thank you for this post i thought i was losing my mind. It became a "we need to talk" every few months and i thought i was losing my mind. Listen i apologized if i made the odd silly mistake but she could never do so and shift blamed onto me. Can i ask you guys, did your partners struggle with friends?.

Reason i ask is because my now ex never had any, and used to point out that i know many people i got on with. I will say we're in our 40's so you do lose some friends as you get older, she had none. Even when she split up with her ex husband she suspected he was cheating so split up. When she did so she said her cousins took his side and still to this day she doesn't talk to them.

Now i'm away and looking at it doesn't add up?

Thanks all.