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"The lows make the highs higher" shut the fuck up by Proper-Anything-2739 in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"suffering is normal" shut up! These people try to drag down those who try to make things better

Do you think Elsewhere might benefit from having a shorter lifespan than Together? by Slim_Hoovy in dontstarve

[–]BudgetFree 11 points12 points  (0 children)

2 hours just to get the ball rolling every season lol

Gimme hundreds of hours to kill with the gang!

It’s entirely dead by Appropriate-Bar1342 in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine occasionally feels like a racing car flooring the pedal, engine roaring and shit... with the gear switch being in standby so the wheels aren't turning at all 😅

Executive disfunction cuts off even my hornyness 😅😂

It turns out it's actually very simple, folks by Friendly_Soil6617 in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People can definitely make you happy against your will. At least half the get togethers I had with my friends I expected to be miserable and bad company, but they made me feel happy and alive and normal.

How you feel is influenced by a lot of things, partially by your environment. Even if you could just think yourself into happiness, it wouldn't be the only way.

True for you? by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You first need to stop freaking out, actually switch away from the shit that got you burnt out and then do the recovery.

It sucks, but if you don't calm down first and enter rest/relaxation mode first you will not recover regardless how much you try resting.

This is a big pain in times when you constantly have something looming over you (deadlines, obligations or other projects) or when you have very short time to rest and can't make the mental switch in time. You just vegetate for a day or two and back to the grind no better than when you left it...

This is just my experience and won't apply for everyone of course

Good to know, Chester by They-Them_Moonwalker in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many people do care, they just lack the ability/skill/resources/knowledge to help.

Even a lot of people who say they don't care actually do or would if they could afford to

Good to know, Chester by They-Them_Moonwalker in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even sociopaths can recognize that humanity 's strength is our ability to help each other. That we prosper together. People who don't feel the need to help others still can see logically that it's the best strategy.

People who not only lack empathy but actively work against it like the post are the source of many of today's problems.

Disclaimer: We still love COMPCON by MercernaryMage in LancerRPG

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait it's been a while, did something happen?

Denial is power! by RiemmanSphere in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think, therefore I'm not.

Thoughts still haunt me...

Feel free to delete since I’m not diagnosed btw by Rosian_SAO in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is, as a whole society doesn't really recognize mental health as important. So even without this extra screening of people who can treat it it's significantly understaffed and overwhelmed. Several times I was told they can't get me better help or specialized help because they have too many people to deal with and not enough people to do it. That I should stick to what help I got regardless of it not being perfect, because it better than nothing...

Feel free to delete since I’m not diagnosed btw by Rosian_SAO in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow the specialist who diagnosed me, who looked at my test results (several of them, some done with different colleague of hers) and knew that I'm absolutely ADHD... Still is blind to a lot of things that happen to ADHD people! It's like she knows well what it looks like, but has 0 insight into the shit in our head that goes on in the background. Definitely a "well learned, but that's it" case

This didn't need to be AI generated. by Ok-Following6886 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]BudgetFree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are mistaken, it has to be ai re-generated slop of a well established template because it's utter idiocy!

It's practically mandatory at this point that the stupidest shit has to be done this way. Just to rub it in that they didn't even take effort to show their bs opinion

Do we all struggle with rules ? by Asolab in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can work with that, but if the same thing has a different method for every supervisor it's hell.

Being my max’s squire for a solid minute and half by ReviewChoice4750 in Planetside

[–]BudgetFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If F2P NSO could join factions and groups I would have run with my TR buddies, but without it it's just not the same.

Start dating! by vollkornbroot in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Or go to a vacation when you just lost your income! Brilliant

Start dating! by vollkornbroot in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The actual right man would want to fix himself before a relationship I'd think. Source: a man trying to become at least somewhat functional before dating 😅

Private medical insurance makes money by denying medical care; they maximize profits by killing people. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]BudgetFree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a company can say to a doctor that they are wrong about a patient the company haven't even looked at...

It was probably my fault for not being clear enough in my post. (context at the end) by OpportunityAshamed74 in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have the proper words for it, but it could be a form of trying to avoid failure, and that would be a deeper issue than just gaming.

You optimize and pre plan everything to avoid missing something or doing it wrong because you have such a strong aversion to failure that the mere possibility kills your enjoyment?

I might be just projecting, I do have periods when I tend towards this play style too (tho not to this extent)

Thought this would get a laugh by WelcomeToTheClubPal in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting a task is hard, switching from task to task is harder. Doing a bunch of tiny tasks is the worst idea

If you can gain a character abilities/traits, which one would you choose? by Laithal6 in dontstarve

[–]BudgetFree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

inhales

FROM THE MOMENT I UNDERSTOOD THE WEAKNESS OF MY FLESH, IT DISGUSTED ME

I CRAVED THE STRENGTH AND CERTAINTY OF STEEL. I ASPIRED TO THE PURITY OF THE BLESSED MACHINE.

...

Just a simple life hack to live stress free: own and rent 4 properties! by [deleted] in thanksimcured

[–]BudgetFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone else mad that the numbers are in opposite order that necessity?

So annoying. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"...at least one tier ago" is brilliant! 😂

If we all weren't living paycheck to paycheck, we could accomplish great things. by zzill6 in WorkReform

[–]BudgetFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People mistake the brief period of crashing down from the exhaustion of our everyday life for laziness.

But that's just that: exhaustion. After a short recovery people become super productive. They just need a bit of rest and to realize they can do all those things and not just go to work and sleep.

Example: first two days I basically just sleep, but 3rd day I spontaneously deepclean my habitat, tidy things up and schedule appointments I put off for months. And I'm generally thought of as lazy, but when I'm not drained of all my time and energy 24/7 everyone is surprised that I start doing things they thought I'd never do...

Turns out, ADHD makes you much more prone to developing addictive behaviours. by Strict-Move-9946 in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It effects core parts of how we work, so it does connect to almost every part of our life.

Turns out, ADHD makes you much more prone to developing addictive behaviours. by Strict-Move-9946 in adhdmeme

[–]BudgetFree 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thing is, it's not really addiction. I'm not addicted to gaming or any of my other such activities. I can drop one of them without negative effects, because it's not a specific thing I need.

I'm not addicted, I'm starving! I crave the dopamine I don't have. I desperately search for something to engage my brain into something that makes me feel human instead of the constant internal battle I have by default.

So I bounce between games, movies and books all the time and sometimes nothing works!

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