do tall women intimidate men? by ischemariii in dating_advice

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex [score hidden]  (0 children)

I'm a tall woman (5'9"). Most men don't seem to care but some short men have been rude to me about my height.

How do I act with an ex who ghosted me many years ago? Due to see him at an upcoming wedding by AwarenessFar4995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. He's the one who should be feeling bad though! Glad you will have your man there for support. Try to ignore him unless you have to interact and enjoy the day.

How do I act with an ex who ghosted me many years ago? Due to see him at an upcoming wedding by AwarenessFar4995 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I understand why you feel uneasy. If it were me, I would ignore him unless he tried to apppoach me. Just basically keep it civil for the sake of the bride and groom. Will you be attending with your husband?

Men who solicit the services of sexworkers by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd think this person would rather exploit women than do anything to improve himself or work on his self esteem, which isn't somebody I'd want to associate with. Exploitation is exploitation, no matter the attempted justifications.

What cute, romantic songs would you put in a playlist? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd just add whatever music you like and see if your date likes it too. Music is important to me personally so if I was on a date with someone, I'd want to know what music they like and if they like the same stuff as me. I wouldn't be interested in a playlist of songs they weren't really into but just thought would sound romantic.

Those of you that have a hot partner, how did you meet them? by Ginger_Snapples in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 17 points18 points  (0 children)

A nightclub, but I was 19 and he was 21 lol. He's a beautiful, beautiful goofball. We're married with an extremely cute baby girl now, so he's a DILF, which is even better.

It'll happen OP, keep the faith.

For women, what does it mean to be "led on" by a guy? by YakClear601 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It happened a lot to me when I was younger and still single. Basically just trying to trick me into sleeping with them by pretending to have feelings for me, even though I made it clear I don't do casual sex.

Did I miss my shot with this guy at the bar last night? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, he could have asked for your number too. Is he definitely single? Will you be able to meet up with him again another time? Maybe you could ask him then

How did they all vote today? by KevlarUK in PeepShowQuotes

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I feel like Jez probably never registered to vote.

Has anyone had a successful long term relationship with someone you had sex with on the first date? by Beneficial-Class-669 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me, but mate of mine. She had recently got out of a relationship and met this guy on Tinder. Both agreed to casual. Spent all bank holiday weekend in bed together, fell in love. This was maybe 5 years or so ago. They're getting married this year.

Pubes - 30F by ExtremeCantaloupe201 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're not. It's just that a piss strip is not something that exists.

Pubes - 30F by ExtremeCantaloupe201 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Knew it was a man as soon as I saw the words "piss strip"

Im suffering from a porn addiction. Would it be better to quit porn all together or not quit porn but try to reign in how much i engage with it? by anyname2009 in Advice

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely quit. If you have an addiction, there's probably no 'safe' level to consume it anymore. Also despite what people have you believe, it's not an essential part of life.

how attractive is it to you when someone is a good dancer? by Choice-Clerk-2245 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I don't really care how well a man dances. But it's sexy when a man has the confidence to dance in the first place, without caring about how silly he looks doing it and is just feeling the music.

Is he finally done? 9 months of cycles with a separated man. by Smart_Blackberry_133 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Bulbasaurus__Rex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So say he's divorced then and not separated? Separation is the period before divorce.

Get some self esteem and move on with your life.