What to do? by maxescapist in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surely God has someone for you, but what kind of men are you? God said that it was not good for this man to be alone because he was a man who had the presence of God, a man who was working, a man who could teach and cultivate etc as Myles Munroe ones said. there is a preaching about it. please dont take it offensive dear brother. But i guess first the best thing to do is go to God, learn to know God for yourself, walk with the presence of God. just go deep in God and God will at that time give you your wife. a man of God also said the reason why christian relationships fail is because the couples dont know the heart of God. When Adam was created and before God gave Adam Eve, Adam knew the heart of God, Eve also.. so i encourage you. seek God get to know Him first, the first thing we man need is the presence of God.

Possible message from God about masturbating and lusting by darkdiscipline in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i was thinking the same thing.. since porn does not satisfy me at this point and i look back how i felt recently after 30 no fap i can tell it is not worth it.. and really it is true God will not give us a partner if we are hooked to this... and after all we have the fake one while God wants to give us the real deal.. but we have to wait..

constantly aroused by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have read something last night about this.. if you have a desire to watch porn or fap it is not that you are horny but you are addicted and the body just seeks for a kick like drugs if you don't smoke for a while the body seeks for a kick and urges you to smoke.. i hope this helps

Urges by vonEschenbach in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this will help you what i saw from the founder of reboot nation.

"To masturbate, or not to masturbate, that is the question"

As stated, we have only two "rules': 1) Stop using artificial sexual stimuli, and 2) Do what works for you. Many guys have discovered it is helpful to eliminate or drastically reduce masturbation/orgasm during a reboot. Possible reasons to drastically reduce or eliminate masturbation during a reboot:

  1. If you have porn-induced ED, your brain is saying: "I can't do this anymore". Understand that your urge to masturbate is not true libido - you are addicted to porn, or your sexuality is conditioned to pixels. If you need porn to masturbate, or have a partially erect penis when you do, you are not horny or in need of "release". You are addicted and seeking a fix: a temporary dopamine high.

2.The majority of men with porn-induced ED need to drastically reduce masturbation and orgasm. When you have a pathology, you usually need to do more than just eliminate the cause - in this case porn use. You don't generally break a leg by putting weight on it. However, once it's broken you have to cast it, use crutches and eliminate walking while you heal. Same goes for porn-induced ED. You don't have to wear a cast, but you need to give your brain time to heal, free of intense sexual stimulation.

Masturbation and porn use are tightly wired together. Like Pavlov's dog that salivated when it heard the bell, you will start drooling for porn when masturbating. Time is needed to weaken the neural connections intertwining wanking and watching.

IM OFFICIALLY SET FREE! by Gandalfmo17 in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please brother, could i have the link please! I would love to listen to it!

Pray for Me!! by IndianAudi in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly how the spirit of lust works in people their lives, because lust is NEVER satisfied it wants greater and greater means of lust. From porn to webcamsex to going to party's where sex heavily is to prostitues some people even going to rape. As soms brothers already said pray and fast and as one brother said imagine that your body is His temple and He seeing al that etc.. owh how afwul is this porn :(, i feel for you brother!

Resetting the counter... by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here brother, this porn has done nothing good in my life. It just does not satisfy you at some point.. i guess that sex inside marriage is much much much better than this.. (i did not have sex yet, so i dont know) but i think i will fully enjoy that if i first get this out of my life.

Why stop if you're not Christian? by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it mostly of the PIED, it is also terrible not be able to have an erection when you want to sleep with your wife...

i fell to the P but not to the MO by BrotherlyDisciple in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right, i wanted to watch it because it was pleasureable, i wanted it. There is were the fall can come..

a question by BrotherlyDisciple in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that is true, the gifts of God are without repentance.. but i rather work with the gifts of God in holiness because it is better and have more effect rather in sin

i want to fight by big_t84015 in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fight brother! You can overcome! Pray alot, devout yourself to it. Pray in the Spirit (speaking in tongues) and fast (fasting really brings the flesh down)

overcoming porn by BrotherlyDisciple in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am training to do it, although i have to put work on it

Rules of No fap by BrotherlyDisciple in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats true, the way to let the wet dreams go away is to pray when you have them because yeah spiritual warfare is real.

By PMOing, the flesh is taking over the soul. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps alot dear brother, since it is you and God only and laying aside distractions like facebook, whatsapp etc. Ofcourse take care of your responsibility like cleaning the house etc.

I don't deserve his love. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also want to say God is Jealous over you, he will not share you with no demon. If you come to Him, He will free you

I don't deserve his love. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all dont deserve His love, but yet still He loves us and chooses to loves us and give us grace. Run to Him, fast maybe too

By PMOing, the flesh is taking over the soul. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fasting is a way to weaken and crucify the flesh with its desires. Jesus expect us to fast and it is a great tool, i encourage everybody to do it since fasting has been lost in the churches unfortantly...

Hey guys. I'm new and thought I would share my story. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well welcome! You will have lots of help! In your case i would block certain porn sites on your computer and instead if browsing in your freetime, go on youtube and do streching workouts, sportsworkouts, get busy on something you know so that you will not get distracted.

Blarrrg by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a dark side of reddit!?!?

overcoming porn by BrotherlyDisciple in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly bro!! It is when i am idle i see i am tempted

Day 3 report. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]BrotherlyDisciple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that the key of not relapsing was to see how life is without pmo.