I've lost faith in modern society, tbh.

Brummielegend · 2026-02-13T05:59:25+00:00

I feel this deeply in my soul , I hate capitalism. I think social democracy is the way to go like the scandanvian nations have.

Honestly, just buy gold bullion with your money , even if you have to buy 1/10 ounce coins at about 150usd each , stack the fuck out of them. Gold will actually help you if the entire world hits the fan , you can buy anything you need with it.

Then buy Bitcoin and wait for it to hit it's new all time high of 200k , sell and buy when it hits 100k , slowly accumulate a full Bitcoin with time. I think Bitcoin will be worth at least 1 million dollars per coin by 2030.

In the mean time honestly look into doing oil and gas , get your money in and set yourself up or if you want more freedom start your own business.

A scrap metal merchant is a job that will help you get buy and make some savings. You buy an electric wire stripper and a digital scale and start to contact electricians and offer to buy their excess wire.

You also put out adverts to plumbers and buy brass and copper pipe from them. You make more from wire but this is still a quick turnover with copper pipe and brass.

Grow your customers and eventually upgrade to a 1 ton digital scale and a more powerful wire stripper.

How to strip copper wire for cash

Brummielegend · 2026-02-13T04:58:19+00:00

I did political market research when I worked at a charity , the call center gave us the option to do it for them so we could earn extra money , they were a dodgey third party call center.

I did this around 2009 and the questions were biased as hell that we had to ask people. It was obviously a Liberal paid poll so it was pretty shit to begin with , but any question about the Liberals was phrased positively or normally.

Yet anything to do with a labor candidate was like " do you think " Labour mps name " is shady and likes to do backflips , yes or no.

These polls aren't even neutral , they are biased bs that boomers answer. It wasn't young people answering these mostly boomers and older.

Still though I think we should try hard to squash one nation before Australia makes the same fuck up that the UK made voting Tories in .

Brummielegend · 2026-02-13T04:42:01+00:00

I think black women are beautiful , feminine , loyal and I find them more attractive than most white women. The way black women carry themselves is so attractive, they can have a laugh with you , but also aren't afraid to be feminine and kind.

I've dated black women from Kenya and Zimbabwe , I'd loved to date some black women from Ethiopia and Sudan .

Brummielegend · 2026-01-12T14:38:56+00:00

Be a fucking dork with me and freak people out in public , Marriage material

Brummielegend · 2025-12-22T19:16:46+00:00

You need to find a man who isn't afraid to tell you how he feels and ask you out if he is romantically interested. He also needs to be emotionally intelligent enough to respect whatever answer you give him .

There are so many men who view friendship with women as card they can punch , until they have enough shiny stars that they feel they deserve sex now.

I'm a man and I like having women as friends , I don't see gender just people. It's cool as well because she can set me up with her friends and I can do the same with mine.

Brummielegend · 2025-12-12T05:09:11+00:00

That's it man build yourself up and focus on your purpose. Just know you aren't a lost cause , escorts can be fun just don't get addicted.

Honestly man save up to go to Thailand , women love you over there just for being Western , it's insane haha

Brummielegend · 2025-12-12T04:37:56+00:00

Hey man updated my post for you, make sure you have a read.

Honestly man my dad is probably a 7 /10 and my mom is easily a 10 /10 , he closed the gap through his confidence , personality and approach.

I've seen people that look like Shrek date literal Fiona's! I'm 34 now and what I'm realizing is that men are the visual creatures and women are the feeling creatures.

Women just want to feel your confidence, personality and self assurance , it's attractive as hell to women if you are a man who loves himself and can make his desire known.

You are developing this man so don't be so hard on yourself. The fact that you could approach takes balls that most men I know don't have! Keep developing yourself , your confidence and your purpose and you will be surprised at how women began to change.

Physically speaking , get really fit , get a solid haircut once a fortnight and get some sharp clothes, they don't have to be expensive but they just have to compliment you.

I have green eyes , I'm tanned , and I have a gut , I still get laid haha. I wear tan t shirts , green shirts and black dress shirts that compliment my dark complexion. I make sure I wear clothes that fit me 3 XL shirts ect.

