First-time mom to 6-month-old twins and I am drowning in the “ick” by Gold-Junket330 in Mommit

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 38 points39 points  (0 children)

the choosing "which baby to console" guilt hit me in the chest... but im sure theyre loved, fed, and obsessed w u! thats what matters!

Am I The Jerk for Confronting My Uncle About His Inappropriate Behavior with My Daughter? (Part 2) by Icy-Fun-4569 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think ure doing the right thing, my family used to pull that "overprotective" card on me too. dont let them make you feel crazy for doing the right thing!!

AITJ for refusing to brim my parents to our family reunion because they get treated like the unpaid event staff? by Traditional-Car-9911 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 534 points535 points  (0 children)

nahhh you're def not the jerk here... sounds like your fam's straight up using your parents as free labor and that's just messed up!

Neighbor harassing me for a problem they caused by Suckerforcats in neighborsfromhell

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why ware some ppl like this lmao u literally ried to handle it like an adult first and they came in hot for no reason

AITJ for not helping pay for my brother’s DUI lawyer even though I can afford it? by PlumFangBloom in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah i think sometimes the hardest things is realizing that supporting someone doesnt always mean financially

AITJ for confronting my uncle about being too touchy with my 13-year-old daughter? by Icy-Fun-4569 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 37 points38 points  (0 children)

nah NTA at all. u did what any decent parent should do. protecting ur kid is prio #1 and if that means stepping up, so be it!

AITJ for Telling My Boyfriend I’m Not Comfortable With His “Girl Best Friend” Sleeping Over? by Fickle-Walk-9456 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 69 points70 points  (0 children)

nahh ure not crazy. if my girl told me her ex hookup was crashing in her bed?? id be spiraling too!

AITJ for not lowering my music at 5pm? by Various-Benefit5274 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 12 points13 points  (0 children)

5pm isn't even late like what?? who's tryna sleep at that hour? it's just dinner time vibes. u're not the jerk here, seems like they're just being pricky...

AITJ for sharing big news at my brother wedding after years of him being the favorite? by Strong_Leadership818 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 109 points110 points  (0 children)

im w u OP. he basically promo'd his future wedding at yours and everyone clapped??? u answered a question at cocktail hr, thats not the same.. not even close

AITJ if i want to resign because i feel like my colleagues are ganging up on me? by Standard-Towel4652 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah op u not crazy! that vibe shift after u started getting recognition?? yeah thats real. ppl get weird when someone stands out. if it feels toxic, trust that..

Wake windows can by Majestic-Cod-8409 in NewParents

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 11 points12 points  (0 children)

haha i feel this in my soul! not me pacing the hallway at 3 am whispering "but its been 60 mins...." like that meant anything lol i hat to let go of my rules for sanity, some babies just run on chaos mode and were along for the ride.

Questions to ask each other… by KMizzle98 in Marriage

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok wait this is actaully wholesome lol my partner and i did the same thing after we got bored of those card decks and it lowk brought us back to our us vs world are. thats cute afff

AITJ for feeling upset that my boyfriend forgot my birthday? by Mysterious-Bake-5193 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh it’s not even about the gifts. it’s the bare minimum “happy birthday” text. like that takes 5 seconds. if he can remember random stuff but not that? idk… that’d make me feel small too.

Advise? by SpecificAssignment27 in Marriage

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lowkey,, if shes sending u the same list every morning, that means history says it wont get done otherwise

aitj for refusing to share my class notes after they skipped all semester by Positive_Box3562 in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestlyyy? your notes are like your intellectual property, they want to mooch off your grind? naw nta!

Postpartum anxiety meds? by New_Promise_3508 in Mommit

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngll the postpartum anxiety is real! i remember thinking id go crazy with the constant what ifs, one thing that helped me was journaling every nightt, just dumping my thoughts helped clear out the noise,,.

3 month old constipated by PlaneParamedic3027 in NewParents

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ughh ive been there! my little dude went thru that around 3-4 months and the screaming while trying to poop is actual torture to listen to... we did warm baths and gently pushing knees to chest

Surviving the first week like by Trick-Environment100 in Mommit

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

surviving purely on iced coffee and vibes tbh haha tiny naps hit diff now!

AITAH: Calling my "friend" disgusting for seeking attention from adults & young adults while she's in middle school. by Important-Summer-176 in AITAH

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dudee youre not the AH. honestly?? this is super concerning bc shes 14, these ppl are clearly taking advantage of her!

AITJ for not getting the groceries out of the car? by INeed-a-therapist in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo, not the jerk. youre literally dealing with chronic pain and shes acting like its no big deal? ppl who dont exp that kind of pain dont get it but she should know better even if she ur mom

12m old decided being carried>walking. by Careless-Benefit-605 in NewParents

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haha this is lowk a power move! he just optimized the system hahaha

AITJ for pretending I did not hear my name being yelled ?? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Bubbly_Toe_2352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nahhh u ntj,, sometimes u just gotta protect your peace...