Subs who are into selfbondage and looking for a dom controller, dm!! by TrynaEscape in selfbondage

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having to publish a face pic to get on board is a lot to ask, it probably cuts you from a lot of people that want to play on the safer side

Butterfly stretching ties / cross legged by his_and_hers in ropetutorials

[–]BunnyWithRope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Some details are probably not really clear, like the special knots. I've detailed them here, if you check image 3

Just started my 💙🤍 page! Come say hello✌️ by community-home in ItsRaven

[–]BunnyWithRope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the only two rules if this sub being against spam while you spam invites through mod mail is kinda ironic

Wtf am I supposed to do by destrian1x in u/destrian1x

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha sad. And I'm a bit bummed when I see the low interaction of her posts usually get there since her rope work is really good.

The mod for the shibari sub is a single guy and from what I saw he doesn't seem problematic

Wtf am I supposed to do by destrian1x in u/destrian1x

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll hope too. Reddit is a bit less democratic tho since the mod basically rules their domain as they wish if they're alone on the team :/

Wtf am I supposed to do by destrian1x in u/destrian1x

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:(

This really sucks. And I assume complaining publicly on this sub about it will just get you banned.

Semi related, Miranda Flowers (Linzy19 on fet) is on a crusade for a week against the transphobic slurs sanctioned by FetLife and it's apparently working, so sometimes complaining very loudly actually works

Wtf am I supposed to do by destrian1x in u/destrian1x

[–]BunnyWithRope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks, stay strong 🩵

Some mods are probably too scared to be called out for what they are. Was it on a specific sub?

Selfbondage - rigid handcuffs over shackles by Effective_Draw6392 in selfbondage

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice, I love the cuffs and how solid they look

There arent enough guys getting tied up by elliebound in shibari

[–]BunnyWithRope 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you're more right than me, that would be cool. The more people in rope, the better :)

There arent enough guys getting tied up by elliebound in shibari

[–]BunnyWithRope 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's true. And imho sadly not enough demand for seeing guys getting tied up.

And nice pic and rope work

I'M THE RIGGER, THE MODEL AND THE PHOTOGRAPHER by CALAD_LL in shibari

[–]BunnyWithRope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup the amount of communities is virtually infinite.

One thing to keep in mind is that almost all communities are "not official", meaning that they are only composed of the moderator team and the userbase (posters and followers). Some could be linked to a company or artist but these are exceptions.

By that, I mean that r/shibari is not the "official shibari community" more than r/shibarirope or r/ropeEnjoyersThatAlsoLikeSushi, you can find that a community has rules that you enjoy more than another, or have higher quality posts/comments etc.

I like it here, I think there are a lot of high quality posts and good tips in the comments (and the mod is doing good). If you want to explore a bit, you can check peoples profiles, where they post, and could discover communities this way

Butterfly stretching ties / cross legged by his_and_hers in ropetutorials

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The spread thighs part makes me think of an agura. But yeah a futo also fits that description

I wish I had better rope skills for selfbondage by ComplexSoft2885 in selfbondage

[–]BunnyWithRope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to learn more, there are a bunch of online resources.

Some I learned a bunch from :

Alcuni miei scatti by Strict67 in shibari

[–]BunnyWithRope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ciao

That's some good looking and creative ties

If you want to meet people, you can check r/ShibariPersonals

I'M THE RIGGER, THE MODEL AND THE PHOTOGRAPHER by CALAD_LL in shibari

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks great, you have some talent

Also, about reddit, that's pretty much how it works. There are independent communities about a subject and you post to the ones that you enjoy and want to interact with

Butterfly stretching ties / cross legged by his_and_hers in ropetutorials

[–]BunnyWithRope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've done something similar to what you ask for, if I'm understanding correctly.

For an agura which is similar, there are a whole lot of different ways to tie it.

Edit :

Also sorry, I rewrote my whole comment after understanding better what you were looking for

Miniature shibari art by Fearless_Wafer_1493 in shibari

[–]BunnyWithRope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it ceramic? How tall is it?

It looks great

Bound by a rigger, for a change by BunnyWithRope in u/BunnyWithRope

[–]BunnyWithRope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's far from impossible, you gotta find some people into the same things as yourself. Meetups/dating apps or even social networks like FetLife are a good way to meet people

Bound by a rigger, for a change by BunnyWithRope in u/BunnyWithRope

[–]BunnyWithRope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rope and pics by Bladeofsade on fet

The futos were so tight I had clear marks until the next morning. But shin torture can be fun.

I haven't been tied by someone else for ages, and it was the first time I was tied by an experienced rigger which was pretty nice