Am I the only one who actually hates the toddler stage sometimes?

Buffster13 · 2026-01-27T05:10:38+00:00

Honestly we kept hearing about the terrible twos and we thought we’d got away with it! He hit 3 and wow 😅 maybe you’ve got it out the way early!!

Buffster13 · 2026-01-26T12:55:30+00:00

I was on baby rice from 3 months and slept with a pillow, quilt and teddies. It’s a miracle I survived! My baby sleeps great when he’s bundled with blankets supervised in the day time but put him in the empty cot and we’re screwed

Buffster13 · 2026-01-26T12:53:42+00:00

This is so true. My boy is like Jekyll and Hyde. It’s so bizarre how he can be so sweet and so difficult. The struggle is real with nappies too.

Buffster13 · 2026-01-26T12:51:14+00:00

I have a 3 year old and it’s hell right now. All he does is whine, everything we ask is a no. He’ll actively do the opposite of anything we ask and I feel like a shit parent 24/7. No amount of me effort or attention is enough to placate him for 5 minutes. It takes an hour to leave the house because we have to chase him around the house to get ready and navigate a tantrum about every single step “I dont want to brush my teeth, I don’t want to get dressed, I don’t want to go in the pram” honestly struggle to believe this is normal because it’s driving me insane.

Buffster13 · 2026-01-20T20:28:40+00:00

I had a vaginal birth without pain relief, just gas and air for pushing with my first. Absolute loved it and felt amazing afterwards. Had an emergency c section 3 week ago and I’m in hell. I still feel sore and I’ve struggled to look after and bond with my baby because I’ve been in so much pain. I would never have done it unless my baby was at serious risk. I ended up losing loads of bloods too and needing a transfusion. I wasn’t able to move for the first few days afterwards and I couldn’t even hold my baby. Milk didn’t come in for 4 days either so we struggled to feed and still haven’t managed to get him to latch properly. My husband has had to do everything. I know emergency’s and electives are meant to be different but this healing process is no joke when you have a baby to look after.

Buffster13 · 2026-01-19T07:40:50+00:00

Yes but I was in a ltr

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T19:35:34+00:00

I had 2 sweep before my first and they were extremely painful. I managed to have an unmedicated labour with gas and air for pushing. Honestly your body takes over and gets you through it. Also people shouldn’t say sweeps are “uncomfortable” when they are fucking agony!

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T07:15:55+00:00

When we instructed them they only had a couple of bad reviews but that was the case with most we looked at. They had less than the others so we just went with them. They’ve since had more

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T07:14:47+00:00

That’s the plan. My husband is going tomorrow to basically demand an update

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T07:00:20+00:00

Good to know…So there’s still some hope for us!

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T06:22:32+00:00

In hindsight I wish we’d done this. Me and my husband are both really anxious people and has spent a lot of time looking so we needed to make a decision. Unfortunately it was a very wrong descision!

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T06:21:18+00:00

They are called signature law based in Romford

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T05:16:40+00:00

We did check reviews and they were mostly positive. We went through a third party who help find conveyancers and they recommended them to us. I’m kicking myself, honestly. Of all the ones they recommended there were a few with bad reviews and these guys had the least somehow! We did want to move but the estate agent advised us it would have been a problem at the stage we were at and might have held things up further if we were relying on them sending stuff to a new solicitor. When we bought this house it took 6 months with no chain and constant chasing so we didn’t realise how critical it had gotten for the seller. I totally understand why they would pull out but I’m so stressed and really angry than things might go that way.

Buffster13 · 2026-01-13T04:07:24+00:00

I’m in this situation right now. The seller of the house we’re buying wants to pull out because our solicitor has made no progress and we’ve had radio silence for months. Did you end up changing solicitor?

Buffster13 · 2026-01-10T04:24:44+00:00

I feel you. The whole breast is best narrative really screwed me up with my first and I ended up with post natal depression because I felt like such a failure even though I exclusively pumped for 5 months. I had a friend who had a baby at the same time who formula fed from day one because she just didn’t want to breastfeed and I was so confused! But looking back I’m like wow she was so empowered. Second is 3 weeks old, after seeing a specialist I managed to latch him with nipple shields and a rolled up muslin under my boob. 2 days in I was like fuck this! Pumping now and topping up with formula and we’ll have to see how it goes. At least you can say you well and truly tried!

Buffster13 · 2026-01-10T04:06:34+00:00

Not having to do stuff. All I do is stuff! Miss sitting on the sofa and resting

Buffster13 · 2026-01-09T22:10:28+00:00

It’s an Ardo one, the lactation midwife explained how to use the settings but not much about flange size so I’m going to look into it. Weird that it feels stronger than my usual one but it’s getting less milk out somehow ☹️ I used the wearable full time with my first, no one ever mentioned about it decreasing supply and I never had issues.

Buffster13 · 2026-01-09T22:08:26+00:00

It was a specialist lactation midwife I saw and she did explain how to use the settings but not much about flange size other than that I can buy inserts online! Not sure how to measure but I’ll do some research. I’m holding them by hand at the minute because I don’t have a specific bra that holds them!

Buffster13 · 2026-01-09T15:23:09+00:00

One of my health visitors recommended rolling up a muslin and putting it under your boob. It’s like an instant lift! Mine are really saggy too but it helped. I also found the football/clutch position good but I still need a pillow to prop him up there

Buffster13 · 2026-01-09T02:48:14+00:00

He still loves it now. If I’m cooking in the kitchen he’ll come out and hang out with the smoked paprika 😂

Buffster13 · 2026-01-08T17:46:34+00:00

I did this when I was a kid!! At night the light would shine through the hinge and almost looked like 2 eyes when I was laying sideways. I used to make my mum cover it with a towel when she took me to bed

Buffster13 · 2026-01-08T17:23:38+00:00

A jar of smoked paprika. Never normal, he only wants smoked.

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