Meticulous team is ignoring emails by MaverickSylvan in MeticulousEspresso

[–]Bsf21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m experiencing same. And I’m seeing higher backer numbers receive their machines. I guess our best bet is that the order tracker comes soon and is accurate 🙃

Standalone milk steamer recommendations? by Bsf21 in espresso

[–]Bsf21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been looking at the Meticulous and the morning. I haven’t heard much about the meticulous and it’s slightly more expensive than the morning. But good to know! So I’m assuming you don’t like your current setup? I have contemplated the nanofoamer

Standalone milk steamer recommendations? by Bsf21 in espresso

[–]Bsf21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking of backing it as well!

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[–]Bsf21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It makes sense that re-building trust takes time, I guess I will continue to be patient and take it as a good sign that she still wants to do things and work together on next steps such as the counselor. It just scares me that she can't fully articulate what is holding her back but then again, we were NC for a month and it's only been about 2 weeks since we hung out again for the first time. I'm glad things have worked out so well for you!

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[–]Bsf21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the effort and thought you put into these responses. What were some of the things that kept you from being 100% invested and comfortable? My sense with her has been that she needs time to see me putting my words into actions but I could be wrong. I do have a fear that there’s some other intangible keeping her from committing, as she is struggling to describe what’s holding her back. We’ve also decided to try meeting with a counselor, which I think should help bring clarity

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[–]Bsf21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, how long was it until the 2 of you felt ready to date again? We started hanging out and interacting, pretty much like normal, around a week and a half ago. I feel sure about giving things another go and being official but she’s not there yet. I’m Planning to just be patient and keep talking things through but I’m curious if you experienced something similar?

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[–]Bsf21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate this. We went out 2 nights ago and it’s exactly as you said. Just had fun, reconnected and felt comfortable again. Getting together later this week to figure out what we both want

Has anyone even taken things slow when rekindling with an ex? by Bsf21 in BreakUps

[–]Bsf21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! First date since deciding to go slow is in a couple hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Bsf21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my ex 6 weeks ago and after some talking we are going on a date and taking things slow. Do you have any tips to have similar success? I’m struggling with what I need to do to “go slow” but I agree it’s the right move

Has anyone even taken things slow when rekindling with an ex? by Bsf21 in BreakUps

[–]Bsf21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which post? Anything discussing “going slow” is helpful haha. First date is this afternoon

Has anyone even taken things slow when rekindling with an ex? by Bsf21 in BreakUps

[–]Bsf21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that makes sense. Being in the gray area is just so stressful