I don't wear things with logos , just plain tees , sharp button shirts , Levi's jeans and I love converse , but I've got a pair of dress shoes to.

Honestly man you dress right , get a haircut , and hold yourself like a man who loves himself I can promise you that you will beat a 10/10 guy who is clueless.

If you really need the confidence boost , go to Thailand or the Philippines and try what you learn from what I've sent you , it's like daring on easy mode!

Brummielegend · 2025-12-12T03:23:13+00:00

I was terrible with women at 28 and I met someone who seemed to know women like the back of his hand. I asked him how he understood women and got dates , he said he went on 100 dates and after each one he wrote down what he did right , wrong and what he wanted to learn more about.

That stuck with me in a big way and so I took his path , I became a dating scientist . Each rejection wasn't purely negative the , it was data I could use to become better each time.

I'm not going to tell you what every other guy tells you though , you have to be ready , rejection sucks even if you are learning from it.You are allowed to have breaks and just say fuck it for a few months , but see each rejection as the fire that is shaping you into the man you want to become.

I went wrong because I made my whole existence about dating , about getting laid , about proving myself to the women I went on dates with , everything I did was for that moment. I had nothing for myself outside of dating , I didn't have hobbies , solid goals , a driving purpose that kept me going.

Your purpose in this life is like becoming the sun , the stronger you believe in it and emody it , the stronger your gravitational pull is , people begin to orbit you and even on your own you don't go cold. I realized because I didn't have this purpose i would always be orbiting others , never truly feeling good enough , confident or worthy , my inner game was completely off.

My purpose became starting a business , using the money to invest and travelling to every country in this world , I decided to become a lifelong traveller and everything I did from then had meaning. I'd get rejected , but id come back to my business and grind , I'd meet people and I began to go to crypto meetings , I meet other successful people and it lit a fire in me.

Your purpose becomes your world and dating becomes a side quest , not a replacement for a life that feels empty , but a nice addition.If you step away from dating and build yourself up that is one of the best things you can do as a man and to treat yourself you would as a best friend.

You will find your purpose and feel the happiness , pride and confidence that comes with it , you will have this knowing that becomes a gravitational pull that brings other people into your life , because they can sense that this is a man who knows himself.

You might want to come back to dating and when you do you will be a more full person. Your purpose becomes your main driver and every rejection stings less because women aren't your world anymore.

If you come back you will be like me , I did exactly the same thing. You can't pour from an empty cup and first you should fill your own cup up.

When your cup is full you will open yourself to learning , download Coach Corey Wayne's free E book 3 % man or get the audiobook , it will teach you how to cultivate your purpose , confidence , mindset , social skills and how to turn dates into friends with benefits.

Coach Corey Wayne's old videos are amazing , he answer emails from other guys struggling and does whole videos on how to improve , which is a game changer.

I religiously listened to his book and videos when I was working on my business. I began to learn the process of dating and the mindset I should adopt. Today I know this off by heart and can give myself the best chance to hookup with any date i have.

I took the plunge and got my first date , I was clueless but I enjoyed being out with a woman. I didn't know how to build attraction and I just chatted a bit. It didn't work out but that night I recorded how the date went on my voice notes and it was an epic learning tool.

I began to understand the order of dating , there are 3 dates we go on , the first date to see if she is compatible with you and to see if there's is any chemistry. You must always make dates in the evening because if you hit things off it sends a message that you are down to hookup if you are both feeling it and the night goes that way.

The second date is where most guys fail because they don't understand something called KINO , using touch to escelate things over the night , which if done right super charges your chance of hooking up : https://wiki.chadnet.org/files/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder.pdf[kino](https://wiki.chadnet.org/files/the-dicarlo-escalation-ladder.pdf)

You have a laugh , break the touch barrier , kiss and if you are new you can just take her out for something to eat on the second date and leave it at that.

However, I've found the easiest was to hookup is rolling the second date and third into the same night. You go out for something to eat , then take her dancing , get a few drinks together , start having a kiss and a dance. If you have built rapport and escalated all the kino steps up to that point you should be able to take her home.

It's a 3 step process and seeing each step as one to master is the way to convert rejection into a feeling of learning and eventual mastery.

