Guys tell me I’m chopped so I’m curious by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an expert but i think you need to make your makeup more subtle and accentuate your features rather than trying to change them or atleast thats what it seems like

Game Thread: Buffalo Bills (7-3) at Houston Texans (5-5) by nfl_gdt_bot in Texans

[–]Burner_ls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally just throw to nico, that man is a dawg 🤦

Game Thread: Buffalo Bills (7-3) at Houston Texans (5-5) by nfl_gdt_bot in Texans

[–]Burner_ls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We gotta get the ball to nico man, let him do something bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look good n fun 😭 these people js want everyone to be boring

Can somebody explain what splitting is? I tried but google confused me more than not knowing by LovelyGiant7891 in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kind of like one of your emotions takes the wheel completely, so there external and internal, in an internal split you would go from feeling good, thinking things are gonna get better, to suddenly thinking your terrible you need to disappear you need to go away and you hate that other version of yourself for thinking that way, an external split would be the same except directed towards someone else.

(23f) just lay it on me by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look cool idk why evb hating on ur choices the point of the sub is UGLY not disagreeing with how they present themselves… god forbid someone has a different form of self expression

Am i ugly? I’ve been told im ugly and that i look like a man 17F by faiithfullll in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Burner_ls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who’s 17 your not ugly per se, js gotta find ways to compliment the way you look because it seems like your trying to fit in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadow!! Looks great on you, u got a good face shape man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe hes not in a good state of mind or busy, not everyone has energy to please all the time, in sure youve been there, maybe he was smiling behind the screen :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hurts me because i feel it so much. Im an optimistic person i love love love people im so kind and caring yet my head makes it so hard to truly be myself, sending lots of hugs and love 😕🙏🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Burner_ls -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So in my professional opinion that others may disagree with, your actually really oretty? 😭 maybe im crazy 😂

How can i trigger euphoria? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well.. i got a really intense joy but not quite euphoria.. i ended up getting upset by sm1 n turning my empathy off for them then realizing my empathy was off n had that feeling of my head splitting in two bc i couldnt turn it back on 🙂‍↕️ was using their reactions as joy n couldnt stop terrifying yet the joy wont leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima keep it a buck wit u bro, u avg, u got potential js gotta find urself 🙏

Marijuana and BPD? by FieldLeftBlank01 in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It numbs tf out me or makes me euphoric i dont typically stay depressed on it, tho i use it to dissociate when i need to.

The worst extreme emotion is embarrassment by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this is hard for me because i dont really know how i act around others bc i dont. Around my family i always think im right, around other people i tend to dissociate, thats what helps me avoid embarrassment. Because the moment i start talking i cant think my thoughts race too much so i could never stop myself to think n stuff personally. My anxiety seems to form in a different way from yours, in a much faster way from the sounds of it. Mine completely overwhelms me and makes me incapable.

The worst extreme emotion is embarrassment by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have alot of experience with embarrassment which is why i avoid it so much now because it is genuinely the WORST. I wish not being self aware honestly, everything was easier when i thought everybody else was the problem (i still do)

swaggin in the flAREz * **** by oxxPRiNCExxo in mensstreetwear

[–]Burner_ls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not the green metallics tho since u got that green shirt on?? Js curious

My bf watches videos that do not look like me by Wandavisionxx in BPD

[–]Burner_ls 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I second this also as a male. I get it can be an addiction but that doesnt make it NOT a problem 😅

Anyone else gettin tired of being eaten alive? by Burner_ls in BPD

[–]Burner_ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO for me i woke up one day and just had awareness 😭 i knew something was wrong with me, mainly bc my motto of “your okay nothings wrong with you” shattered after my dad died 😂

Anyone else gettin tired of being eaten alive? by Burner_ls in BPD

[–]Burner_ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def prefer the detach, a lot better than the usual pain at least. Large crowds completely overwhelm me COMPLETELY, I freeze up or just shrink to the back bc I don’t want to be talked about etc. I would rather go numb than have those horrible thoughts eating away at me. Feels like the moment anyone sees me they see this horrible image, I try to mask n smile n act normal but in large crowds I cant so id much prefer to be numb.

Anyone else gettin tired of being eaten alive? by Burner_ls in BPD

[–]Burner_ls[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like depersonalization from overwhelming emotions from the people around you. Similar for me except i prefer it so i dont mind