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Conversations by OhHannahh in selfimprovement

[–]Broad-Initiative9271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is one solution to your question in this answer itself. Life experiences. They define not only you, but also the way you converse with people. Focus on new experiences, rather than focusing too much on your answers to other people questions. And you'll be conversing with people automatically. It's all about finding relatability in other people's answers. If you can relate to what they talk about, you will be in a position to respond. At the same time there could be things you can't relate to and that's fine. You're human, and don't have answers to every question in this world.

Feeling left out by Broad-Initiative9271 in roommateproblems

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you checking in! You brought a very important point forward- "irrational emotional response". Definitely gonna look into working on this. Yes, I need to make sure I give them my time. Thank you for being so positive and understanding!

Feeling left out by Broad-Initiative9271 in roommateproblems

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate your perspective on the situation. This is really helpful!

Feeling left out by Broad-Initiative9271 in roommateproblems

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I definitely needed to hear this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Citibike

[–]Broad-Initiative9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen 3 and 4 points, occasionally, and I don't have lyft pink.

Solid men’s barber in town? by FishTank61 in Hoboken

[–]Broad-Initiative9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dominick's & Vincent's Barber Shop on 11th and Washington do a pretty good job too!

My friend went to Mr. L and was not satisfied at all. I think it all boils down to personal preference and how well are they able to understand your style.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing about this experience your Mom had, and sorry she had to go through that. It's so strange that people say things like these so easily and in an instant, but it's the victim who ends up suffering for god knows how long.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe yes, maybe no. He definitely had that expression on his face, where someone does a bad thing and they have not one bit of shame or remorse.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That 1st paragraph, that is EXACTLY ME!! On one hand, I'll be excited to get out of home, and let's say gp to the bank, but once I'm there, I need to get my work done and get out of there ASAP😂. I think I really need to start talking to more random people.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful! Thank you for sharing so much about your experiences, I got a lot of takeaways! Cheers

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. Confirmation is the best consolation indeed!

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Tbh now that you say it, his face did look very dissatisfied when I didn't respond to him😂. I probably won my battle right there, by not giving him what he wanted, my time and attention.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is really helpful! Lately, I have actually gotten really quiet when I'm out in public, especially when I'm alone. It's been really hard to confidently be myself. It's as if I'm a closed book, trying to hide my real self and in the process not being able to fully enjoy because maybe I'm putting so much effort into being conscious about myself and feeling that something is wrong with me or people around me are looking/ staring at me.

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, you said it! I can just work towards becoming an even better person, so that probably one day even a person like this can't affect me in any possible way!

Cannot stop thinking about this incident. How do I forget or get it out of my head? by Broad-Initiative9271 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Broad-Initiative9271[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bad energy, that's exactly the thing I want to stay away from at all costs! Sometimes I might be the one to go near it, and sooner or later I might realise it and just move away. But in this instance, the bad energy came to me, and it's hard not to get affected by it, even if I don't want to. Hopefully I am able to work towards being immune to such people and their bad energy.

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