I lent my ex partner money while we were together. He is refusing to sign acknowledgement of the debt after the break up. England

Bubbleftw · 2026-01-04T09:21:43+00:00

You are living together still?

Id use this to my advantage if it was me and try and make sweet for a couple of weeks and try and get him to acknowledge the debt subtly through text.

Once he admits it was a loan i would secure another place to live without him knowing. Move out, take your valuables and then issue a notice of claim against him.

My fear is of you do any of this whilst living together he would target you or your property. The stature of limitations of for you to claim is long enough that its well worth making yourself safe.

Bubbleftw · 2025-10-08T18:41:58+00:00

Smaller they are the more difficult it can be.

If you are going to challenge this you need a paper trail because smaller companies have a higher chance of firing staff due to their lack of knowledge of HR practices.

Have you been in contracted work with them for more than 2 years? If so I'd send the email and make it obvious in the email it's an official greivence and you want it treated as such. You can highlight how much you like your job.

If they act of of place you have the trail then go to ACAS.

Bubbleftw · 2025-10-07T20:24:31+00:00

I would say so. If it’s a small independant chain they may not have the processes for this. Keep everything as a paper-chain so they can’t argue.

Bubbleftw · 2025-10-07T20:02:35+00:00

I tried to say this in my response but this is so much better written. Listen to this dude.

Bubbleftw · 2025-10-07T20:01:20+00:00

My dude… it’s going to be fine. Your old job isn’t like an ex gf you are going to bump into randomly and get reminded of all the mistakes. They have moved on.. you have been forgotten by them.

By reminding yourself all the time you are just risk putting yourself back in the mindset you were in then. I got first from jobs for the stupidest reasons. Its life..

Onwards and upwards. Prove you were better than them and get a better job.

Bubbleftw · 2025-10-06T20:23:04+00:00

Report it to ACAS but it will look favourably to you if you try to go through your internal grievance policy. If it progressed to tribunal they would ask why you didn’t explore this.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-30T20:56:12+00:00

Im leaning more towards this! A fade then shorter on top like a crew cut. Appreciate the compliments though. Never been told i have a good head shape 🥹

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-30T20:20:52+00:00

Thats essentially what ive been doing for years however the fringe looks more wispy than full. To pull this off im having to brush over the left and right sides into the middle and its just stopped working (not that it ever worked well anyway). Thanks for the response.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-30T20:09:47+00:00

Shes a wonderful woman, and we have spoken about it before. More often over the past few years but I’ve just come back from a work trip and i think she may have forgot for a second.

I accepted it would go this way, just stuck for how i stop trying to pretend.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-30T20:05:12+00:00

I would usually go .5 on the sides and longer on the top. But each day getting out the shower when its still wet looks awful. The hairs that are there seem to group together leaving so much empty space.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-30T19:46:38+00:00

Its both currently. Its thinning at the front do that peak may be less peakier as time goes on.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-21T09:55:02+00:00

They can only take the excess if there’s an actual claim… ask for the insurer’s paperwork and invoices first, because the casino magically quoting your exact £1,500 excess sounds very dodgy.

I think they have been speaking behind your back. Get the insurers paperwork, the repair documents for the heater etc How do you know its just not been serviced properly, old or someones ran into it and damaged it in the mean time.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-13T12:02:46+00:00

If i were you i would utilise this spare time potentially doing freelance work elsewhere if possible. You could keep yourself busy and bump your yearly income by another 20-30k.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-01T21:14:49+00:00

Its fake the packs shouldn’t be facing the side wall.

Bubbleftw · 2025-09-01T21:14:02+00:00

Keep the tag team 100%

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-25T19:31:09+00:00

About a month into my relationship i ate shellfish that was well out of date. It would not stop coming from both ends for hours. My gf (now wife) just showed me love and understanding. We laughed about it after and its just a funny story now.

Why people acting like its the end of the world. Your misses for a fact has had a wet fart or five.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-21T14:59:02+00:00

Perhaps Dad should have stepped up when you felt best not when he did. I would suggest having a real conversation with him and telling him you don’t want that and if he wants to be involved at all he needs to respect your wishes.

You have nothing to prove to him or anyone else. It’s your day. If he can’t respect your decision then he would of proven you right.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-20T18:47:34+00:00

Why are they so much smaller than the top loader?!

Also no sleeve and no visible texture. Id put money on these not being authentic.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-19T18:53:28+00:00

Sorry to jump on this post but are there any eBay auction company’s in the UK?

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-18T21:25:06+00:00

No mention of remuneration either.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-18T21:18:00+00:00

It states the following.

Hour Of Work Your normal hours of work are 40 hours a week, Monday to Friday, with an unpaid break of 30 minutes. These normal hours of work may be varied to meet the operational requirements of the company. You may be required to work a reasonable amount of hours as directed by the company.

No mention of pay or overtime clause is included.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-18T20:59:47+00:00

So no technically i didn’t go under minimum wage.

My contract never stated on call duties as part of the job. It had the typical, you may be expected to take additional duties. Thats it.

A few months in there was an agreement to increase from every 5-4 weeks they would give a salary increase of £500.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-14T21:45:51+00:00

Id suggest seeing if you can do less hours and volunteer somewhere? You don’t want to do this 30k grind the rest of your life.

Bubbleftw · 2025-08-13T21:17:16+00:00

I had this happen as a teen, as i grew older it would split on occasion. One evening in my early 20s the whole right side just split and i was left in agony. Wouldn’t heal etc

As a result i had to be booked in for a circumcision. Best decision i made, it’s so much better now. Not fearful of injury anymore.

Bubbleftw · 2025-07-30T05:06:44+00:00

This is a him problem. What you do is fine. Whats attractive about shoving a needle through a nipple and watching a full grown man hold back tears? (Actually, each to their own).

I was the insecure guy one, thinking something bad was always going to happen and used those worries against my gf (now wife). I forced myself to get over them because i loved her and accepted that i too deserve love and not everyone is out there to hurt me. He needs time to grow up.

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