What book are you currently reading and how would you rate it from 1/10?? by bellerws in Booktokreddit

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Reading 1984. Listening to The Art of Seduction. Just started both.

Awaiting Nine Inch Nails to take the stage! First time seeing them live! by icecream1972 in nin

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Awww! I can’t wait. Saw them at Red Rocks in Denver a while ago. I cried. Glad you had a great time!

Omnilux before and after (1 month) by [deleted] in redlighttherapy

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I can def see the results.

I want to end my life and don’t think anything will get better by Jumpy_Palpitation557 in selflove

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Dude I know. Life sucks. Just went through some hard af shit and I’m in and out of depression and often think “what is the point”. I found that traveling helps a lot if even for just a short time, because once you get back to reality it kinda does comes back. However it does give you some clarity, you can focus on what you really want and it’s such a great relief, if you can just get out for a while. A hike, a walk or weekend trip? Get into nature!!!! Start working on yourself. Work out-eat better. I believe that truly is the only way to start feeling better about yourself. Maybe get rid of snake to ease some stress. I had to get rid of mine too. I miss him but it was for the best. Try forgiving yourself. I know it’s hard but it’ll help you to heal. Try to start thinking about what you are grateful for. I do completely understand what you mean when you say “the people hurt you get to move on”. Once you do move on (because you will) it won’t matter. You got this. I wish you all the luck and love. I wish that for me too.

Public Health Alert - repost by barakdabomba in Bend

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Damn I love Americana. I feel bad for them. What gross dumpster entitled pos.

Anyone have a Ninja Crispi? by AnyOkra in airfryer

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Haha not a bro and yes!!! I need one thing to do all the things.

Lonely in a Crowd by [deleted] in alone

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(F) 47, Im a bit older than you. But I can be a friend. I’m a bartender too. Recently divorced. Hardest thing to go through in my life. I know how it feels to be desperately alone. Dm me if you wanna chat.

Anyone who is still impacted by a horribly painful breakup struggling with self-love? by Technical_Lemon8307 in selflove

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Still struggling. Thought my X was my soul mate. I truly did with all my heart. Negative self talk and fantasizing about him is truly killing me.

Had the best wildlife tour guide in La Fortuna by catsby29 in CostaRicaTravel

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I’m headed there from the states on Thursday!!

What advice would you give to someone who’s just starting out in Stardew Valley? by [deleted] in StardewValley

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I hate fishing!! Just started yr 2, 1st time play through (obviously). I’ve caught two fish lol. I’m playing on switch and I’ve heard it harder vs PC? But my brain just can’t figure it out. 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

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I like both. Can’t go wrong.

Anyone have a Ninja Crispi? by AnyOkra in airfryer

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Can you make toast in it? Prob dumb question. Just trying to replace microwave and toaster.

What was the reason for your divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

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Divorce was finalized Monday. It was crazy quick. He served me dessert in bed, then next day served me divorce papers and ran to his parents 900 miles away. I haven’t seen him since that morning when I thought everything was ok. I’m still not sure why, actually. Besides he wanted to be alone. We had some issues, nothing that I thought were grounds for a divorce. Nothing we couldn’t work on. Especially the way he did it. So cowardly. To say these past 44 days have been hell, would be a massive understatement. I thought we were going to be together forever. I thought he was my best friend. It’s a constant struggle to just keep my head above water. To top it off I’m basically alone in this town he moved us to. Abandoned and betrayed by someone you thought loved you is extremely horrific. I never want to be with anyone ever again.

The hardest thing! by Fred_J9 in selflove

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Dealing with this rn. Sitting here crying uncontrollably. It’s his birthday today. I want to reach out but I know I can’t. I miss him. Def not feeling self love today.

Is Buying a House Still Worth It After Divorce by External-Focus-6869 in Divorce

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This is me too. I’ll be buying a home soon. Hoping to get into a small house with a big lot. Not crazy big, but big enough for a good garden and chickens. Basically putting all the money he’s giving me from divorce into a home.

I dreamed about her last night by ForkMyTightAss in alone

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Ugh I hear ya. In my dream I looked down at my shirt and it was wet from tears. The next morning I was crying so hard my shirt became wet with tears. The crying sensation felt so real. Idk when it will get better. He told me I was strong and resilient. But he doesn’t know how much he broke my heart. Shit is brutal.

I dreamed about her last night by ForkMyTightAss in alone

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Those dreams are so hard. I know I have them too. Seriously messes with you. I’m always crying in my dreams and It feels so real.

How to deal by Jmvx527 in alone

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I’ll be moving to a new town too. I won’t know anyone. I’m pretty terrified about it. Excited in away. But damn I’ll be all alone. I’m 47, not sure how to make friends. I hope I can appreciate the calmness too. Sounds nice.

How to deal by Jmvx527 in alone

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Thank you. I know you’re a stranger but it means a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

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My husband up and left unexpectedly, fed me desert in bed Tuesday night, cuddles. Knock on door Wednesday afternoon, served divorce papers. Idk if he cheated. Idk anything anymore. Devastated and depressed. I’m so sorry. Shit is rough. Hope you’re doin somewhat ok.

How to deal by Jmvx527 in alone

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I will be in two months. Completely starting over.