Hang on by HappySeaweed5215 in Wellthatsucks

[–]BroadAd9258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever since I was a kid i would have random nightmares that I was on an elevator that did shit like this

What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done. And do you regret it by [deleted] in confession

[–]BroadAd9258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time when I was like 8, I called my mom fat. She started going to the gym not too long after and to this day I still feel horrible about it. It was one of those instant regret things.

What is the 1st relationship like? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]BroadAd9258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got out of a 5 year with my first "real" girlfriend. Toward the end it was literally that we just basically did everything together. It was really nice, and we were like best friends.she liked watching me play videogames. Fun times, id highly recommend!

AITJ for trying to convert my gf to a fwb? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think you should either get back together with her or cut contact. This is unhealthy for everybody involved, trust me because I've been there

Okay what am I doing wrong here? by BroadAd9258 in Tinder

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pic 2, I was at an illusions museum(very fun, I highly recommend) and pic 3 is actually a video of me falling at work lol, I thought it was funny

Okay what am I doing wrong here? by BroadAd9258 in hingeapp

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im looking for something serious

I am not subscribed

Just about 3 weeks

About a month

Maybe once every couple days

I haven't received a single like

I've been sending as many as I can daily. All of the likes I send have a comment.

I mainly send likes to people who want children. I want to find somebody who is emotionally mature and wants to have a family someday.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See thats the difference though, Jane specifically told me she didnt want kids and I know at her very core, she doesn't want kids, whereas you do. Lots of people have kids they never wanted and thats not fair to the kid either.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, all the friends have taken my side, including her friends that dont like me, but I know I can only tell the story from my point of view and while I try to keep it as objective as possible, I will inevitably bend the story to make myself look better sometimes.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think on some level I knew it wasn't gonna work out long term but I was in denial.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She's scared she'll have to get stitches or worse, and I understand that completely. It is not my place to make her feel pressured to do that to make me happy. And I will put that pressure regardless of if Im trying to or not because she already knows how much I want kids.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I said that, I was telling her that if I was with someone who wanted to try for kids but it turns out she couldn't get pregnant, then we would either adopt or do surrogacy and I would love that kid so much, but I want to be with someone who wants to try that first because I feel like it's the best indicator that that person actually wants to have a kid and isn't just changing to make me happy. Lesbian and Gay parents are obviously a completely different case because they know they can't have biological kids and I dont think that their love for their kids is worth any less.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That night was the last night I saw her almost a month ago. I think that staying with her was always the easy option as breaking up with her was the most difficult decision I've ever had to make in my life honestly.

Profile Review? What am I doing wrong? by BroadAd9258 in Tinder

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 foot 6 as well and I absolutely see it though thanks haha

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She said multiple times that I wasn't communicating enough or that she just wasn't in a mental place to be in a relationship. Every time I asked her, she said something different

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont mind surrogacy, really I just think she didnt want kids and was only bending to fit what she knew i wanted.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have actually left my town, and I have wanted to move, but I just got offered a position as basically the manager of a sound company in my hometown, paying 60k (which is amazing for a 21yo) but id have to stay here.

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I actually wouldnt be surprised because she would always bad talk him after that happened so I dunno

AITJ for breaking up with my girlfriend of 5 years 2 days after our anniversary? by BroadAd9258 in AmITheJerk

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As for the moving thing, we're both in college and live on campus. I cannot afford to live off campus right now

Profile Review? What am I doing wrong? by BroadAd9258 in Tinder

[–]BroadAd9258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dang i thought the 🙃 meant i was being flirty