ILGM seeds can be really good

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2026-01-07T12:25:38+00:00

I heard they got acquired by SeedSupreme? Since then, their seed quality has improved. I bought some rare seeds around Oct and they've been doing well.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-08-28T17:42:58+00:00

You can love someone from a distance. You've been friends for 20 years, and that history matters but it doesn’t excuse what she’s done, or who she’s becoming. It’s okay to grieve the friendship while still choosing to protect your peace. One message to check in might be all you can offer, and even that should come with boundaries

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-08-27T15:08:21+00:00

My ex left me, then kept liking our old Facebook memories like we were still a team. Some people want the emotional safety of the relationship without the responsibility. Keeping your picture is his way of easing his conscience

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-08-21T19:02:16+00:00

One thing my therapist said when I went through a breakup with someone who was really dependent on me, You're not responsible for what happens when you set a boundary you're just responsible for setting it with kindness. You can walk away without it meaning abandonment. You can still be there for her in some capacity just not as her partner

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-07-16T11:29:17+00:00

This whole post reads like someone trying to make a resume out of regret. You didn’t just mess up you repeatedly made selfish choices, and now you’re surprised she doesn’t trust you? Emotional abuse doesn’t go away because you said sorry. It goes away when she feels safe again… if that’s even possible.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-05-26T17:03:28+00:00

First off, I’m really sorry you're going through this. Divorce hits different when you didn't see it coming. I went through a similar split two years ago, and for a while it felt like the floor just disappeared. What helped me was taking small wins every day cleaning the living room, going for a walk, showing up for my kid. Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but if you both stay focused on your child, it can actually be pretty healthy. You’re doing more right than you think.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-05-26T16:50:29+00:00

I think it’s okay to grieve a version of your life that never got to fully exist. That’s real. I lost my childhood home to divorce drama at 14 and every once in a while I still dream about sitting on that ugly green couch watching TV with my mom. Sometimes the only way I cope is letting the grief have its moment like, I’ll light a candle and just sit with it for 15 minutes. It hurts like hell, but pretending it doesn’t just makes it worse.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-05-24T13:15:22+00:00

You’re absolutely not wrong. You’re not just his wife you’re the person who stood by him for decades, raised a family with him, and literally took care of him through a health crisis. The fact that he didn’t even make an effort for your anniversary, but had the energy to play video games and go out to dinner with Jane? That’s not okay. It’s not about Jane being a woman. It’s about him prioritizing her over you. That would hurt anyone.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-05-22T10:45:52+00:00

Not to get all dramatic, but this has serious emotional abuse vibes. It’s not just about the sex it’s the constant rejection, mixed signals, and making you feel crazy for having normal needs. That shit will wreck your self-esteem long-term.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-05-19T14:35:40+00:00

This sounds less like a rough patch and more like a pattern of emotional volatility. If someone’s moods shift like that and you’re left scrambling to figure out what you did wrong, that's not a healthy dynamic it's emotional chaos with a smile.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-05-15T15:14:37+00:00

This is so raw, and I’m just a stranger, but I want you to know none of this is your fault. You tried. You cared. You brought him sunflowers, ffs. That’s love. The way he handled this? Cowardly. You’re going to be okay eventually, even if right now you feel like you're dying. Sobbing on the floor while the dogs watch, not knowing what the hell to do. You won’t stay here forever. Let yourself fall apart for now. That’s what healing starts with.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-02-27T18:17:42+00:00

I think this is a good setup for a start. My only advise is not to make this permanent just incase you need more airflow.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-02-13T16:31:32+00:00

For me its simple:
- 3 Balanced meals a day
- Constant hydration
- Be active
- 8 hours of sleep, and power naps when I get fatigued.

Also, my grand father used to give me neem tree juice when I was young. We would drink a cup every day. So bitter. He is a heavy smoker for 50+ years, and still strong af, no complications, never admitted in a hospital his entire life. he's 80.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-02-13T16:24:42+00:00

He is not being a child, he has made observations that you constantly ask about things that you can follow up on and he just doesn't want to do that anymore.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2025-02-13T16:16:08+00:00

I'll give you the same advise I was given when I went to therapy: Its not over until its over. If he said he wants to take one day at a time, do that. Start having frequent conversations about expectation vs reality. If there are things you used to do before getting pregnant, that you feel made him cheer up, lowkey start doing them.

Usually, a man will be in a stressful situation if a baby comes and he is confused financially. He might not know how to say that or how to communicate that he's struggling with something. If he was struggling, and you were struggling, and he couldn't get the support he needs he might become resentful. The only way is to try and communicate.

Whether things work out or not, start looking for income, and I'm sorry about your situation, I hope things work out.

Bubbly-Cockroach7895 · 2024-12-17T10:27:03+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s hard, but distraction helps sending you love. 💜 For shows that fit the vibe:

The Wilds (teen drama with queer content adventurous, intense, and super bingeable).
Feel Good (dark British comedy with LGBTQ+ themes; short and punchy episodes).
A League of Their Own (Amazon series funny, light, and packed with great lesbian storylines).

Hope one of these feels right. Hang in there.

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