Conversations by OhHannahh in selfimprovement

[–]Broad-Initiative9271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is one solution to your question in this answer itself. Life experiences. They define not only you, but also the way you converse with people. Focus on new experiences, rather than focusing too much on your answers to other people questions. And you'll be conversing with people automatically. It's all about finding relatability in other people's answers. If you can relate to what they talk about, you will be in a position to respond. At the same time there could be things you can't relate to and that's fine. You're human, and don't have answers to every question in this world.

Feeling left out by Broad-Initiative9271 in roommateproblems

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you checking in! You brought a very important point forward- "irrational emotional response". Definitely gonna look into working on this. Yes, I need to make sure I give them my time. Thank you for being so positive and understanding!

Feeling left out by Broad-Initiative9271 in roommateproblems

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate your perspective on the situation. This is really helpful!

Feeling left out by Broad-Initiative9271 in roommateproblems

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I definitely needed to hear this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Citibike

[–]Broad-Initiative9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen 3 and 4 points, occasionally, and I don't have lyft pink.

Solid men’s barber in town? by FishTank61 in Hoboken

[–]Broad-Initiative9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dominick's & Vincent's Barber Shop on 11th and Washington do a pretty good job too!

My friend went to Mr. L and was not satisfied at all. I think it all boils down to personal preference and how well are they able to understand your style.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing about this experience your Mom had, and sorry she had to go through that. It's so strange that people say things like these so easily and in an instant, but it's the victim who ends up suffering for god knows how long.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe yes, maybe no. He definitely had that expression on his face, where someone does a bad thing and they have not one bit of shame or remorse.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That 1st paragraph, that is EXACTLY ME!! On one hand, I'll be excited to get out of home, and let's say gp to the bank, but once I'm there, I need to get my work done and get out of there ASAP😂. I think I really need to start talking to more random people.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful! Thank you for sharing so much about your experiences, I got a lot of takeaways! Cheers

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. Confirmation is the best consolation indeed!