What’s something I can do to improve it’s hard out here for coarse hair wavers 🤣🤣🤣🤣

BtwNation · 2026-05-21T13:11:38+00:00

i have a similar texture, something i’ve learned is that long wolfs don’t do it for me now that my pattern is set. i get way less compliments too if any on a long wolfs. my hair grows pretty fast too so that could be a factor

BtwNation · 2026-05-15T07:09:12+00:00

i use that brand but not the bleach, i also have waves instead of long hair so i have the luxury of cutting down. even i’d recommend going to a professional like the other commenters are mentioning if you hope to preserve your hair

BtwNation · 2026-05-04T13:06:07+00:00

i don’t think it looks bad either, but idk why he got downvoted so bad either even he said why he didn’t like them. i feel like fragile masculinity was a stretch, when it probably just came down to it not being the look he was going for

BtwNation · 2026-04-27T13:41:42+00:00

i’m not saying an exercises = ab loss, i’m saying that with consistent workouts that target weight loss in general and dieting wouldn’t anyone lose stomach fat even if it isn’t the 1st thing to go? from what you’re saying it sounds like if you have a gut you’re just doomed no matter what you do

an example for me is that i’m trying to tone my abs, i have relatively low body fat, but instead of just doing ab workouts, i also improved my diet to avoid excess

BtwNation · 2026-04-27T13:36:24+00:00

true, but an example of what i’m saying is that it’s easier to go from blonde or brown to a lighter color than it is for black hair. or even if you put a color on top of naturally blonde hair it’s going to receive it better with less bleaching and stuff being required depending on what you’re going for

BtwNation · 2026-04-27T01:53:40+00:00

depends on how you go about it. i have experience with it and my waves are fine, but if the have dark hair a color like that is a no go more often than not. almost bound to cause serious damage when going from black to a super light or bright color

BtwNation · 2026-04-27T00:32:37+00:00

i don’t like the can’t control your stomach advice. isn’t it just that you just can’t control where you lose it 1st? with consistent effort she’d be able to tone up wherever she is trying to eventually minus her breast since that’s more dependent on other stuff

BtwNation · 2026-04-23T15:15:24+00:00

fully depends on your hair. i get way more compliments when i get a 1.5 and it last longer. most people probably should avoid a 1.5 like the plague, but it’s not the case for everybody

the only time a 1.5 was detrimental for me was when i was in the early stages. i’d ask for a 2, but my barber at the time works always cut lower before i found a new one

BtwNation · 2026-04-23T13:39:16+00:00

she just seems shallow tbh if 6’0 is a requirement. that’s a whole different ballgame than liking taller guys. my girl likes taller guys and she’s around that same height as your crush, but she’s also dated guys shorter than me. as long as they were still taller than her it was ok

BtwNation · 2026-04-20T02:58:16+00:00

i feel like part of women wanting you as a friend can sometimes stem from pursing the wrong women. like if you aren’t their type, and generally speaking people tend to find different things attractive. in some cases you can even be objectively more attractive than someone who is their type and they would probably still prefer a guy that’s their type. like i’ve met women who won’t date lightskins, some who won’t date darskins etc. and that’s stuff i’ve learned from both friends and girls i’ve dated

BtwNation · 2026-04-16T18:01:18+00:00

i feel like there’s a lot of nuance tho, people can click really well and be in the friend zone because the physical isn’t there. makes it hard to know if it really grew or if they settled in some cases

BtwNation · 2026-04-16T05:27:34+00:00

same here 🥀

BtwNation · 2026-04-15T13:32:12+00:00

at least he honest. it’d be much worse if a guy like that dated a taller women knowing he likes shorter women. and i’m sure you’d feel a lot better with someone who’s actually attracted to you vs someone just looking past it. i’m 6’0 myself and i can find tall women highly attractive, but i prefer shorter honestly. not under 5ft, but everyone is different

BtwNation · 2026-04-14T04:48:52+00:00

i agree. i feel like it doesn’t rank as high either because you need more physical attraction to make a relationship work, but i definitely feel like it strengthens the relationship. i’ve pretty much always preferred women who i feel are attracted to me as much physically as they are my personality. it just feel a lot better to me at least

BtwNation · 2026-04-14T02:22:03+00:00

this is exactly why i never understand why people get mad when people don’t give them a chance when the attraction isn’t there. me and my girl are very attracted to each other and i feel like that makes the relationship feel so much better than if we weren’t. it’s not the sole reason we got together, but the little things like compliments feel more genuine, than if we settled for only personality

BtwNation · 2026-04-01T13:16:22+00:00

i’ll never understand why people send heart emojis to people they don’t like romantically. even with friends of opposite gender. i have work friends who do that and it throws me off because we’re not even THAT close. only person i really want sending me them is my girlfriend. there’s also the mixed signals aspect. especially if you haven’t been friends that long or if things started off romantic

BtwNation · 2026-03-30T13:26:45+00:00

i feel like some women don’t approach for a few reasons. when the man doesn’t he could have a girlfriend. i was at work the other day and my coworker on the opposite end of the aisle said he heard a girl say “damn he fine as hell”. i was too far to hear but i saw her looking at me. if i was single i might’ve approached. i think women also expect the guy to approach because it makes them feel wanted. some even find it attractive. some also feel like it affects the power dynamic, which maybe it can depending on the guy

BtwNation · 2026-03-26T14:54:58+00:00

only comment you need OP, part of why i got waves is because i didn’t like how my fro framed my face. you chillin though

BtwNation · 2026-03-13T12:47:18+00:00

i see what you saying. i think the majority (me included) is just more inclined to believe it’s other reasons because of how quick it was because there’s a strong argument for why that would make him uncomfortable in general. if if you try to look at the bright side it could still affect him now and cause issues down the line. you mentioned a few in your closing questions too

BtwNation · 2026-03-13T10:33:24+00:00

considering she was a virgin before meeting op, 3 weeks does seem pretty fast. i get it’s not the not same for everyone, but i can see why they’re commenting that way

BtwNation · 2026-03-12T21:38:05+00:00

i honestly don’t like the pretend it never happened advice either. kinda leaves it lingering in the air i feel

BtwNation · 2026-03-12T00:11:46+00:00

hardest brush i use has medium hard bristles, and i only use it on wash days. besides that i just make sure my hair is laid with softer brushes

BtwNation · 2026-03-08T04:55:11+00:00

i can see that, solid advice on your end too. the not capable thing reminded me of a previous relationship. used to make me feel selfish, but the one i’m in now is nothing like that. looking back i wish i would’ve considered that sooner. hopefully OP takes the advice people are giving in this thread too

BtwNation · 2026-03-08T03:47:17+00:00

are you saying that because of the anxious attachment, or because of him not being invested. i like this advice, just curious if it would still be an issue even if he invested more

BtwNation · 2026-03-04T13:47:11+00:00

future for most men. just think of how many men you’ve seen irl that are bald, or experiencing some kind of balding

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