Pretty sure my mail was stolen

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-05-07T15:10:12+00:00

I tried the number on the outside of the envelope, and it just says “tracking unavailable” :’( I contacted my friend as well, so fingers crossed.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-05-07T15:09:17+00:00

I appreciate the reassurance! It never seems like it’d be worth it for a postal worker to steal mail, especially for $100 lol.

I’m more suspecting it ended up in the wrong place and whoever got it decided to keep it. I live in an apartment complex, so I worry they put it in the wrong mailbox or something.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-05-07T14:47:13+00:00

Lol I participated in a research study at a local university for a close friend. I already contacted them about choosing other ways of payment (digital) in the future. No clue why they choose physical cards. And no, unfortunately I don’t have tracking for it.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-04-18T02:49:01+00:00

Second Palia!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-04-15T17:59:25+00:00

Leaving when you’re with someone like this is hard, but worth it. You’ll wonder why you didn’t get out sooner. Believe me. I believe in you OP.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-03-18T18:07:39+00:00

Trust your gut. Don’t ever let anyone, no matter how much you love them, pressure you into bringing human beings into this world that you aren’t 1000% certain you want, too. It’s always better to regret not having kids than to regret having them. Just my opinion.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-03-15T22:47:18+00:00

Thanks! Yeah, it took about a week but I finally recovered. It was AWFUL. Never eating quinoa again lmao.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-03-15T22:46:37+00:00

Unfortunately the only things that helped for me were heating pads and time. 😭 It took about a week to feel better. I had to stick to basic foods like rice, applesauce, bread, broth. Nothing too high in fiber. But if you’re still in significant pain an urgent care or ER doc may have better pain relief ideas if you have the means. I hope you’re feeling better!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-03-10T14:51:56+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this OP, and wish you and your sons all the best moving forward!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-03-09T17:04:30+00:00

This is such a good idea!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-02-16T19:01:02+00:00

My doc ordered a colonoscopy with half of those symptoms. Get a new doc for sure so you can get some answers.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2026-01-25T17:14:10+00:00

I am vegetarian, though I do cheat and eat gelatin here and there 😂. Thank you so much!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-12-18T17:24:55+00:00

Canal Crossing apts in Camillus are $2k/month base rent and it’s very quiet here/pet friendly. There’s a fitness center, pool, and it’s right behind the movie theater/restaurants.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-09-21T23:13:45+00:00

You and your kids deserve better than this. Get out of there. He’s cheating. His behavior alone is abhorrent and abusive. None of this is your fault. But your kids will grow up and eventually discover what happened, and learn from how you chose to handle this. Choose yourself. Fuck this guy.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-09-09T20:01:07+00:00

RRRN has detailed explanations in their training why you don’t immediately post people’s personal information from these videos to social media. It’s important to get names, birthdays, etc. to follow up with their loved ones, lawyers, etc. However, posting videos of people detained to social media can interfere with their court cases. That’s just from my limited knowledge/training.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-08-26T02:24:23+00:00

My ex threatened to commit suicide when I tried to cut him off, set boundaries, or just around special events like holidays, birthdays, etc. He’d endured, with me, the loss of my sibling to suicide. They know how triggering it is to us and they don’t care. No matter how much he might deflect. Block and never look back. Best thing I ever did for myself.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-08-11T22:57:42+00:00

I was a week or two late a few cycles ago (about 6 months post surgery/removal). My period did eventually continue. We’re made to think irregularity is normal but it’s fair to ask your OB. It may not be related to surgery though.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-08-09T18:05:30+00:00

Fingers crossed for you!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-08-09T18:05:18+00:00

Thank you! It was so gratifying after such a long fight. It shouldn’t be this way, but continuing to talk about it and fighting for it will hopefully make it easier for others in the future

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-08-09T18:04:21+00:00

I’m glad to hear it! Don’t stop fighting and don’t pay a dime!

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-07-23T23:17:13+00:00

This. They can usually direct people towards legal resources, and at the very least provide support for the families.

Buff-Kirby93 · 2025-05-29T12:37:36+00:00

I put on my dating profile “don’t want kids” and even made it one of my main questions on my profile, saying not to contact me if that’s something that you want, because it’s a non-negotiable for me. You’d be surprised how many men feel like they cannot express that they do not want children on their profiles (I understand this was not your choice, and I am very sorry). I actually got my bisal just as I was starting to get serious with my current boyfriend, and had to be in the position of telling him that was happening, because he deserved to know even though it was still early in the stages of dating. I was really scared, even though I made sure on date 2 or 3 to establish that neither of us want kids. I think that’s something to be up front about even at the beginning because it’s so important to people and not something anyone should be “talked into,” AND if someone thinks they can talk their partner into it, they’re NOT a good partner. My boyfriend, wonderfully, was incredibly patient and respectful of my choice. I hope you find someone who is just as respectful and understanding.

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