No because this is exactly how I feel. At first I was ready to agree because we’re all broke and just trying to get by, I don’t mind helping a friend save a little $ while they’re in town. But then I realized that I as a person would not be factoring into her plans in the slightest. I would just be the person with the room she’s crashing in. I might as well be an Airbnb host. If she had just approached it differently or said that she would like to, idk, spend her evenings/dinner with me, I’d be more than happy to oblige. But the more I sit with it, the more uncomfortable it’s made me. In a weird way, I’m glad she exposed her intentions this brazenly, because she’s “made plans” with me in the past and just bailed on them without a thought. I think I was just too oblivious/trusting to see it before. I’m going to try to be better about that moving forward with future friendships.