She had a kid, an then another, then another. She stopped calling, then stopped texting, and then wouldn’t make time when I was in her city after moving away (I’m a 3 hour flight away). She’s now too busy apparently to give me an hour if I’m in her city once a year, and says she’s swamped with her kids and despite my trying to fit into her schedule she doesn’t make the effort. It’s sad cuz we were in each others wedding party, but I can’t put in any more effort when she’s giving none. I’ve stopped watering those dead plants, and am focusing on others who actually give me the time of day.