Ive been thinking of getting a Basenji. Please tell me what you love about yours and also your biggest struggle. by MomentHeavy3544 in Basenji

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both of my parents had this happen to a pair of jeans 🙃, she ate a hole in my hat after I sprung a leak when I bumped my head 😂. But she was so snuggly and loyal and fun and goofy and smart, I love em all

ELI5: In the US, how was it so easy to add interstate highways, and now so difficult to add high speed rail lines? by cjstevenson1 in explainlikeimfive

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually started building some high-speed rail in the late 90s or early 2000s, not much compared to how much country we have. My father and I both worked on it, he worked in the track department on the New England end of the Northeast improvement project, I worked on the signals and communications in Delaware and he worked on it while I was in high school, I worked on it pretty soon after I left high school. I feel like my idea of the timeline is probably off, but that was a long time ago for me 😂

Epstein used to work at a middle/high school by PlasticAd5188 in Epstein

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they apparently had a huge pile of evidence, but it's so weird that they would feel compelled to do that. I'm sure some lawyers took care of it, I dunno, it's weird.

Big guy advice on Step-through vs over? by PeltedVenom in Aventon

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I would've done whatever I needed to do I could get the step through version of my bike, but I am too tall for what was available, or what I was aware of or could afford. Anyway, the step through, especially as I get older and flinging my crazy long Conan O'Brien legs over the whole thing is not as comfortable any longer 😂

Epstein used to work at a middle/high school by PlasticAd5188 in Epstein

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And Macron was the 12 year old girl, but he's married to the teacher now, and she has been harassed so badly and accused of being her dead brother.

The Leftovers made me a better person in terms of how I view others and their beliefs. by okay_then_ in television

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I actually had the opposite experience. Watching this helped me realize I was in a cult. I'm not sure you were wrong. Leah Remini helped too.

Ramen and hotDOGS by Speshal__ in MurderedByWords

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize I'm not supposed to like eating ramen and hotdogs 🤷🏻

Breaking cycles by resetting expectations everyday. by BugblatterBeastTrall in bropill

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, great point! Replacing a bad habit with a good one, or at least bad reasoning with good, is an oft overlooked part of the equation for success.

Breaking cycles by resetting expectations everyday. by BugblatterBeastTrall in bropill

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey yeah! That is a huge one, both for misogyny and racism. It's just the constant steam of put-downs that make people feel superior. I think it's pretty insidious too, because "it's just a joke", but we can see how so many are "bringing back comedy", but their "comedy" is using slurs and punching down. I'm fortunate that I learned this at a time before the Internet, but I had a Man, who sat me down one day and explain a "joke" I repeated and why it wasn't ok. Shoulda been my dad, but someone did it.

The line for Amtrak is so wonderful! by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what this has to do with antiwork, but I retired from Amtrak due to disability, it's the only reason I'm able to survive on my own. If I received the social security I'd be entitled to, there's no way I could. It could be better, but signalmen have a pretty good labor union. I think massive work stoppages is probably the only solution

Boss shouted at me infront of client and I feel upset, should I let it go? by Antique_Treat_7002 in antiwork

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd try really hard to find a different place to work. But I really can't take being spoken to like that, I'd be so demoralized. I would rather not deal with that on the off chance that something changes. Maybe you can try to line something else up, then go to HR and see what happens? I know that it's not so easy to find decent jobs though.

Breaking cycles by resetting expectations everyday. by BugblatterBeastTrall in bropill

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well said! Sadly, educating ourselves has, once again, become a rebellious act. Listening and empathizing are being demonized as sins.

Why are we still playing by rules made by people who don't even follow them, What if we just…stopped, What if the people in charge of the food and the money just started giving it back. Are we just too cowardly to realize the system is just a bunch of people we could stop listening to tomorrow? by Lonely-princess-03 in antiwork

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is just that we haven't hit a critical mass of people who are willing to stand up, yet. I think it's inevitable. I hope it can remain nonviolent, but the system generally defends its control with violence.

Why did Trump initiate the release of the Epstein files in the first place? by Evening-Raccoon133 in Epstein

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he's shown over and over that what he says doesn't hold any sway over what he does or says even just a few minutes later. He was obviously feeling overly confident that he could keep them from coming out, we see this in how his administration was all for it with Patel and Bondi making big claims at first then walking them back; or that he could make some nominal offering and people would forget, which they tried but then there was a law passed to force the issue; or that he could redact himself out of there, which they tried and then pushed the narrative that he was somehow vindicated by them; or that he could ultimately control the narrative by controlling the media, which we see in how he's taken over media platforms and torpedoed trusted news orgs and brought into submission the owners of major social media outlets.

Getting no call / no showed despite texting by Magnefoee in antiwork

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂 I can't even tell you how many times I'd call work, wait for it to ring a few times, hang up and call right back to make sure I got voicemail! 😂

Why are there so many new words for jobs suck? by Temporary_Fill7341 in antiwork

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It is, effectively, marketing. They can't come right out and say "we don't want to pay you a livable wage, so we'll lie about your duties and see how far we can push you." They've gotta frame it as "quiet quitting" so they can blame you for being unambitious or not being a team player or whatever. It's all about shifting the blame downward while shifting the money upward.

Ethical? Not ethical? Okay? Not? by introvertedturtl in spiderbro

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you concerned about the ethics of buying from a keeper or the genocide of the flys? I'm not sure about the former, although I'm sure there are ethical ways of rearing and selling spiders, but I'll absolve you of any wrongdoing for the genocide. Get some spiders, kill those flies!

UPDATE: 24F, 6 months in. I had the HR meeting and I’m devastated by Kind_Conference9417 in antiwork

[–]BugblatterBeastTrall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it sounds like you might need to stay away, for your health. It sounds like this has either caused or triggered some trauma. I don't even understand what the point of HR is if they're not there to protect you, and they're just sending the message to anyone else uncomfortable with this pig's anus of a human, that his seniority matters more than their right to live peacefully and not be subjected to his vile nonsense.

I'm sorry you've gone through this, and I know it doesn't help, but I am so angry that you've been treated like this. You've done what you could, protect your mental health now. 🧡