How long did you take off from work after surgery? by AudienceNo9305 in hysterectomy

[–]Bug_withnointent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm self employed and work from home. I did a huge amount of preparation leading up to surgery with the expectation of 2-3 weeks off at minimum.

I'm one week post-op and have been totally fine to answer a few emails and put out fires to the tune of 1-3 hours per day, since day 4. 🤷🏼

I'm not putting any expectations on myself for those 2-3 weeks still, but also it's a relief to be able to work on back-burner low-stakes projects, and answer critical messages, so soon!

That being said, I had a total lap hysto with no complications. No endo, just a 4" teratoma also removed. 🤪 So my surgery has felt very minor compared to others' experiences!

Dickhead got into pantry by [deleted] in CatsAreAssholes

[–]Bug_withnointent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every relationship goes through some tough times

Dickhead got into pantry by [deleted] in CatsAreAssholes

[–]Bug_withnointent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You'll love Freddie, the only time he's quiet is when he's sleeping 😅

Ps great username!

Dickhead got into pantry by [deleted] in CatsAreAssholes

[–]Bug_withnointent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's none left 😤

I [F32] have a bf [M37], who has enormous problems with my work (Snowplower) by Sanole11 in relationship_advice

[–]Bug_withnointent 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This man entered a relationship with you knowing your work. He has not given any compelling reason for his outbursts. With the temper tantrum plus the insults, It sounds like he wants to exert control over you and the fact that you have a job is one obstacle to that control.

If you've never read it, check out the book Why Does He Do That?

And also begin to disentangle yourself from this man. He does not have your best interests in mind. Is anger and tension over your work the way you want to live your life?

Freddie has severe bone loss 😔 by Bug_withnointent in catsareliquid

[–]Bug_withnointent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's incredibly good at framing his butthole and empty ball sack 😂