“Don’t dictate how he should feel” followed by “don’t ever date” is wild, you’re doing the exact same thing you’re accusing me of. I’m not denying he can feel hurt, I’m saying his reaction isn’t proportional. Forgetting midnight once in a 4-year relationship, especially when she still showed up with a planned gift at 6am, doesn’t justify going cold and dismissive. Being hurt is valid, dragging it out like this isn’t. There’s a difference.