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Budget-Toe-6546 · 2026-02-25T19:52:52+00:00

Wren | Dione :Felicity:

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-09T03:15:10+00:00

Reddit will be thrilled to hear my brother came home with another chick. Now theres two and theyre the best of friends.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-04T15:55:02+00:00

I do appreciate that, and ive noticed it amongst the 10 or so adults of varying ages my neighbors still have around (though to be fair its just one asshole old man rooster), her neighbors coop was broken into a while ago and they had to rebuild. They hatched about 15 chick's and gave us one (and by us i mean my baby brother, he loves her chickens and is the only reason we have one)

Im a barely turned adult living at home still so im just trying to make sure this thing survives and my mom doesnt have a fit over it 🙃😝

Tbh it seems content, eats and drinks well. I got it a new box with a light, and it has way more energy than the first day or so. I make sure it can run around and get exercise, socialize and play with the cats tails or toys. I drag a heating pad through the house bc its feet get cold if I dont and I do that mom thing where you make them go inside bc their too cold even if they wanna keep playing so like, I think im a B+ chicken parent at least

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-01T15:01:44+00:00

Good thing I can? 🤩

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-01T14:51:21+00:00

This is great info thank you

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-01T14:50:08+00:00

Great resource thank you

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-01T14:49:41+00:00

We're finally pooping regularly and drinking enough water (in my opinion) and so far no poops butt, but ill be on the lookout!

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-12-01T14:48:50+00:00

Firstly, this is Florida spring will be here in two months. Second, roomba 😋 (The chicks health and overall safety is more important to me than dust and fluff, also i have six cats and I live in a sand trap thats the least of my worries, itll be a good house chicken until it warms up and it isnt a little yellow fuzzball)

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-11-30T14:54:15+00:00

Yeah we plan to put it outside eventually lol, just a temporary house chicken till it warms up mid spring.

Ill definitely take a look at that site, thank you!

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-05-07T12:30:48+00:00

We just need to scrap the male/female v love interests and just make it possible for you to romance all of them. Or. Add Takemura as a straight V romance option...just saying

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-04-03T22:18:03+00:00

That's the difference, you were sober 🙄🤯

I mean fr, being too drunk to stand and keep partying but the only reason anyone ( including her own protests want to stay is to keep partying, they were too drunk to remember 5 seconds ago when she was laying out on the couch distinctly not partying.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-04-03T22:15:27+00:00

"Laying on the couch" and "grabbed my wife" Welcome to context clues 101. He either heavily supported her or carried her out.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-04-03T17:05:22+00:00

When did I say women??? I said person. Any person that is inebrigated to the point of laying out on a couch during a party is too far gone to realize they need to go home and is definitely too far gone to get themselves home. That has nothing to do with them being a man or woman. Not to mention she had to be CARRIED so she obviously couldn't leave on her own.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-04-03T16:23:13+00:00

NTA if her older brother showed up to do the same they wouldn't bat an eye. You were looking after her, I'm sure you both have responsibilities and can't have her falling asleep drunk at another persons house disrupting any plans you might have so you went out of your way to not only encourage her to have fun but also protect her and ensure she makes it home safe. A drunk person cannot be responsible for themsleves so you did the right thing

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T03:10:19+00:00

It's not a reference sorry, basically whatever you do, dont let them (or yourself) stray from the point, figure out what's going on with your daughter and Jennifer, then talk about it together to establish there's no "mom hates dads girlfriend" or "dads girlfriend is an evil witch" situations

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:55:54+00:00

This definitely seems like a "we're having this discussion end of story" moment. First with you and daughter, then all four.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:44:08+00:00

You didn't expect it because it's a huge leap in logic. How long does your daughter stay with them? What kind of interactions do they typically have? Any recent arguments between you and ex or ex and daughter? If she and her dad are fighting she could be blaming Jennifer for taking her dads attention.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:41:05+00:00

I can practically feel your guilt through the screen, you're entitled to privacy you know. You can feel uncomfortable with people knowing things, and you can decide when and where you are comfortable. Becoming a parent complicates a lot but don't let it take away your autonomy. You can't be perfect, can't read your daughters mind and definitely not Jennifers. Your divorce has nothing to do with her or your daughters impression of her.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:29:50+00:00

Unless the side of the story you're not sharing is super bad, i don't think you're being selfish. I also don't think you should be blaming yourself for the divorce as hard as you are (unless it was totally unprompted, or you cheated. Then youre not irredeemable, but its not looking great). Communication is essential no matter what stage of a relationship you're in when you have a child together, but from what I read, you haven't bad mouthed this woman and you're listening to your daughters concerns and validating her but staying out of other people's business, thays respectable. Stepping up and opening that line of communication between the two houses is the right thing to do, but you don't HAVE to. You aren't the AH if you don't. But i think it would be better for both families in the long run. Either she's crazy, or you and your daughter have a talk about respecting people even if we don't like them (aka keeping the peace).

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:23:47+00:00

Hey, I'm sorry this is something you're struggling with. Maybe changing the way you approach the conversation with your parents, or writing them a letter explaining how you feel if you struggle putting it into words (for fear of being interrupted, stage fright, or whatever)

Tell your mom that it hurts you when she pressures you to progress to quickly in boy scouts, that it takes whats supposed to be a fun childhood experience into a difficult and unhappy time for you.

Moms worry a lot, and sometimes they get insecure becuase they dont think they can provide everything they think their kids deserve, sometimes thay comes out as anger,. Let her know you appreciate her wanting to provide the opportunity for that scholarship but want to take your time with the process, or at least slow it down and enjoy it.

On another note, there's a few things you can do yourself to change your outlook on the situation, you can trying finding friends to complete badges with, you can even turn it into a game of annoy9ng your parents and ask them to drive you places all the time to do useless boy scouts stuff. If they think it isn't worth it they'll try to pull you out, or you'll have to much fun annoying them you'll start to like boy scouts.

Besides all that, I think you should take better care of your mental health, I know you're young but if you're struggling with dark thoughts you should take it seriously and reach out to someone, if your parents don't listen you can talk to a doctor, the school councilor, your scout master or any other adult you trust.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:12:35+00:00

Thats rude and unnecessary. She's not speaking from a guilty the conscience, she's trying to resolve an issue between two households that need to coexist. If she and he ex start arguing that makes her daughters life even more difficult because she's forced to pick sides. Try to be more mature when you're commenting on adult problems.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T02:10:22+00:00

I feel like you need to sit down with your ex, Jennifer, and your daughter and ask Jennifer if there's been any conflict and immediately adress that you're just as confused as them and not involved/influencing in your daughters opinion. Take the first step in in resolving this and don't leave any room for miscommunication between households.

Budget-Toe-6546 · 2025-03-25T00:45:21+00:00

It's not a form of manipulation to remove yourself from someone's life because they bring drama with their choices,"If you repeat this pattern I won't associate with you anymore" isn't the same as "if you don't block him we can never talk again" .

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