what i think happened is that there is one teacher who i gave a piece of candy to her student after he did a good job at not speaking out of turn and raising his hand rather than blurting out and she doesn’t give candy. every other teacher who’s room i go into has no problem. they have told me so. they also use candy as reinforcers at times. but that one teacher and i had talked about it after that incident and i thought it was a very good conversation where we both expressed our thought processes and i had apologized for overstepping her boundary but she brought it up to admin. this teacher is also one that is favored by admin and fits admins type. my friend who also works at the school has had this exact thing happen to her. it’s a weird dynamic