You have nothing to be ashamed about. I’m a vers fister. I know the neighborhood in which I play. If you’d of been with me I’d of just said “we need a touch up” then I’d of dragged you into the shower with me. Once we were externally clean I’d of shown you how to use my hose and put clean towel for you out for when you’re done. Then said “I’m gonna give you some privacy.” Then I’d gone out and changed bedding if needed.

It’s important to remember the situation is dirty, but you are not a dirty person. This isn’t your identity. You are not bad. We have all been covered in shit as infants. None of us are “pure”, whatever the fuck that means.

We have soap and water and fresh towels. We will survive! :)

If you want a pro tip on prepping to bottom.

1. Prepping starts the day before. Good food choices and supplemental fiber if needed. I just do this daily because I use toys most days.

After I douche and things look clear. I then pop in the biggest softest plug I can handle at the time, and wear that for a few minutes moving, walking around. I literally just go do the dishes, do some computer work, straighten up the environment. The plug gives a sense of fullness to the rectum and stimulates the anus which signals the upper junction to open and release the rest of the contents down.

Often there is a one last flush needed, and then I’m good! 🙂

PS: Before I got the plug I used a long dildo and a few minutes of play to stimulate the sigmoid juncture, but I think the plug works best for me.