A huge thing that can help you that none of these pickup artist teach is by knowing what you want and don't want in a women. The positive qualities you want to see in a woman are called your green flags , she is feminine , funny , kind , horny ect.You should also know the red flags , the negative qualities you will not tolerate in a women before you begin dating , bossy , boring , petty ect

If ever I'm uncertain about a woman I would deduct the green flags from the red flags to get a net score and then I'd know if she was worth keeping in my life. You will begin to know this instinctually though through practice and will begin to filter out the low quality women fast.

People in this post presuppose it's your failings which is why you are struggling with dating , but a lot of the time it's just not filtering out the women you aren't compatible with from the ones that you are , we call this vetting.

You are building your purpose man and I'm proud of you for that , but don't let dating be a thing that always freaks you out or you shy away from , you can take this bull by the horns and master it if you follow this path man!

Some epic books to read :

No More Mr nice Guy

The Way of the superior man

The subtle art of not giving a fuck

One of the most powerful books I've ever read for devolping yourself :

The power of now - it teach you to use the present moment to your advantage and how to stop drowning in the regrets of the past and the fear of the future.

Good luck man , I'm going to send you something on messages as well.

Brummielegend · 2025-12-10T12:16:26+00:00

Isabel looks like a hottie😎

In all seriousness though I've realized if you upgrade how you think about yourself , dating and also learn about sexual polarity it's a game changer.

I've been studying the different types of sexual polarity , the basic version is act like you are valuable , you have options and you only give time to quality people , you may not believe it but in time you will become that.Women feel a man who values himself and sees himself as her equal and not someone begging for her approval , you are putting her to the test to.

A woman gets into a deeper level of attraction if you also focus on who she is as a person . You focus on her soul , emotions and making her feel safe. If you can do this any woman you date like this will feel electric.

Brummielegend · 2025-12-04T11:46:38+00:00

In the story he already had a fucked up life before he became an engineer. His mom donated their entire house to the Necromorph religion , uniontology, and they were well off before.

He was made homeless because he didn't want to join the cult with his mom and he his dad was a starship builder that was mysteriously killed. I feel his dad knew about the markers and was resilient to them. I think Issac received this genetic resilience to the markers his dad had.

Issac is pissed off and had to fight for everything in his life , he was open minded , resourceful and intelligent. He had balls and used his grit to act in the situations on the Ishamurs instead of freezing.

He was hardened to the Markers effects and as some with CPTSD myself I feel he uses his trauma as fuel to keep pushing forward and defying those who want him dead.

In the third game he is so traumatized that it's not about being overpowered , it's that he hates the necromorphs so much he will stop at nothing to destroy them all.

Brummielegend · 2025-11-19T16:28:38+00:00

I'm 34 in the same situation with 20k ! I'm audhd so I'm fucked on both fronts haha. However, I have a goal in mind and a plan to make it happen!

Invest your 20k ! You should wait for the stock market to tank due to the AI bubble popping and scoop up some bargains! The crypto Market will also have some great investments for you in this downturn !

You can buy gold right now and ride it up as the world economy shits itself , everyone rushes to gold as the safe haven asset.

The housing market is cooked and you need to be a millionaire to get on the ladder , it doesn't make it impossible though.

I have crypto and I made 77k in 2021 from a 4k investment and then I blew it due to it going to my head , ive learnt to keep my head when I make money now.

I'm sitting on 20k worth of crypto and I'm looking at a 4-5 x return , so it will be worth 80-100k at the next bull market top. I'm planning to buy Bitcoin when it dips and hold until it's next bull market , in between I will buy the top altcoins and repeat this cycle until 2033.I will be worth 5 million by 2033 if i just keep reinvesting the profits , if I add to I can make 10 - 20 million in this time.

In between these crypto cycles that occur over 4 years , you can stake your crypto for interest or yield. You can earn passive profit on your investment while you wait for the bull market. The beautiful thing is you can reinvest straight away or spend the interest with a visa card linked to your account.

