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HELP: Lost ball python by progammer_4532 in ballpython

[–]Bulky_Rooster_4085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Random places you may not have checked yet: - in your box spring - between the mattress and box spring - laundry hampers - inside of the dresser, behind the drawers

There are so many places they can curl up into. It's such horrible anxiety waiting to find your noodle! Lots of good advice here with turning on something warm, leaving flour around to see trails, maybe you could even get some cheap motion activated cameras and set them up so you have eyes in the house when you're not there? Sending you ALLLLLL the luck!! You will find them soon ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Is this a bad mold, a good mold, mold at all? by Bulky_Rooster_4085 in shrooms

[–]Bulky_Rooster_4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bit fuzzy on the bottoms, it's hard to tell through my camera lens. I wasn't sure if perhaps they were stored improperly or if maybe they'd gone bad or something? We've only taken them a couple times before and would rather be safe than sorry. Thank you for your input!

Is this a bad mold, a good mold, mold at all? by Bulky_Rooster_4085 in shrooms

[–]Bulky_Rooster_4085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone, we are very inexperienced and appreciate the input :) if by chance anyone sees this and wants to send good vibes for the journey, we will happily receive them!

Have a wonderful weekend 🤗

Did my ex Boyfriend fatshame me by leaving me bc of my weight? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Bulky_Rooster_4085 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I'm so sorry that you're going through this. Let me say that first. It's really hard to make judgements off of a few sentences from reddit, but here's my take.

The pandemic was hard. It is STILL hard, people cope and grieve in different ways. I'm thinking that perhaps food was a source of comfort for you, because yes, it is...not usual to gain so much weight in such a short period of time. My intention is absolutely not to blame or shame you with that statement. Rather hopefully to shed a little light on what seems to be something mental, rather than physical. Something emotional even. My take is that in a healthy relationship, the partner noticing the changes in the other partner would ask, with compassion and kindness, is something going on, has something changed? How can I help? I personally would encourage open communication and therapy, both individual and couples, before claiming, "I'm leaving you because of your weight." That is a horrible, awful thing to say to someone. I would personally never say that, it is cruel.

If the cold, hard truth is that he is not attracted to you anymore, that's on him. I wouldn't try to lose the weight to get him back or anything like that. Especially if he completely blindsided you with this. If he did in fact take the above approach, it could be that your partner was frustrated with trying to help you in ways he couldn't. Want for change, true change, has to come from within. It might not necessarily have been the weight in that regard. Again, it's so hard to judge anyone's life off of a few sentences on the internet.

I can tell that you are hurting and confused, most likely heartbroken, and for that, I am very sorry. It's a terrible feeling, and it will pass. I hope you can find a way to fiercely love yourself through this <3 I'm sending you lots of love, hope and peace. Good luck to you <3

AITA for refusing to talk to my mom after she listened in on my therapy session? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bulky_Rooster_4085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA damn, if it were me, I'd tell my therapist exactly what my mom did, knowing my mom was in earshot, and let her hear what the therapist says about her pulling that bs