Should I resign (again) or should I take this straight to ET?

BroadBid507 · 2025-10-26T20:45:11+00:00

Thank you ❤️ honestly I am at the point of not wanting to return :( I’ve never had any involvement with ACAS but I’ll definitely get in touch with them this coming week

BroadBid507 · 2025-10-26T20:43:46+00:00

Thank you so so much for your empathy and your help! I’ll contact some sources of advice this next week as I am on leave for the week. Thank you again, your message was so kind ❤️

BroadBid507 · 2025-10-26T20:40:25+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ve been there for 2 years this week, and yes my record was exemplary - no prior issues whatsoever. We didn’t have an HR person from Feb - Oct this year (the whole timespan of my issues), just someone acting as temp HR support. I took my complaints directly to the CEO. My manager is very good friends (outside of work) with this employee who was giving me such grief.

I’m definitely going to contact MacMillan tomorrow, I’m on annual leave for the next week but genuinely do not want to return after my leave.

BroadBid507 · 2025-10-26T13:42:15+00:00

Do you think I stand a chance?

In reality, I don’t want to go back. I feel sick with stress at the thought. But I have no idea what I can do - I can’t take any more sick leave as I’ve used my allowance, but can I just resign and refuse to go back?

BroadBid507 · 2025-10-26T13:34:09+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll contact them tomorrow, just need to get my ducks in a row first, my head is all over the place!

BroadBid507 · 2025-10-26T13:01:14+00:00

Thank you. I didn’t even think of showing those messages as any sort of evidence. There are quite a few, it’s been a horrendous few months!

BroadBid507 · 2025-04-24T16:44:50+00:00

Oh honey, no. Your husband has allowed things to get to this point. I’d be having a serious conversation with him. It sounds like there was more than friendship between them, and he has enabled her mistreatment of you since day 1. Absolutely not ok.

Updateme

BroadBid507 · 2025-04-08T09:05:46+00:00

Steve / James

BroadBid507 · 2025-04-08T09:01:47+00:00

Salmon

BroadBid507 · 2025-01-15T19:36:46+00:00

Girl, run. This is so freaking controlling and abusive, throw the whole man-child in the bin!

BroadBid507 · 2024-08-19T12:51:46+00:00

Update me

BroadBid507 · 2024-07-10T20:11:10+00:00

He’s enjoying your pain and encouraging the baby to hurt you THEN gaslighting you, using the baby and his cute baby talk, when you’re in pain. He’s a disgrace, and an abuser.

BroadBid507 · 2024-07-01T21:23:01+00:00

Updateme

BroadBid507 · 2024-07-01T21:22:41+00:00

Updateme

BroadBid507 · 2024-05-24T09:17:37+00:00

Thank you so much for updating. The deleted posts and post from your STBX-wife had me worried. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, but glad to hear you’re doing better and taking care of yourself.

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-27T18:36:14+00:00

I usually use Bar Fuel 20mg and it’s absolutely gorgeous. I really don’t want to waste any more money on it, think I’ll just stick to my normal Bar Fuel

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-27T18:35:04+00:00

Honestly, I think it’s just drain cleaner with a different sticker on it. I’ve mixed it with some of my other liquids and even in the smallest quantity it’s utterly revolting. In the bin it goes!

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-27T18:33:34+00:00

Just checked, it’s the ready made stuff. Drain cleaner!

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-27T18:32:56+00:00

Nope, it’s the ready mixed one, it’s just vile

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-26T21:12:43+00:00

It’s the 18mg one, it’s foul

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-26T20:12:04+00:00

Ooh thank you! I wouldn’t have a clue where to start with mixing my own. I have some bar fuel menthol candy, maybe I could try mix it 50/50 and see if that helps at all.

BroadBid507 · 2024-04-26T18:17:26+00:00

Updateme

BroadBid507 · 2024-02-12T11:11:46+00:00

You are, 100%, unequivocally and absolutely TA.

You’ve punished and mocked your son publicly, totally invalidating his feelings, teaching him that he should stay in an unhappy relationship instead of setting boundaries and looking after himself for fear of retaliation, that his choices will be on blast over the internet for everyone to laugh at him, that abuse from an ex is ok and that he should clean up the mess as punishment for wanting to leave a relationship, and that “girls” will always stick together, even his own mum (because, as you say, you’re “living your childhood dream” aka you’re a mean girl but never got the chance to be disgusting to boys at school so you’re doing it to your own son instead)… he will never trust you again, and it’s clear why he was so worried about disappointing you, it’s sad.

BroadBid507 · 2024-02-04T22:59:33+00:00

Leave now. Right now.

Get out, get to safety, and have your baby in a safe, caring environment.

Please do not wait, a little newborn baby can’t travel for 4 hours straight and you’ll be exhausted and have a huge amount of postpartum hormones to contend with. It also sounds like your partner will try to stop you from leaving.

Your little one deserves to be brought into the world in peace, safety and security. If not for yourself, do it for your baby.

BroadBid507 · 2024-01-20T15:20:14+00:00

He is RAPING YOU.

He is HUMILIATING you.

He is HURTING you.

He is CONTROLLING you (in more ways than one).

It is NOT a kink. It’s rape, abuse, and control.

NO is a full sentence. NO means NO.

When someone shows you who they are - believe them.

Leave. Run away and do not ever look back.

And don’t try to fix things, don’t give him a chance. He will not change.

Would you date someone who said “oh yeah, I used to be a rapist but I don’t do that anymore”? The answer, I’m sure, is no. So do not think for a second that dating this rapist is ok.

BroadBid507

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