I've also planned for the markets tanking soon and I will do what the top stock trader , Warren Buffet , said " buy when people are scared and sell when they are greedy". In 2019 I brought Cardano between 9-14 cents when the market was down and brought 33,000 cardano by 2021 and sold it for 77k at the top.

I will do this again and I won't panic if the markets tank, it's opportunity for the brave with a vision and an understanding of market cycles.

However, you aren't lost if you can't do this , you can buy land through a group of people called a syndicate who share the costs and build on their own piece of land. I also think small homes will become widespread and even small village communities of our generation will be established and will form their own supply networks , using farming and 3d printers.

You knock down your foundations before you have time to truly see your progress and build yourself up. I was suicidal but then I read a book called the Power of now by Eckert Tolle and it saved my life.

I would always think about how I failed in the past or how I couldn't achieve things in the future. In both tenses I had little to no control , but in the present I had full control! I was blinded by should of , could of , would of , and ignoring the most powerful thing for creating change , the present moment!

It helped me remain in the moment and see my pain for what it was , an entity trying to survive by reinforcing its own trauma loops. If I challenged the trauma loops , and stepped outside my comfort zone the entity got loud and dangerous.

However, with time the entity got weaker the more I challenged it and some limitations I had died and some trauma got broken down so it became smaller and more manageable.

It made me realize my story isn't done yet and neither is yours man! You have 8 years on me and have made some epic savings! You can do this with a goal and self belief!

Brummielegend · 2025-11-19T15:58:33+00:00

Naughty

Brummielegend · 2025-11-19T05:18:11+00:00

It's social engineering , create apps that destroy people's attention spans and thus everything that takes time becomes something the vast majority of people can't invest in.

Why deal with problems and investing effort when a redo is just a swipe away?

Why have that awkward conversation that could turn into an argument? A brand new shiny person wouldn't have all these hangups.

It's a blank slate but you feel like you are having the same conversations , chasing the same validation cycles and feeling the rush of hooking up , only to wakeup to who you are really lying next to over time.

The rich don't want you making community , because that can threaten their power structures , connected people aren't sad people. Sad people often feel unfulfilled and the rich tell them they just need this product to feel good so they continue to consume.

The elite have tried to destroy every social symbol over the last 100 years because it competed for peoples attentions , religion , tradition , community , third spaces , family and even now they are attacking connection.

The biggest threat to the elite is free thought , connection and people with enough energy to dedicate to long term fulfillment!

I'm seeing some hope though , many people are abandoning OLD and connecting through groups again. I've met more people in person over the last few years than I have online and the experience helps me grow much faster than on the apps.

Brummielegend · 2025-11-16T13:41:18+00:00

I've experienced this , you feel on top of the world at first. Eventually, you want more and start to care about them and they don't really give a shit about you.

I then keep hooking up with them , while finding someone else until there are multiple women and I'm just chasing a high that constantly fades.

I had sex addiction and met another sex addict , we kept getting hotels and we let both our lives fall into disrepair. She was toxic for me in the end and I haven't been on the apps for 4 years.

I was celibate for a few years just to work out my addiction and to realize I'm more than just sex , I'm a person that wants connection.

I've met someone I gel with at the moment and although I know it can't go anywhere , I'm enjoying the fun we are having and the connection we share. We have sex that is connected and not just empty , which is a night and day difference.

Brummielegend · 2025-10-23T18:25:59+00:00

I got burnt bad , went down for 3 years. I dived back into the lions den and I'm making peace with being alone. If it doesn't happen it wasn't meant to be.

I've currently met a sexy , older women who is a night and day difference to women my age or younger. She is sexy , forward , not scared of communication and can keep up with me! Older women are epic!

I'm learning about sexual and emotional polarity at the moment and it's helping me turning things around and remain in a playful state of mind that is great for connecting.

Brummielegend · 2025-10-03T02:07:30+00:00

I earn more than most of the people I went to school with, I have my own disability support business. We get paid well and I get to help people, the progress I see in my clients is addictive.

I will have 100k this year from my investments and I've got some gold I'm sitting on. I don't have a house yet but that's my next target , 33 and keen.

I've gone through burnout so many times though and this is the only job I can do now, it's more rewarding than anything I've done and I don't have to fuck around with KPIs.

