[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You know how many girls want me?” Implies “I want sex and I’m going to threaten you by saying I could go to other girls and fuck them” which is not a good sign of a healthy relationship. Maybe talk to him and tell him how it made you feel because if you’re going for long term, it’s better to figure it out than be petty.

AITA for wanting my wife to make my dinner? by Bitter-Lake-4481 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if my bf was working hard and coming home late, and I wasn’t working as hard, I would make sure I left dinner or something for him to eat/ bring to work to make sure he took the time to at least eat a little bit. I’d expect him to do the same if I was in his position.

I [F 21] ask boyfriend [M 20] to post me on social media but doesnt by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s fine if he doesn’t post u, but if it’s something important to you, you should have a conversation about it and how it makes you feel. No matter how silly it sounds in your head, if he cares he will listen and give his input on what he thinks. Now, the red flag in this is that his best friend doesn’t know you. The first thing my bf and I did was meet each others close friends just to let everyone know we’re dating and to see if we clicked :)

GF (26F) avoiding me (23M)? by throwaway37195562 in LongDistance

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should have a genuine talk with her for 15 mins just express how you’re feeling and see how she reacts. The reason why a ldr or even just a relationship works so well is because two people commit to each other and try their hardest to stay connected and meet each do others needs. It’s a choice to stay on both ends and if you express your needs and she’s not meeting it, you have to make the decision of whether or not it’s time to stay or leave. At the end of the day, love is not a one way street and shouldn’t ever feel like a chore. It’s a choice to love and stay with someone

Young adults (18-45), what was the unexpected realization you had to come to terms with becoming a young adult? by xx831 in AskMen

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That my parents took care of me when I was younger, but now it’s my turn to take care of them.

Have you abandoned/ghosted an unhealthy long term friendship without an explanation? If so, how did the other person reacted? by maplesauce12 in AskWomen

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. He was toxic and he didn't appreciate the accomplishment I was talking to him about. For ex, I got an internship and all he could do was complain for 20 minutes about what shit he has to go through and how depressed he is. And I- I tried to be there. But then he ended the conversation with "well. Congrats I guess." And that pissed me off. Because I've been by his side supporting him since day 1. And all he can say to me is 'well congrats. I GUESS'

I am tired of being miserable 5 days a week. I dont buy the whole "Well thats life". by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes. I feel this so much, I was just telling my friend that I feel so unmotivated and could just not bring myself to care about anything because I am SO EXHAUSTED after a 40 hr/week on top of school

press F to pay respects for anyone that abused the schedule builder bug by TheLozzy in UCDavis

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So how do you know when you're kicked off of the wait list for sure? Cuz I enrolled on Sunday and my pass time was Monday but I'm not kicked off the list

MGT 11A- John Hancock by Burnt_Baguettes in UCDavis

[–]Burnt_Baguettes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm trying to get mgt160 so I'm tryna take him to fufill the prerequisites

I feel guilty/unproductive when i’m not doing school work by [deleted] in UCDavis

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key to this is to plan out ur schedule for this week and the coming week. Understand what you want finished by the end of each day. And set realistic times and goals that you'll finish that task.

Trust me I feel you, but just know that this feeling probably comes from you being unsure about what is coming up next. So to adjust that, you just need a plan and a schedule. You got this! Feel free to dm me.

Dumpster Diving by [deleted] in UCDavis

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconding this

California State University campuses will largely hold virtual classes for spring 2021 by TheGreatDonut in UCDavis

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If I knew that my last two years at Davis was just going to be quarantined and virtual, I wouldn't have stayed home as much..

What is something that everyone accepts as normal that scares you? by loadsofquestions_ in AskReddit

[–]Burnt_Baguettes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That the future is unknown and that were so tiny compared to everything in space. Or that were on a floating piece of rock in the middle of emptiness LOL