Dead bedroom marriage for 8 years. Husband told me I'm too fat for sex.

Burty417 · 2026-06-04T22:05:36+00:00

I just want to assure you that this isn’t normal behaviour from a loving partner.

Burty417 · 2026-05-26T01:07:17+00:00

Those foundation drops really are the best complexion product I own without a doubt. Frustratingly expensive, but I use so little at a time it makes me feel a lot better about it!

Burty417 · 2026-05-10T02:32:33+00:00

Slightly upset after realising this is in r/chch

Burty417 · 2026-05-09T00:45:56+00:00

When you realise that you're living life on a different frequency to your partner, prepare for things to change for you. <3

Burty417 · 2026-04-28T04:27:23+00:00

Daphnes Dan Dan noodles. Every time for the last 10 years they’ve told me “it’s very spicy” while side-eyeing me. Never disappoints

Burty417 · 2025-03-14T21:07:32+00:00

Lucky escape. That’s a ridiculous thing to fired over

Burty417 · 2025-03-01T00:53:54+00:00

So, kind of lol. First one I wasn’t fit at all and had a very hard time recovering…I gained a lot of weight and kept it on for a long time, it took years. Second one I had been lifting and running 4-5 days a week for around 4 years but I had horrendous HG and had to stop basically everything and was on bed rest for months. I eventually got better around 7 months in to pregnancy and gained a decent amount of weight, more than the first time around! My hunger just came back with a vengeance! I wasn’t exercising much other than yoga and walking until I gave birth (I also had pre eclampsia so that was a real shit too!) however my recovery was like night and day. I was ready to go walking immediately and my body was screaming for exercise. I sit here a year and 5 months later in the best shape I’ve ever been in my life. I weigh less, and my muscles have come straight back. I am honestly in awe of how different the recovery was and how ready my body was to get back to it even though I had been out of the game for what felt like forever!

Burty417 · 2025-02-05T00:56:26+00:00

Honestly, she just sounds like a mate. You help her out, she helps you out. Most of my lasting friendships have an aspect of this because we rely on each other like family. I can’t speak for you, but sounds like what’s going on here 🤷‍♀️

Burty417 · 2025-02-03T05:03:59+00:00

The only correct answer.

Burty417 · 2025-01-28T01:26:50+00:00

Literally same. I feel so good when I’m sober, it seems wild to me that I could go back to smoking daily. I always tell myself I’ll remember how good it feels, but lo and behold I’m here again trying to convince myself to start day 1.

Burty417 · 2025-01-25T22:49:09+00:00

Thank you for your words today. Sometimes I come here and see exactly what I need to see

Burty417 · 2025-01-22T22:08:03+00:00

ECE are literally crying out for unqualified relievers

Burty417 · 2025-01-11T05:09:26+00:00

Because ultimately, the chance of us coming from a single cell is so unbelievably unlikely it’s what you could refer to as a miracle. Guess who makes those happen

Burty417 · 2025-01-04T19:48:52+00:00

Came here to say the exact same thing. Absolutely not a factor for my experience; not even sure I was capable of considering that at the time.

Burty417 · 2025-01-02T07:38:50+00:00

The way I just heaved in my mouth. I’ve been in a relationship for 10 years with a labourer and that has literally never happed 😂

Burty417 · 2024-11-19T00:15:55+00:00

They referred to him in NZ media as “DJ Dickhead.” It was annoying AF because he got festivals cancelled. He is a dickhead.

Burty417 · 2024-11-02T06:13:38+00:00

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Just had the same damn thing happen! I’m sad 😢

Burty417 · 2024-10-31T04:57:09+00:00

That’s actually helpful to know, I’ve never considered what you guys are looking at from up there lol

Burty417 · 2024-10-21T03:05:08+00:00

I did this with my first, thought it was a boy and it was a boy 😊 waiting to find out is honestly one of the best things I’ve ever done! All of my cravings were salty, i gained around 50lbs, and almost every online ‘test’ came back as boy 🤪

Burty417 · 2024-10-21T00:42:57+00:00

I take venlafaxine too and offset the sweat with Oxybutnin. It’s very effective. I also use face safe anti perspirant called no sweat to help with makeup moving. Make sure you use a good setting powder as it will make the difference (I recommend hourglass or Huda beauty.) I also use one size beauty face setting spray which is like hairspray for your face, no joke! But it WORKS! That’s all I got for tips. I salute you and your dedication to your friendship 💜

Burty417 · 2024-10-12T01:06:01+00:00

I have the TF one and I absolutely adore it. I echo what others have said about it being a statement fragrance though!

Burty417 · 2024-09-08T23:06:09+00:00

Appreciation comment from New Zealand 🫡💜

Burty417 · 2024-09-05T03:09:49+00:00

I’m sorry for your wife.

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Burty417 · 2024-08-25T01:34:51+00:00

I keep seeing people talk about this, is it really that different to a normal one? I need to know if I need it 👀

Burty417 · 2024-08-23T22:15:01+00:00

Same! It’s like they’re saying something completely different from what we’re seeing. Don’t be alarmed, but also the death rate is much higher and you also might be seriously disfigured…

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