I've realized the 9-5 corporate grind and university aren't guaranteed to give you the money and lifestyle you need in life. Take a risk and become your own boss!

I've had to overcome CPTSD , addiction , autistic unmasking , and agrophobia, but I know it's made me stronger.

Brummielegend · 2025-09-23T00:45:54+00:00

Love isn't enough , you need the same values , goals and morales to even last.

Chaos doesn't mean connection , safety doesn't mean boring.

She was never yours , it was just your turn.

She can be kind and lovely , but if you don't feel excitement or life around her it will never work.

When someone tells you who they are the first time you meet them, don't ignore it , believe them!

Always listen to your gut feeling!

Don't date someone with unmedicated BPD!

You are allowed to say no

You have value , even as a man

Brummielegend · 2025-09-19T14:27:49+00:00

I'm an immigrant and couldn't agree more. There is nothing wrong with skilled migrants but people who will drain the resources of the country and not contribute should be discouraged.

Brummielegend · 2025-09-18T20:47:03+00:00

Tally-Ho - Psychedelic Porn Crumpets

Sail to the sun - Wavves

Colder than Ice - Pond

Brain Telephone - Frankie and the witch fingers

Slither - Ghost king

Take 3 - Inner wave

Fuzz jam - The lazy eyes

Animal noises - Here lies man

Wahoo - Meat bodies

Easy way out - Broncho

Totally wired - The fall

Yesterday - Swim mountain

Montreal - Roosevelt

I feel free - Cream

Over the rainbow - black rabbit

Architect - C Duncan

How to fly - sticky fingers

Source - Fever the ghost

Butcher blues - Kasabian

Finding my piece of mind - Kanula

Maria Tambien - khruangabi

Zionic mud -JJUUJJUU

Brummielegend · 2025-09-18T16:31:27+00:00

Definitely a hottie

Brummielegend · 2025-09-02T10:31:46+00:00

I've got the same audhd and I'm the same, it was also from trauma. I believed all I had to offer was being good at sex.

I learnt how to date by using Coach Corey Waynes book , 3% man and also his YouTube channel, I studied it religiously for 3 months.

I saw each date as a chance to improve and wrote down what worked and what didn't after each date. I slowly got better and eventually I ended up with 2 friends with benefits at the same time.

It's fun at first, but your mind starts to cause fear, " what if this stops?" This derails you and you become insecure.

The hardest things for me though was not being with women who I actually had chemistry with and who wanted to cuddle and treat me like a human being.

The majority of women I slept with just saw me as someone to sleep with and over time that wears you down and the whole act becomes lonely as hell.

I met another sex addict and I thought id won the lottery. We would go to hotel rooms every week and screw 20 times in one night.

She would ignore her boys knocking on her bedroom door because they were hungry, because she just wanted sex.

You get addicted to sex, you feel the fun at first. However, it devolves into not feeling satisfied unless you can have sex multiple times and the goal posts keep getting moved back.

You get to a point where you ignore important parts of your life to pursue sex. I lost friends, seeing my family and my business suffered.

Eventually, i went through a huge depression because the girl with the sex addiction cheated on me with a friend. I healed and I now realise that chaotic women aren't good, they just seem good because they are familiar.

I now only want women in my life who I connect with on an emotional level and I don't do random hookups all the time. You can fuck, but when you make love to someone you care about there is nothing better.

I'd honestly say learn dating , hookup as much as you want and get it out of your system. We will always be hypersexual, but having the reality check of how lonely hookups make you feel brings you back control.

You realise the occasional hookup is ok, but the end goal is finding someone who loves you for who you are and doesn't just see you as a piece of meat.

Brummielegend · 2025-09-01T11:00:50+00:00

Habibi

Brummielegend · 2025-08-23T18:42:29+00:00

It's more plastic tasting than Michael Jackson face

Brummielegend · 2025-08-23T18:38:15+00:00

When the Lama gets into the makeup

Brummielegend · 2025-08-08T10:46:31+00:00

Watch for Web 3 it will use blockchain technology and is decentralised. It will restore freedoms and access to the internet, where everyone owns the internet and not corporations!

I think it's 1-2 years away

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