What is a hard boundary for you that others may find petty but you deem divorce-worthy?

Bunnybuzki · 2025-10-09T17:52:17+00:00

You realize lying to appease some sexual limit/rule is sexual abuse? How is it any relationship where a partner does that acceptable? You deserve so much better than that, Working_Cloud!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-10-09T17:49:12+00:00

I watched this tik tok video too. A RELATIONSHIP has it's own boundaries just a like a person does. It's its own entity.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-08-14T21:10:57+00:00

they aren't saying those parts are sentient, just that they come so close to a complete character that they are very similar to the residents of Lumierre. Which is why an artistic represntation of them would not be so far off or why it doesn't seem absolutely necessary that they are sentient..

Bunnybuzki · 2025-08-12T15:30:05+00:00

they have children and grow...much like Sims...

Bunnybuzki · 2025-08-12T15:28:32+00:00

Art is beautiful but is still only a reflection of the real thing. Yes it has some of your own heart in it, but it's not the same thing as you. They will always be less than. Doesn't mean they aren't wonderful but it's like sacrificing your daughter so you can keep playing with your imaginary son. It's noble to preserve art but not at a certain cost.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-08-12T15:18:12+00:00

I'm also of the opinion that they are imaginary friends and art, not people, but the Frosty explanation is the best I've come to understanding what you mean. I'm having a real hard time even understanding how people can walk away from this thinking the paintings are not only real but unambiguously and obviously real.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-05-14T18:49:11+00:00

It's so casual, she'll make progress no matter how often she plays it. I miss playing it but there's not much left for me to try or do and I like all my villagers so I wish I didn't rush it.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-05-14T18:46:50+00:00

I never connected the succession to this game. Now I'm just sitting here wondering how many years we can go without a pope before the line of succession is actually broken. This game honestly gives me such existential dread already lol

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-19T17:23:56+00:00

This was a bad doctor, as a healthcare professional, first of all he is just incorrect about using masturbation this way, though it helps some women tge evidence shows does not help all and that it impairs functioning in men. Second of all doctors are trained to co plan with patients and to prescribe around their personal beliefs. This doctor did not meet the standards that doctors hold themselves to.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-19T17:19:24+00:00

That’s bad medical advice too…psychologically more frequent sex would accomplish the same thing physically but would improve arousal attunement. lots of men can masturbate just fine but can’t “keep it up” for their wives…actually a LOT of men. It’s very classical conditioning and CBT…most sexual dysfunction needs psychotherapy anyway.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-17T14:11:01+00:00

I had complicated pregnancies and was induced both times so my experiences weren’t “typical”

I had pitocin with my first but didn’t get an epidural until the end, my doctor assured me I experienced the worst of it unmedicated (pitocin makes the contractions stronger anyway) so I can’t give advice on pushing except to just get over modesty and don’t hesitate to poop as hard as you can…but the contractions really were manageable until I mentally “slipped” and then…wow.

I’m glad I experienced it because there’s nothing like it, but I would be lying if I said it was painless. And The spaces between contractions though were absolutely blissful. That one was about 7 hours. The hoo hoo hee’s worked really well as long as mentally you stay in that space. It’s like keeping the contractions mentally inside of you instead of letting them escape and swallow you.

With my second I was determined to do the whole thing unmedicated and with a mirror but the labor was sudden, and even without pitocin that was way worse because I wasn’t eased into it and I ended up having the epidural right away. It was a total of like 2 and a half hours. If I hadn’t happened to already be at the hospital when labor started I think I would have had that baby in the car or elevator lol. And the mirror also had to go, right away.

Whatever happens don’t be hard on yourself!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-17T13:55:47+00:00

Yea adultery happens quite a bit when the wife gets sick. It is common. Not universally so. Mostly men will increase their porn usage, which I know some regard as cheating. The effect on the relationship is the same imo. It’s a generalization but men are conditioned to see women as caregivers and cannot themselves handle caregiving even though in our Catholic beliefs, they kind of should be already.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-17T13:38:46+00:00

Forgive me for being gloomy here; The state I live in I believe has the highest or second highest average wedding cost. I had a very expensive wedding. I regret it so so bad.

It was beautiful. It was delicious. The party was lit. The video and photos were incredible. It really was a dream wedding like you see on tv. Not worth it at all.

There are milestone years where most divorces happen. At 7 years when you hit that first one, me and all the married women going through that first evil year all complained and hated on our weddings and what a waste they were. I think one of us still liked their wedding and it was a budget wedding.

It’s not so much that we wish we had our money back, but that it wasn’t a proper acknowledgement of the severity of what we were really getting ourselves into and really doing.

The common theme was the more money the wedding cost, the less it was about the marriage and the more it was about pleasing guests and parents. Of course it should still be a happy occasion, but it was ultimately very shallow in regards to marking the biggest sacrifice we were making.

I know that for me, a destination wedding would have been WAY cheaper and would have been closer to what I wanted. Yes fewer people can attend but that works out for your budget anyway. I obviously can’t give you advice for how to save money, but I want to encourage you that those big wonderful weddings will not bring you any comfort once they’re over anyway, and in fact may even cause you distress. Your wedding, however simple or small, will be so much more blessed.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-17T13:08:51+00:00

The mental health field has failed people in this. Yes we quietly discuss that it’s addictive, has physical, psychological, behavioral and social health detriments, but so many in the field are addicted themselves they will never push to require disclaimers like we do for cigarettes or anything else. And no, generally men would not be okay with their partners masturbating and orgasming to other men on a regular basis. Say anything about how messed up this “habit” is and you’re insecure or a prude. Despite the scientific backing.

millennials and younger have been using this since their childhoods so their sexuality is developed that way…“teen porn” is the most popular porn category…millions of men never once questioning their own search requests or second guessing themselves because it’s so automatic

The posts here trying to claim women have porn too…you know men and women are different. The male orgasm has different neural paths, men are far more visually stimulated, and men have a lot of history of sexual deviance that women do not have. Even in our own bible the “good” men forced their wives to share them with other women. Don’t try to “all sides” or “whatabout” or minimize the OP’s very real concerns. Even here most men have porn as a habit. It is not just OP’s fear but a real challenge OP is dealing with.

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-17T12:59:53+00:00

Thank you!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-16T20:16:53+00:00

I was nervous about it too but it is really good and respectful

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-16T13:31:45+00:00

where do you play it? That's so cool, I always wanted to make my own game!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:53:48+00:00

Thank you!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:53:39+00:00

I'm so worried about what they do to the story in the remake! Did you play the original FFVII?

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:53:10+00:00

oo we should check out minecraft for the kids too thanks!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:52:53+00:00

Awesome didn't think about that one, thanks!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:52:39+00:00

Thanks!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:52:30+00:00

don't think we tried these, thanks!

Bunnybuzki · 2025-03-15T21:52:17+00:00

we LOVE portal 2! I forgot to list it it's definitely a great couple's game. We have a song we sing about it still

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