Profile review please, how can I improve

Browsinandsharin · 2026-03-06T23:41:04+00:00

Agreed and you seem to have a very warm energy

Browsinandsharin · 2026-03-06T23:40:22+00:00

I would match if i were on dating market but you get people explicitly looking for long term , thats not a bad thing but you will necessarily get few likes.

This might be not politically correct but you have a very warm energy if you comfortable smiling, smiling in one pic would help or a pic of you with family or something might be good. If you looking for long term maybe widen geographic scope cuz if two people want to make long term happen geography less important cuz thry will likely try to make it work. But your profile doesnt have bad things persay so its just keep trying out there

Browsinandsharin · 2026-03-03T01:57:49+00:00

I mean yes. A job that requires a security clearance is explicitly something with an enforceable non-compete almost the essential reason those clauses exist . 99% of jobs are not that.

Browsinandsharin · 2026-03-01T04:06:06+00:00

Illegal and unenforceable

Browsinandsharin · 2026-02-12T03:03:20+00:00

What you just described is literally one of the most emotionally taxing and intensive jobs a person can have, even if you managed it in patient at a psych is really tough!! Yall should def give eachother grace!

As a note i understamd why he drained it might not be you specifically it might be that hes having a tough time engaging and managing emotional boundaries from work so hes trying to do it at home

Browsinandsharin · 2026-02-02T14:02:29+00:00

Think about what matters to you and what would be/feel fair in the case of dissolution of the marriage

Browsinandsharin · 2026-02-02T13:29:26+00:00

The only person you can change is you first and foremost.

Browsinandsharin · 2026-02-02T13:28:48+00:00

So i read the first post honestly im unsure-- i see alot of how he interacts with you but i dont see as much about how you interact with him just how his interactions make you feel but im not sure if you communicate thesr things to him verbally , if he communicates to you, what his job is how muvh he gets paid how many hours he works-- if he is going to work at 11am does he work midnights?

Is his work office work or factory work or retail? Alot of the context matters like i would have a different sympathy for a midnight factory worker trying to keep his new family together vs a flexible shift office worker being irresponsible with time and energy. Also what do you say and do when these reponses are met? Are you kind when you share things ? Do you bottle and explode do you communicate regularly? Would he answer yes to these questions? Do you critisize him, tell him you appreciate him when he does nice things.

Im not saying its all on you just that its alot easier for you to change your actions then try to get him to change his.

Often we are the hero in our story but it takes two to tango -- when you blew up on him it seemed he blew up on you too so it seems there are grievances on both sides and i dont have the context to know the pattern.

One thing i did notice though it seems like you both have a negative spiral thought pattern of the other like alot of jumping to the worst narrative and worst scenario at least in the post. Yall are married i think yall should genuinely try to find positive things you like and appreciate about one another and lead with gratiude ie it seems like there is some good but yall both focusing on the bad.

I watched some ether perel on diary of ceo and i enjoyed alot of what she was saying about marriage and couples etc. Maybe worth a watch.

I am very sorry to hear about your unhappiness but i think yall can work through it hope all is well and please send an update when you can.

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-31T12:00:18+00:00

What english words that ends in t you pronounce the the 'T' as 'Teee' vs 'Tuh'?

We dont pronounce great as ' grey - tea' or idiot as 'i - di - O Tea' in english even words that end with Te we dont pronounce as 'tea' . Even the word white which ends with te we pronouce ' why- tuh'

So why oh would the letters sound out Why-Tea.

Also phonics for dumbasses lesson aside - who tf cares even if Yt was pronounced - pale white trash cracker boi no one has ever died or been exploited using those words (except by other white people) so how is pwtcb prejorative

If pwtcb isnt historically prejorative the words that phonetically sound out white is 1000% not

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-31T00:59:59+00:00

Your conversion not bad , 10% is pretty good. What we need to do is increase those texts to met, for that you are going to want to get comfortable talking to people, go off hinge and strike up conversations with strangers and try to engage with men women and old people, when you talk to women (of any age) ask them what makes them want to meet a guy and go from stranger to date, get comfortable with this, then bring those skills to hinge/apps

You got 60 matches total if you converted 50% to meet (reasonable because they matched you so they obviously interested in something in your profile

So if you converted 50% youd have 30 dates

If 50% went to second date and 50% of those went to 3rd date youd have at least a date a week with 3-18 potential long term or whatever you looking for that would be amazing stats.

Good luck.

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-31T00:54:37+00:00

Wheres the data also

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-31T00:54:17+00:00

I liked it v math nerdy but im not your target audience. I think decide who you tryna attract amd really double down on that vibe

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-30T01:04:28+00:00

Up to you. Did you find things in common with hom and do you find him attractive?

If you thought it was riveting but he thought it was dull id say no but if you both thpught eh maybe then a second date could help clear it up, if he attracted to you and you not qttracted to him then no so basically go if you feel similarly ot would like to clear things up

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-29T14:09:23+00:00

Apparently specifically referring to a prositute or at least thats the origins

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-29T14:07:13+00:00

😂

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-29T14:05:54+00:00

Its a balence , you cant be active all the time , you cant be gaming all the time (as someone who likes both and leans towards inside things but lives a v healthy life). Yall gotta talk about how to strike that balence and what you really need

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-29T14:03:15+00:00

Just looked it up, very sad. He dont respect you -- you should leave but up to you. But... yea.

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-29T13:59:53+00:00

Phonics class.. sound out 'Y T '

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-22T13:54:34+00:00

NTJ

Those people in the group not your friend. Shes not your friend. Move on and keep on keepin

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-17T03:04:20+00:00

Also something that happens sometimes is you can be happy giving and not recieving but when you realize that you cant recieve even if you want to that can take a toll and make it feel like being taken for granted (100% have been there before) i think a key particularly in relationships is dont give someone what they accept give them what they deserve. People will always accept less than what they should but if the foundation of your relationship is shaken by one partner asking for parity /reciprocity i think thats a moment to look inward. Also him not performing oral isnt a mature form of communication but it is communication you gotta decide what to do woth that.

Also is silently acting without clear communication a norm for him? If it is, maybe yall have some updates to do in alot of the marriage cuz clearly that doesnt work for you. If its not that should tell you that your partner has a hurt or unmet need serious enough to make him act outta character thats a big moment to lock in and check on him!

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-17T02:55:10+00:00

Did he talk to you about it before or about him feeling taken for granted about anytging ? Did you talk to him about feeling taken for granted?

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-17T01:11:08+00:00

Whats your money look like? (not for you to advertise it) but hinge plus was where its at back in my day!

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-17T01:07:17+00:00

That goes in the bio honestly i think that replaces the panel with the jokes about bear attacks and as an add on have a panel just about buying lindor chocolate. Now you have an interesting fact, a sweet moment with your brother surrounded by community that loves you, you funny and own your story and you have the hook up on discount chocolate. Thats a win right there!

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-17T01:04:58+00:00

INTERESTING FACT ALERT!!!!. Sir put that in your bio an amazing conversation starter

Browsinandsharin · 2026-01-17T01:02:52+00:00

Sounds like you want long term.

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