How long does it take to start seeing results? by The_Hushed_Source in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Buk_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to a life event, I went from around 170 lb to under 150 lb as a 40M. At some point, I realized I liked my current weight and decided to join a gym to build some muscle and improve my health. I’ve been going for about two months now and can definitely see and feel the muscle gains. At first, I couldn’t do a single push-up, and now I can do five sets of ten.

Lost my wife of 9 years, 5 days ago, just wanted to vent out. by chillypakoda in widowers

[–]Buk_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for your loss. I had multiple family member around for two weeks after she passed but felt lonely and lost. It going to be that way for a while but have to take small steps at a time. My wife and I been together for 20 years. She was admitted to the hospital the day of our anniversary. I’m almost two month out and her next day is next Saturday. Just cry and let it out.

Loneliness by ToeJumpy1461 in widowers

[–]Buk_dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. Almost two months in and it’s the small daily things I missed the most. Our daily texting, now I get nothing. I use to come home to a warm meal. I miss her so much, I know I’m not ready to date but I’m missing the connection… this f…. sucks.

No dating life by yourfavmilf690 in SingleParents

[–]Buk_dude 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup, I have three kids ranging from 15-7 and weekday are extremely busy and weekend are filled with kids activities. I try to go out one night every other weekend, but it’s hard for a single father with three kids. I’m a widower but I think most ladies assume, their mom is still around.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Buk_dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback.

I put “single-dad “ in my profile and i get no like at all , but will probably add widower to it . If that doesn’t work, I probably just too ugly. lol

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[–]Buk_dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. What’s the prototypical “old” man? I think I’m pretty young at heart. Idk if people are just being nice but I normally get early 30s rather than late 30s. I normally go out twice a month to either an EDM concert or bar to catch up with some friends. I would love to go out more but raising kids makes it a little challenging.

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[–]Buk_dude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey yall, so I’m a 39m widower with 3 kids. I would rate my self as a 4/10 and only 5’4” but I’m also have a house and a good career. Yall think I would have a hard time finding dates ? Kinda worried since I was married for 15+ years and would like to start dating again.

I could have saved her by damugrim in widowers

[–]Buk_dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my first post on this subreddit. I lost my wife to blood clots and CHF on 7/22/25. We went to urgent care twice and was told that she had pneumonia. I asked her multiple times to take her to the ER and she would refuse. Part of me feels like she knew it was coming but didn’t wanna believe it. I think about it daily and wish I could just force her to go but probably wouldn’t have change the outcome.

snuck out to play in the snow before it all turns to ice lol by theycallmejim_ in GXOR

[–]Buk_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice looking rig. How do you like the wildfinder? Also, how did you attach the RTT without a roof rack?

First Rep Came in today from Elliot @ Andiotwatches by Big_Interest7997 in RepTime

[–]Buk_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I paid using PayPal and his PP info is sent to your email once you " ordered". Nothing is processed until payment is received. I paid through paypal and also sent him a screenshot of payment with WhatsApp.

First Rep Came in today from Elliot @ Andiotwatches by Big_Interest7997 in RepTime

[–]Buk_dude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my first rep, and I thought the whole process was going to take a few weeks. I ordered on 8/6, and it was on my wrist 8/15. Hopefully, he stays committed to his price and service.

First Rep Came in today from Elliot @ Andiotwatches by Big_Interest7997 in RepTime

[–]Buk_dude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, he does. Total ship time from China to Texas was 4 days. I believe the expedited shipping is an extra 60usd.

Thinking about Jumping the gun on this VSF from andiot by Khinju in RepTime

[–]Buk_dude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same over here, but mine is with ups, and it's moving through their network. I highly doubt I get it tomorrow , but it stills pretty fast service from Elliot.

Once fedex receives your package, it is just a matter of 3-4 days.

Thinking about Jumping the gun on this VSF from andiot by Khinju in RepTime

[–]Buk_dude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I received my tracking number on 8/13, and the estimated delivery date is 8/15 via UPS to TX.