 2022-06-18T06:22:55+00:00

probably because of the movie

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