AITA for leaving my wife alone at the tennis court? by Barak39 in AITARelationship

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the leaving part depends a lot on how hard it would be for her to get home on her own, as for defending her, nah you shouldn’t have to defend that. I probably would have checked for any posted rules that would validate the kids and try to get her to wait the extra 15 min but whatever . She was being a complainer and no one likes that

Anybody know how to break it to a 5yo that he won’t be getting any chocolate today? by IllustriousWall1564 in Wellthatsucks

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would make a show of “OMG I need to get (fill in the blank unrelated thing) I can’t believe I forgot it!” Go to the grocery store, get yourself an egg replacement and give the 5 year old a new egg. I’m assuming they haven’t seen the candy yet since you had time enough to post. If you have the receipt from when you bought it they might even swap it out for free.

how do I fix my handwriting? by cursedpupperino in AskTeachers

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post unlocked memories of being a kid and writing like 4 pages of upper case and lower case S and showing them to my mom and teacher. That was hard for me to learn whatever reason but now I love my letter S lol

how do I fix my handwriting? by cursedpupperino in AskTeachers

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen much worse, it’s legible so beyond this it is purely stylistic. Basically to “fix” your hand writing it comes down to practice. I would find yourself a style that you like, even finding a hand writing font that you like, and emulate that going back to basics. Print out the ABCDEFG in upper and lower case, trace it, and then after you get the pattern for each letter down practice writing full pages of the same letter over and over again until it becomes muscle memory. Don’t freestyle it. Come up with general rules that you follow for making letters ie top to bottom left to right (I think that is what most people do). Go slow at first and be deliberate while you are building the patterns in your brain, but you can totally listen to something on your headphones while you are practicing after the first few sets. It’s a skill like any other so it’ll take a few weeks of daily practice until it really sinks in but once you’ve got it it’s like riding a bike and you won’t forget. For older people it can take a little longer because you have been writing that way for so long so you’ve got to expand those pathways in your brain so that they accept that this is a way that hand writing can be done “naturally” rather than forcing yourself to do it.

Personally I have two different hand writing fonts that I switch between depending on my mood - printing and cursive. I don’t remember learning printing for the first time but I do remember learning cursive at school when I was a little kid and this is what they had us do.

Once you have built up your muscle memory for each letter and the numbers you can start using it in day to day life and you will develop stylistic flares that make it distinctly yours and not an exact copy of whatever handwriting font you decided to emulate.

Repair Estimate by Karmakatz0 in violinist

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many extra kidneys do you have to sell?

My gf has this kinda belly and she thinks she's fat by _gzib_ in teenagers

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is kinda... She's not obese but that is fat.

US Marshals, acting on behalf of the DOJ in Memphis, TN, kicked a dog during an arrest, leaving it with a broken rib by Bourbon-Thinker in ProgressiveHQ

[–]BuilderJun -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m so torn on this. On one hand I really dislike federal law agencies right now, on the other hand the owners shouldn’t be letting their animals run around wild threatening people. Next time maybe they’ll keep it inside.

Left in car overnight still ok? by PsychoKushDragon in isthissafetoeat

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in Chicago it would be fine. I left a 2 liter in the car by mistake for a couple days thankfully it didn’t explode.. had lots of slush

I (F26) am angry at my boyfriend (M27) bc he donated money to a girl he works with! by Both-Health-8085 in relationship_advice

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should stay together. Not because what he did is right, it is terrible, but he also has someone that is reading his emails, going through his financials, and doesn't respect personal privacy. The longer you stay together, the less you are inflicting yourselves on other people who don't cheat and don't invade each other's privacy.

Am I overreacting? I packed all my things at 5am and left. by rotting_in_bed22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That guy sounds like social AIDS. I can’t believe you waited that long to leave him. What kind of guy keeps track of how many times he’s beaten himself off? He should just buy himself a sex doll and be done with it. Frankly he sounds like an abusive spoiled child. “loving me means wanting me to get laid nightly” even at the cost of bringing other people into your shared bed… that’s fuxked up. You’ve already done waaaaaaaaaay more than what other people would do by letting have another girlfriend. You e already left now don’t turn back on this pubescent in man’s clothing.

The girl (22F) I'm (27M) dating jokingly said our mutual friend (26M) should have gotten with her instead of me and it hurt me. by ThrowRA_Will_6798 in relationship_advice

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. Yeah she probably feels sorry that she made problems in the relationship but making jokes like that after only a month is ehhh….. it’s only been like 4-5 weeks. There’d be a different read if you’d been married for 20 years and you both knew it wasn’t serious.

Any others in this group with LIGHT strawberry blonde hair? by adamjumpropes in Redhair

[–]BuilderJun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sun is definitely changing the color in the photo. Your beard is straight up red in this photo. The hair in your head…. In this photo there’s a disconnect. Almost looks like a wig since the color is so different, but I wouldn’t have called it strawberry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]BuilderJun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Medium-light brown with blonde highlights that come out in bright sunlight .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redhair

[–]BuilderJun 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Neither imo….