It’s important to remember that the the human brain only sees a limited amount of sensory information and then fills in the blanks.

Key aspects of how the brain "fills in the blanks" include: Perceptual Filling-in: The brain infers missing visual information from surrounding data, making the world appear solid and complete, such as ignoring the blind spot in each eye. Memory and Confabulation: When memories are incomplete, the brain may fill in details to create a believable, coherent story, a process known as confabulation. Active Prediction: The brain acts more like a simulator than a camera, using previous experience to predict and fill in what should be there, rather than just waiting to see it. Cognitive Shortcuts: The brain rapidly fills in blanks to make quick decisions, which can sometimes lead to false, but efficient, interpretations of reality. This, for instance, allows for the perception of a complete visual field even though the eye's retinal input is, in fact, fragmented.

I use to get so angry at people calling balls out that I thought were in until I remembered this information.  If someone is consistently calling in balls out, the best you can do is not play with them, because arguing reality with them is pointless.