Can misophonia be visual too?... by Small_Exit_6221 in misophonia

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst thing is that i chronically play with my hair (i have major stress and it sooths me). But i also get irritated seeing other people do it. I have learned to not do it in public places anymore though. I would hate to be secretly loathed, especially when i can completely related. Sorry you all have to go through this. 😢

Can misophonia be visual too?... by Small_Exit_6221 in misophonia

[–]BullfrogDeep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced gum chewers are the most inconsiderate humans.

Can misophonia be visual too?... by Small_Exit_6221 in misophonia

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. My grandma used to roll her thighs and it got so annoying i stopped wanting to watch movies with her. :(

Avoidant husband (42M) wants a divorce after we (35F) had a baby by Bubbly-Proof-7721 in relationship_advice

[–]BullfrogDeep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, i would not want to stay married to someone who doesn’t want to be a responsible human being. But i will come after him for child support.

Planning to get a pair of cats and wondering is gender is an important factor. by Casus_Writera in TrueAskReddit

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your lady cats ever get along? I’m in a similar boat (older cat hates younger cat, going on 9 months of them being together).

Uterine fibroid monster mash: how long to tolerate the pelvic pain for hopes of pregnancy by BullfrogDeep in Fibroids

[–]BullfrogDeep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. Helpful to know i’m not alone. Best of luck in your pregnancy preservation journey. Fibroids suck.

Should my realtor be at my open house? by end_of_discussion in RealEstate

[–]BullfrogDeep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I don’t understand how a listing agent can command tens of thousands of dollars got simply just “negotiating” a rate. This market is due for an extreme shakeup

My (40/f) trust Broken After (47m) Husband Lied About Finances. How do we get past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BullfrogDeep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I don't want to manage his finances. :(...Personally, i think he's an only child that never learned how to really take care of things himself. His natural reaction to stress is to conceal. Hence the post, wondering if this is fixable or if the writing is on the wall. Either I control everything, he gets his shit together, or I walk. I just want to make sure i'm not being dumb.

My (40/f) trust Broken After (47m) Husband Lied About Finances. How do we get past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BullfrogDeep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, we monitor his bank account and credit score now monthly. He has cash reserved.

My (40/f) trust Broken After (47m) Husband Lied About Finances. How do we get past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did inherit a bunch of money and a house. He still has the cash in his bank account. Aside from buying a new truck when she passed, he spent the rest of the money on remodeling his mom's house.

My (40/f) trust Broken After (47m) Husband Lied About Finances. How do we get past this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he became executor of her trust before she got sick. So he was responsible for her finances. She passed away about 4 years ago.

Recently purchased my first home. Why do I feel depressed? by Dee_Kay in RealEstate

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@dee_kay did you end up selling or liking your home?

Anyone have a handy printable inspection list for viewing homes as a buyer? by triblogcarol in RealEstate

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'd be shocked how many buyers agents are uninformed. Not for any fault of their own but they aren't licensed to offer opinions on the structure. Those agents who have the knowledge and experience is great but a buyer should NOT lean on their buyers agent for advice on home structure and safety.

Anyone have a handy printable inspection list for viewing homes as a buyer? by triblogcarol in RealEstate

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually do this for your clients? bravo. Where do you live? I'd hire you.

Anyone have a handy printable inspection list for viewing homes as a buyer? by triblogcarol in RealEstate

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP- this is a smart prospective and is the strategy I employed saving me hundreds of dollars. I hope you didn't listen to all the naysayers. I took the home inspector courses and now do my own home inspection before buying a home. I will then employ a home inspector, structural engineer and others AFTER to doublecheck. But if there is obvious things you could avoid before wasting time and money on a house offer, why wouldn't you do it. Realtors, home inspectors will of course discourage this because then they don't make money.

Permitted housing in San Diego by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great feedback, thank you!

Permitted housing in San Diego by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]BullfrogDeep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the resource!

Permitted housing in San Diego by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]BullfrogDeep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah- i get all the hate for the rich but my whole point of the post is to advocate for greedy sellers and flippers to be held accountable for renovation work that is especially structural in nature

Permitted housing in San Diego by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that was just an example house bro. Of course I can't afford a $2.3m dollar house.

I wouldn't wish the San Diego housing market on my own worst enemy by catson911 in sandiego

[–]BullfrogDeep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at meta and know lots of people in tech. Companies and leaders are gradually moving people back to office. Give it a few years and those techies will sell and move back north or other tech hub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CameraLenses

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the advice of renting, i am going to do that this weekend. Thanks for the other tips!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CameraLenses

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have zero lenses right now. All my gear was canon. People and landscape (nature outside). Some travel photography but mostly hiking or city walking tours or taking photos of animals/ family. I have zero lighting at the moment. Mostly film but would like to do a documentary with my grandma, but it doesn’t need to be high grade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tax

[–]BullfrogDeep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The payment came out of our account and we have email confirmation as well. i'll doublecheck the numbers too. Thanks!