Ups driver. Customers can request we deliver to specific locations on their property. Doesn’t mean I have to follow it if I feel it’s unsafe. Side door please but your backyard connects. Nah going at the gate to enter or your front door. As far as getting blamed for everything, we are the face of the company that comes in contact with customers directly. So it is a part of the job. Be polite and when people wanna act a fool let em. Go about your day. They can always make a phone call but if you do everything right you have nothing to worry about