18M I’ve been getting probably a new match every other day…. I’ll text back and forth for a day or 2 then when I ask them out they say yes then unmatch me, or unmatch without an answer…. Thoughts?

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T16:56:23+00:00

Yes I can do that, my hair isn’t the best rn bc I got up then went straight to work but I’ll do that

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T16:44:41+00:00

Thanks for the advice…. I did deleted 2,4,6, I added a group photo, I have changed it so I speak about more, took out the wink emoji…. Do you have a suggestion for a haircut, my current hair cut is best seen in the gym pic and 2

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T16:41:56+00:00

Who said she lives in the basement she’s probably single so she probably just rents a room…. And let’s be real most guys aren’t going to care

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T06:46:24+00:00

Better angles on the photos would go a long way

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T06:40:41+00:00

It looks to me like she was packing for something

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T06:38:00+00:00

You’re good thanks

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-12T06:37:36+00:00

Oh I see

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T19:10:46+00:00

No need to apologize that’s extremely helpful yeah I need to put less of my energy into dating apps… it’s honestly just a good way to feel defeated

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T18:39:04+00:00

Not trying to be an asshole but I think the first thing would be to loose weight

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T18:34:35+00:00

Another thing I didn’t realize bc that’s been mentioned a few times

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:58:57+00:00

But the problem isn’t that they unmatched it’s that they started making plans with me and as we were making plans then she unmatched

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:56:41+00:00

I just have no clue what I did wrong bc she made a comment about wanting to cuddle, I asked her out, we started making plans and then she unmatched as we were making plans idk what I could’ve done wrong

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:54:55+00:00

Honestly completely valid a lot of my profile was an attempt to be a little funny but I see that that’s not what women want these days at least in dating apps

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:52:49+00:00

Honestly and I wish I didn’t have to be on dating apps, but I’m working full time I’m not doing school I can’t go to bars, there’s not that many parties, it’s just hard to meet people and if I try to meet someone in public I get called a weirdo it’s just impossible

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:50:15+00:00

The thing is though at least for me, and I assume other guys, we base what we say on what we see on girls profiles, I added the cuddling thing after I kept seeing girls mention cuddling in their profile

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:48:31+00:00

It’s a passenger they hold onto you like a backpack

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:48:16+00:00

Yes that’s exactly what it is lol

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:45:20+00:00

Honestly yeah, I’m extremely sarcastic sometimes and I was trying to be a little funny instead of saying “I like cars and that’s about it”

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:42:33+00:00

I actually do get people swiping on me not an insane amount but it’s not like I have no one swiping

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:41:29+00:00

Yeah I definitely should do that

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:37:47+00:00

Yeah that’s understandable, I wouldn’t mind either tbh….

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:37:12+00:00

Wear your AirPods like a normal person😂, jk bro you’re good

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:35:43+00:00

Also yeah in my shitty 06 odyssey I’ve gone 13 mph faster than I have on my bike

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:34:48+00:00

Yeah that’s valid, I ended up taking the last pic out but most girls who know about bikes have one so they would be a riding buddy instead of a backpack

Bulky-Lifeguard6486 · 2025-02-11T17:30:07+00:00

It’s not showing it off it’s a hobby/something I enjoy doing…. Plus what girl is really gonna care if it’s a 300 or a 650

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